Revealing The Morbid Psychology In Interpersonal Communication

Good psychological quality is a necessary condition for people to engage in extensive social activities. It is also a prerequisite for language skills to fully exert their communicative competence.

On the contrary, poor mental state will form some barriers and barriers, to a certain extent, impeding people making friends and adapting to society.

Therefore, we should pay attention to self cultivation in our work and life, and strive to overcome the morbid psychology in the following interpersonal relationships.

Inferiority complex: some people tend to feel inferiority or even despise themselves. They only know that they are short and do not know their merits. They are willing to live under the crowd, lack of due confidence and fail to give full play to their strengths and strengths.

People with inferiority complex do not have the courage to act in social interaction. They are accustomed to echoing with others and do not have their own opinions.

If this mindset does not change, as time passes, it may gradually wear away the courage, courage and unique personality of a person.

Cowardice: it is mainly seen in people who are not deep in the world, shallow in experience, introverted in character, and not good at words.

Cowardice hinders the realization of plans and ideas.

Cowardice is the rope that restraints thoughts and actions. It should be broken and abandoned.

Suspicions: people who have suspicion or suspicion often love to look at each other and look at things outside with distrust. Whenever they see what others are saying, they think they are talking bad things about themselves.

Those who are jealous of their desires often catch up with others and make trouble.

Reverse psychology: some people always like to argue with others to show their novelty.

For anything, whether it is right or wrong, you say that he says bad; you say he says two, you say pepper is hot, he says it is not spicy.

Rebellious psychology is easy to blur the strict boundaries of right and wrong, often causing people's resentment and disgust.

Exclusion Psychology: the existing knowledge, experience and way of thinking of human beings need to be constantly updated, otherwise they will lose vitality or even produce side effects.

Exclusion psychology just ignores this point. It shows a lack of integrity, refuses to expand thinking, and encourages people to circle in the narrow space that they are closed.

The psychology of acting: some people regard making friends as an occasion to play a trick.

Such a way of communication between people is just doing superficial work, and often can not get real friendship and friends.

Greedy Psychology: some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "make use of each other", so they only make friends with people who are useful to themselves and can bring benefits to themselves, and often they are "breaking the bridges".

Such a psychological advantage in interpersonal communication will damage their personality.

Apathy: some people are indifferent to people and things that are not related to themselves. They even wrongly think that language is acrimonious, arrogant and arrogant. It is their own "personality" that makes others afraid to approach themselves, thereby losing more friends.