Seven Lessons Learned From Liu Bei'S Pioneering Work

Lesson 1 fate is a hawk that is reduced to chicken coop.

Let's talk about the general trend of life, whether success or failure, care about one mind.

Popularly speaking, no matter the rich family or the poor family, no matter the small town or the industrial and commercial giant, everyone is using his own idea to decide and enter his living state, and to interpret his living state as success, failure or fate.

In the field of educational psychology, there is a famous saying: "sow an idea, harvest a behavior; sow an act, harvest a habit; sow a habit, harvest a character; sow a character, and reap a destiny."

A good interpretation of the interactive relationship between thought and fate.

Liu Bei, a poor boy, used his life experience to interpret this classic saying very well.

Liu Bei is a student in Zhuozhou, Hebei.

Because the death of a father at a young age depends on the widowed mother's breadth of support.

On a winter night in high school, Liu Bei returned home after the evening study, and saw his mother sewing cotton boots under dim lights.

Liu Bei said, "Mom, it's freezing cold. Go to bed early!"

The mother replied, "you are going to take the college entrance examination next year.

If I make more than one pair of cotton boots, I can sell ten yuan for you to earn enough money to go to college.

Liu Bei squatted before her mother's knees, and her nose was sour, and tears were coming up.

He sobbed and said, "Mom, it costs a lot of money to go to college.

Our family is too poor. What can this money do for us? Don't count on it! "

The mother listened to her shoulder trembling and asked him, "are you going to spend your whole life in this poor nest?"

Liu Bei said bitterly, "what is the way? Maybe this is fate."

The mother put down the needle and looked at her son and said, "when I was a child, I read the three character classics, and I could also think about some problems.

What do you mean by fate? Is it the beginning of a man? Or is it a person's story? I will tell you a story that may help you find the answer.

An eagle's egg rolled out of the eagle's nest and fell into the haystack.

A man found him, thought it was an egg, took him home and put it in the chicken coop.

There is a hen in the chicken coop who is hatching eggs. He is hatched out like other eggs.

So he was like a chick and lived a chicken life.

Because of his strange looks, many of his partners bullied him.

He felt lonely and miserable.

One day, he followed the chickens pecking at the rice field.

Suddenly, a black shadow flew over the mountain, and the chickens were panic stricken, hiding everywhere.

When the crisis passed, everyone breathed a sigh of relief.

"What bird is that?" he asked.

His companion told him, "that is an eagle, the supreme eagle."

"Oh, that eagle is really amazing, flying so natural!" he envied his heart. "If one day I can fly like an eagle, how nice!"

"It's a wishful thinking!" his partner rebuked him mercilessly. "You are born a chicken, and even the chickens are ashamed of your ugly. How can you fly like an eagle?"

The mother finished the story and asked, "son, fate is a hawk that is reduced to a chicken nest.

Now, would you like to live like a chicken or fly like an eagle? "

Liu Bei asked her mother stupidly, "do you think the son is the little eagle that has unfortunately fallen into the henhouse?"

The mother affirmed, "yes, you are the offspring of the eagle. You should go after the blue sky that belongs to you. Do not sigh for the one or two grains in front of you!" she told her son that his grandfather's grandfather was Liu Sheng, the son of Han Jing Di, which is actually the descendant of Han Gao Zu Liu Bang and the royal blood of the root.

Liu Bei came to his senses and said to his mother resolutely, "Mom, I understand what you mean. I will never fail to live up to your expectations!" after studying hard for second years, Liu Bei finally accepted the Changjiang International Business Administration University.

On the day of the letter of acceptance, mother and son were sad and happy.

The second lesson helps those who help themselves.

The name of the Yangtze International Business Administration University is derived from the opening words of the classic Romance of the Three Kingdoms, "the passing of the Yangtze River in the East". It has created countless heroes from ancient times to the present, and is an internationally renowned institution of learning.

Liu Bei can become a student of this university, and the vision of the future is enough to let people develop unlimited associations.

Uncle Liu Yuanqi knew that the child would grow up and come to his sister-in-law, and said, "the child finally lost his temper to his dead father.

You, widowed for many years, are not easy.

I will take charge of his college tuition. "Uncle opened a shop at home, and his uncle bought his aunt on weekdays, but there was little savings.

Liu Bei and his mother were both surprised and surprised.

The surprise is that the high tuition fee has finally arrived.

Strangely, uncle has always been very fond of poor and rich, and he is so cold to his wife and nephew. Why is he suddenly willing to give generously and enthusiastically help?

