Grasp The Three Weaknesses Of Human Nature: The Basic Skills Of Dealing With Others

Some people seem to have developed a habit of bad habit, criticizing others and criticizing others.

Once a problem arises, the first thing they think of is to shoot the arrow of criticism and slander others.

The result is either hurting others, or being resisted by others, so that they can be hurt by others.

In fact, try to understand others and try to put yourself in the position of thinking. This is much more beneficial than criticizing and blaming. It will not only hurt people, but also make people feel compassion, patience and mercy.

"Understanding is forgiveness."

Why not have more gentle techniques?

The sharp criticism and attack result in zero effect.

Understanding and forgiveness requires self-cultivation and self-restraint.

The only way to really let others do things is to give them what they want.

According to Freud, a person's motive is nothing more than two points: sexual impulse and desire for greatness.

John Dewey, one of the most knowledgeable American philosophers, has another way of saying that the most profound driving force of human nature is the importance of hope.

The deep-rooted and eagerness of this demand is no less than the need for food and sleep.

The importance of "hope is important" is also the biggest dividing line between human beings and animals.

Many people do not get the feeling of being "affirmed" in real life, so they go to another world to seek. This is what we call mental disorder.

Don't forget, in social interaction, we are in touch with people, who are eager to be appreciated.

It is a reasonable virtue to give pleasure to others.

In your daily life journey, don't forget to leave a little warmth of praise for the world. This little spark will kindle the flame of friendship.

When you visit again next time, you will be surprised to see how obvious it will leave.

Each of us has its own needs. Some people tend to overemphasize their needs and ignore or ignore the needs of others.

Successful interpersonal relationships depend on your ability to capture the other's opinions; and, look at one thing, you should take into account the different angles between you and the other person.

A person who can put himself in others' mind and understand what others think in his mind will never worry about the future.

If you want to catch fish, you have to ask the fish what you want to eat.