How Do I Deal With People Who Are Stronger Than Myself?

Starting from scratch every day, always to the strong!

I appreciate people who are capable and willing to contact them. If I can meet such a person in my colleagues, I will feel very lucky.

Because if he is your subordinates, he will do a lot of things for you.

Don't worry that he will overtake you, get the upper hand or become your leader, it doesn't matter, because if people really have the ability, it's hard to suppress, and if you help him improve, he will not forget you in general.

Even if you forget, it doesn't matter. As long as you have the ability to do things, you will have greater chances of success, and you will follow suit.

Therefore, no matter my subordinates or my colleagues or superiors, I will appreciate them as long as I have the ability and knowledge, and I will constantly ask them for advice, so as to improve myself.

Sometimes, in order to be able to work with competent people, I also give up other better opportunities. Compared with others, I always feel that learning opportunities are more valuable.

On the contrary, there is often another kind of person in life: once the ability is stronger than the enemy, it is his own subordinates to try to suppress, is their boss to do their best to defamation, in fact the black sheep!

Such a person usually can't do anything important when he is independent, because his consistent calculation has become a bit of a broad-minded mind. He is afraid of losing money and is afraid to work independently. He always wants to depend on others to eat as much residue as he can, and is afraid of being robbed by others. Therefore, he is afraid every day, deceive the superiors and deceive them, and is jealous of all those who are more capable than himself.

I have been entrusted by a friend to a company to help me. After he came to the company, he asked me to have a thorough understanding of the situation, so there was no specific position at the beginning.

In order to avoid being idle, I asked him to keep secret of our relationship.

So I got in touch with the heads of departments in the company. Before I got a week, my friends came to me and asked me how I did it. Many people in the company reflected that I could not reuse it, or even better.

There is no concrete reason for this. It is nothing but my high vision, unreliable and so on.

I consulted a older confidant who was just in the company.

He explained: This is not your fault, but the current situation of you. At present, there is no shortage of people in the company, and all positions are occupied by people. The performance after your coming is very conspicuous. When you come in contact with people, you feel strong ability, and those at the top are unwilling to stay with you. That is, if you have more contact with the boss, you can replace him by the boss's approval. The people in the middle level think that if you can't be a top floor, you will surely be the lowest in the middle level. That may replace him, so it's no wonder that a sense of crisis is forcing them to do something against you.

He added that if you were appointed when you first arrived, the situation would be better, but it would not be completely ruled out.

Are you not afraid that I might replace you?

I asked him.

He smiled and looked at me with a very comfortable and warm eye. He said, "I can make you take the place of that."

You will not replace me. I believe the boss will have this vision.

When I left the company, I recommended this confidant to my friend.

My friend laughed and said, if I hadn't been able to help, he would have enabled this person.