Pay Attention To Body Language In Conversation.
Some expressions and actions appear in conversation, often reflecting people's true thoughts, indicating that one side is interested or tired of conversation.
Because unconscious body language sometimes reveals more secrets than sound, so when you talk, you should know the function of these body language.
1) active body language.
The following body language shows the situation, you can think that the other side has been interested in this conversation.
The cheeks of the other side rose slightly.
This is a sign that the other side is just beginning to be interested.
People are eager to hear more about topics of interest.
His eyes narrowed and narrowed.
This is a reflection of each other's thinking.
He is not only listening to you carefully, but also in his brain.
The corners of the mouth rise, and the mouth is always half closed.
The downward corner of the mouth is a disdainful or disdainful expression; lips are closed, indicating that he really doesn't want to take part in your topic; when the corners of his mouth rise, it shows that his interest is aroused by you; while half open, he will talk with you about a topic.
Keep your shoulders balanced.
When the other party sits up, the two shoulders are uneven. It is a sign of exhaustion. The shoulder balance shows that he is in good spirits and is not bored with your topic.
The other person blinks fewer times and opens their eyes.
Frequent blinking indicates impatience, and a reduction in the number of times that shows that he has been attracted to your topic, and there is probably no time to blink.
As for the sudden opening of his eyes, he has understood what you mean.
The body is slightly forward.
This is the pronoun of "listening". When one listens attentively to others' speech, the body will lean forward slightly in order to listen carefully.
They often cooperate with the speaker.
At this point, the other side has been actively involved.
When he repeatedly replied, "well," or he nodded in agreement, his attitude could be seen.
2) negative body language.
The following body language shows the situation, you can think that the other side of this conversation has been disgusted or tired.
He began to cross his legs and pointed his toes at others.
He yawned and stretched.
Nail your nails, dig your ears and pick your nose.
Feet or fingers.
Look at the watch.
The hand is clasping behind the head.
He crossed his arms and folded his arms to his chest.
The legs are separated.
He rubbed his eyes and scratched his hair.
He spit smoke or smoke to others.
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