Uncle laughed and explained, "as the saying goes," those who help themselves can help heaven.

Since God is willing to help you, what about me as an uncle? "

Heaven helps those who help themselves? Liu Bei's heartstrings are moving.

Until he came to university, until he graduated from University, until he experienced every difficulty, he fell into a deep reflection again and again, and asked again and again the God in the boundless: what is the relationship between self-help and heaven help?

He listed himself the following answer:

1.

The real self-help is an admirable awakening. He will despise difficulties, and difficulties will be thrown to the ground in front of him. This process is almost like the help of God.

2.

A true self help is like a firefly shining in the night. It not only lights up itself, but also wins the appreciation of others. When people appreciate a person, they often express their love with help.

3.

It is believed that a real self help person will eventually achieve his success, and all those who have helped him will be gratified.

4.

If self-help people know how to repay kindness, people will give him more help, so he can face life more easily.

He used his own way of understanding to apply this mythical philosophical philosophy.

In view of his ability to strive for himself in a difficult economic situation, schools are helping him in many ways, giving him tuition fees, giving him scholarships and giving him the opportunity to work and study.

By the time he was graduating from senior high school, he suddenly recalled that the poverty problem, which had pressed him out of breath, had vanished quietly in the morning light.

Third, love attracts happiness.

He thought that Lu Zhi, the famous Confucian teacher, gave him third lessons in life, when he was a freshman.

Lu smiled and walked up to the platform, welcoming the arrival of his new classmates. He said, "as a teacher, I hope I can give you a mentor (mentor / Bole) type of guidance that can give you guidance.

As for whether you can really become useful, it depends on your own understanding and pursuit.

He told his classmates that what he learned in the four years of University was not just books, nor was it just to get a diploma, but to get a vision (foresight), a way of logical thinking.

"Has anyone ever played cricket?" he suddenly asked.

A boy named Gongsun Zan replied, "I've played. It's fun."

A girl named Cai Wenji said, "I know that crickets have a nickname called" weaving ".

My dad said, "this insect makes people laugh."

"Some people think that playing cricket will make people lose their ambition," Lu said.

Some people think that crickets bring children's interest to our world, and the world full of childishness is relaxed and pure.

Here we don't talk about cricket's right and wrong, but for other purposes.

Let me tell you a story about an entomologist and his cricket, an entomologist's merchant friend and a coin.

I hope this story will inspire you. "

With Mr. Lu's charming body movements, his story box opened.

An entomologist and his businessman friends were walking and chatting in the park.

Suddenly, he stopped, as if he had heard something.

"What's the matter?" asked his businessman friend.

The entomologist cried out in surprise: "did you hear it? A crickets chirping, and definitely a top cricket."

The merchant friend listened with great difficulty for a long time. He answered helplessly: "I didn't hear anything!"

"You wait."

Entomologist said, running to the nearby woods.

Soon, he found a big cricket and came back to tell his friend, "do you see? A white tooth, purple gold, big wing cricket, this is a great cricket! How, how did I hear it?"

"Yes, you are not mistaken."

The businessman asked the entomologist inexplicably: "you not only heard the chirp of the crickets, but also heard the varieties of crickets. How did you hear them?"

Entomologist replied: "the crickets of large size are slow and sometimes call two or three tones in a few hours.

Little crickets are quick and noisy.

Crickets of various colors, such as black, purple, red, yellow, and so on, are different. For example, the sound of the Yellow cricket has a metallic sound.

All the tweets are very subtle and even indescribable. You have to distinguish them with your heart. "

As they said, they left the park and walked on the busy sidewalk along the road.

Suddenly, the businessman stopped and bent down to pick up a coin that fell to the ground.

Entomologist still strides forward, without listening to the sound of falling coins.

"What is the truth of this story?" asked Miss Lu.

Everyone was thinking, no one answered.

After waiting for a while, Lu himself gave the answer: "Entomologist's heart is in the insects, so he can hear the chirp of the crickets.

The merchant's heart was in the money, so he could hear the sound of coins.

This story shows where your heart is, where your wealth is.

Teacher Lu continued, "after four years of university study, you are also pursuing the wealth of life. Please seriously consider what is your wealth. Put your heart in your wealth so that you can get your wealth. To help you understand this, let's do an experiment together."

He took out a large cardboard box full of sand and showed it to everyone. He said, "the sand is mixed with iron filings. Can you pick out iron filings from the middle with your eyes and fingers?"

Everyone shook his head.

"We can't find iron scraps from a pile of sand with our eyes and fingers, just like we can hardly find our customers from the vast sea of faces.

