How To Deal With Colleagues Who Love To Chew Their Tongue

What do you do when you find someone who says bad things behind you and secretly destroys your image?

1. review yourself first.

You should think about whether or not you did something or what you said, and let the other person see you disagreeable.

2. ask why.

      你可以問說：“我不知道發(fā)生了什么事，是否可以告訴我是什么問題?！比绻麑?duì)方什么話也不愿意說，干脆直接了當(dāng)?shù)母鷮?duì)方說：“我知道你對(duì)我似乎有些不滿，我認(rèn)為我們有必要把話說清楚。”

3. a euphemistic warning.

       如果對(duì)方不肯承認(rèn)他曾經(jīng)在別人說過不利于你的話，你也不必戳破對(duì)方，只要跟對(duì)方說：“我想可能是我誤會(huì)了。不過，如果以后如果你有任何的問題，希望你能直接告訴我?！蹦愕哪康闹皇亲寣?duì)方知道：你絕對(duì)不會(huì)坐視不管。

4. report to the boss.

When something like this happens second times, you can clearly tell the other person: "if the two of us can't solve the problem, we need to let the boss know about it."

Of course, not all situations must be reported to the boss.