"Lubricants" In Interpersonal Relationships

Addressing and greeting

(1) address

Address is regarded as an anxious pioneer, a barometer of interpersonal harmony, and so on. In real life, some people worry about holding the scale of no name.

Xiao Wang, who just went to work, was embarrassed by this. On that day, she was the Minister of the company. She was 40 years old, but she was as young as twenty five or six years old.

The minister listened, Hei hei happy, very easygoing, said: "don't be so serious, call me Xiao X."

When I met the minister, my mind turned seven or eight times, but I still didn't know what to call him.

Colleague Xiao Li also encountered how to address each other, precisely because he could not call his colleagues, and the cat was in the office all day, afraid to go out.

For fear of meeting a colleague who does not know how to address him, there is still a real leak in the rain. The more he does not want to bump into such a situation, the more he lets him catch up. Even if he goes to the bathroom last time, he will bump into a colleague who can not be sure how to address him.

In real life, addressing is a problem that none of us can avoid.

In fact, Xiao Wang and Xiao Li can only observe the names of others, but keep consistent with others. Following this point, they will not make too many mistakes in general.

There is no need to worry about distraction.

Generally speaking, appellation is a kind of gradual and casual change with the increasing friendship.

In the near future, the whole family name is called.

In the near future, we can be brothers.

However, people often get to know the joke on the address.

For example, some people are not sure about the marital status of a woman. Madam says that it is no harm to miss a lady. If you call a lady a lady, you will not be embarrassed. If you call a young lady "Miss", it is easy to be understood. Western women think it is a pleasant mistake.

In social occasions, the average man is called mister, lady, madam, miss.

A married woman is called a lady. The unmarried woman is collectively referred to as a young lady.

Just like some young women who are "girls" who are unacquainted with their elders, they will be very happy in their hearts.

When addressing each other, they should follow the order of superiors, subordinates, elders, younger generation, ladies and men.

(2) Greeting

Greeting is a kind of communication relationship between greeting people and greeting people.

It's impolite to pretend that you don't see someone who greets you or someone greets you.

1. "did you eat?"

This is a commonly used greeting in Chinese history.

In the long feudal society of China, what most labor demands is to have enough to eat.

Therefore, asking the other person to eat is a concern of the other party.

With the improvement of the living standard of our people, the problem of eating has been solved. However, the greeting of "have you eaten" has been handed down.

But now, this greeting basically has no original meaning.

It is just a form that no longer contains the original content. "Is it what you eat" is merely a greeting, which means, "I saw you and greeted you."

As for the other party, it is irrelevant that they really muddle through and do not eat.

Therefore, in the economically developed areas, "you have eaten" questions gradually replaced by new greetings.