However, there is a tool that can help us quickly find iron from the middle of the sand.

Everyone might think that this tool is a magnet. "

Mr. Lu took out a magnet from the bag, stirred it in the sand and quickly gathered around the iron like iron around the magnet.

"This is the magic power of the magnet," he said, "this is the magic power of the magnet. We can do well with the hands and eyes that we can't do," he said.

The students goggled their eyes and watched the common miracle in teacher Lu's hands.

Lu said, "if this box of sand is like our life, setbacks and boring books, then this magnet is a heart full of love."

Where your heart is, where your wealth is, if you have a heart full of love, it will look for it in your books and in your life, and find many useful knowledge, just like a magnet can suck iron scrap.

But a heart that doesn't know how to love is like your fingers. It looks for it in the sand, but it can't find any scrap of iron.

Is not it? Students, as long as you have a heart that loves life, you can always find that every day has a harvest, every day has accumulated, and every day has something to be happy about.

Teacher Lu made a speech while letting the students take turns to play the game of sand and magnets.

With a gesture of no doubt, he told the children loud and clear, "where is your heart, where is your wealth? No matter what difficulties you may encounter in the future, what kind of adversity and confusion you have, you must believe in this wisdom.

Whenever there is a real love, you will be able to attract useful resources, beautiful things and happy life like magnets.

The fourth lesson is to be a popular person.

Only a week after arriving at school, Liu Bei was called to lecture by the students for fighting in the bedroom.

Just as Mr. Lu passed by, he looked closely at Liu Bei and asked the student teacher: "what mistake did he make?"

The student teacher said, "the students in their dormitory have told him that he likes to curse.

It took only a few days to get to school, and actually played three games.

Look at him! "

Lu said, "I know this boy. You can give him to me."

So Liu Bei followed Mr. Lu to his office.

Miss Lu asked Liu Bei to sit down and pour Liu Bei a cup of tea, which made Liu Bei feel as warm as this cup of tea.

"Tell me, what's going on?" asked Miss Lu.

Liu Bei said wrongfully, "they all look down on me, and they can't get along with me."

"Why do they not get along with you?" asked Miss Lu again.

Liu Bei grabbed his scalp and said, "they say I am a country fellow.

Actually, seven people in our dormitory and seven people came from the countryside. Why should they look down upon me?

Lu knew what was going on. He looked at Liu Bei's eyes sincerely and said, "if you don't mind, I want to tell you a story."

After obtaining Liu Bei's consent, Miss Lu began to tell a story about dogs with eloquence.

There was a dog named "eccentric" who accidentally broke into a training room in a model school.

The walls of the room are inlaid with glass mirrors, reflecting countless shadows of the dog.

The sight of so many dogs suddenly appeared at the same time. The eccentric dog was shocked. It instinctively withdrew, grinning, and making a deep howl.

All the dogs in the mirror shrink back in unison, one by one grinning their teeth, while in the practice room, the echoes of barking are also heard.

The lonely dog began to panic, and it resisted and struggled.

It jumps and jumps in the house, becoming more and more crazy, more and more confused.

Until it collapsed because of physical exhaustion and despair.

Liu Bei asked strangely, "do you say I am the lonely dog?"

"What do you say?" asked Mr. Lu.

Liu Bei said, "my personality is somewhat eccentric.

But what is the relationship between the students in the dormitory and the dogs in the mirror?

Teacher Lu said, "don't you understand? The classmate in your eyes is the dog in the mirror.

Remember, if we are friendly to others, others will be friendly to us; if we are rude to others, others will also give us tit for tat.

You say students can't get along with you, so how do you treat your classmates?

Liu Bei kept silent.

"You want to be a popular person, right? Can you become a popular person by fighting and calling names? No."

Mr. Lu smiled and said, "I have a secret recipe, so long as you believe, you can guarantee that you will become a popular person within three months."

Back in the bedroom, Liu Bei immediately copied the popular secret recipe on the title page of the notebook respectfully.

First, practice smiling in front of the mirror every day.

Second, meet your classmates and greet them warmly.

Third, take the initiative to help others with a kind heart.

Fourth, a man is not a saint, can he be able to treat everyone around him with compassion?

Fifth, firmly believe that treating others kindly is a good public relations philosophy.

From then on, Liu Bei listened to Mr. Lu's words and practise these secrets religiously.

Before long, he became the most likeable, most affable, most modest and kind person among his classmates.

In the chronicles of the Three Kingdoms, Chen Shou commented: "Hirotake Hiroshihou, the first lord (Liu Bei), knows how to treat people, and has the power of Gao Zu (Liu Bang) and heroes."

It means that the main reason why Liu Bei can grow into a hero in the business world is his sincerity, generosity and affinity to others.

Because of this charisma of Liu Bei, he became a good friend who many teachers liked and trusted by his classmates.

Even in those difficult days when he started business, no matter how hard he worked or how he was going to drift, some of his talents were willing to follow him around and share the hardships and hardships with him.

The most famous of them is Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, who are in league with Liu Bei, who do not seek the same day in the same month but seek death on the same day of the same year.

Fifth lesson, there are mysteries in eggshells.

During the last semester of the senior year, Liu Bei met with Lu Shu, a grocery shopping teacher in a supermarket on campus. Suddenly, there was a strong impulse to get close to him.

At that time, Lu had left the platform and was the general manager of a school run company.

Liu Bei took the initiative to greet him and help him carry the basket.

Then they walked out of the door and unknowingly came to Lou's family's downstairs.

Lu said, "go, go to my house and cook together!"

Liu Bei hesitated for five seconds, his face flushed and nodded, "OK!"

What happened next left Liu Bei in a trance.

He and Mr. Lu were choosing vegetables, doing housework, chatting together, talking about his family, his mother and the eagle, talking about his career to graduate.

Lu said, "do you know how to hatch chickens or Eagles?"

Liu Bei shook his head in a vacant voice.

"What a miracle it is to change from an egg to a fresh life!" Mr. Lu raised an egg and said, "you can imagine it as an eagle's egg. We break it. You see, there is no shape of feather, eye, or leg.

It is inconceivable that the mystery of life is hidden in this sticky stuff.

Put it in a warm environment, and after a suitable time, it will become a lovely hawk.

Mr. Lu looked back at his students and said with deep meaning, "so do people.

A person's potential, after training, will show admirable talents and advantages.

Four years of university life has passed, and now you are like a hawk in an eggshell, breaking through that shell.

Out of the eggshell, a whole new world is waiting for you! "

Liu Bei said, "yes, my eaglet flying from the field in Zhuozhou, Hebei, after four years of study in the egg shell of Yangtze University, is now facing another new life."

The sixth lesson uses all the strength.

Almost all of the senior students are looking for jobs or preparing for postgraduate entrance exams. Everyone is in a hurry and panic.

Liu Bei did the same, but until the winter vacation, his work problem was not at all clear.

It was a Saturday afternoon. He came back from the talent exchange market and sat on the edge of the school playground.

He has participated in many occasions, various names of job recruitment meetings, handed out hundreds of job applications, but still no effect at all.

From time to time, Liu Bei began to notice that there was a sand pit about 100 meters away from him, and a little boy was building a road with sand.

Beside the bunker, there are some toy cars.

The little boy waved a plastic shovel and worked very enthusiastically.

The sun warmly illuminated his busy figure, and the sand became beautiful roads, bridges and tunnels under his writing.

However, in the course of construction, a big stone appeared unexpectedly.

The little boy began to dig the sand around the stone, then hugged it and wanted to move it away.

He was so small, but the stone was so big. When he tried his best to move the stone to the edge of the bunker, there was nothing more he could do.

He gnawing his teeth and shouting, hitting the stones again and again.

However, whenever he had made a little progress, the stone slipped and fell into the sand pit again.

The little boy shouted, resolutely rushed to his feet and sped up the big rock.

The big stone rolled down again and hurt his feet.

He sat down in the sand and wept bitterly.

Liu Bei saw these scenes clearly. He wanted to help the little boy.

He stood up and went to the sand pit and squatted down and asked:

"Little brother, do you want to move this stone out?"

"Yes.

But I can't move it, "sobbed the little boy gloomily." I've exhausted all my strength, but I can't move it! "

Liu Bei kindly corrected him and said, "my little brother, you are not right.

You didn't use all your strength, you didn't ask for my help. "

Liu Bei jumped down the sand pit, picked up the stone and moved it out, as if he had moved it out of his heart.

He suddenly realized what he was, quickly returned to the dormitory, sat at the desk, wrote the difficulties he encountered on the left side of a piece of paper, and listed all the resources and strength he could use on the right side.

He found that the use of this force contrast is indeed a good way to solve difficult problems effectively.

He wrote in his diary: "from now on, no matter how frustrations and difficulties we encounter, no matter how desperate we feel, we should think about that stone and ask ourselves," do you really use all your strength? "

The seventh lesson is to fill the heart with passion.

The busy spring festival soon passed, and the fourth year of the senior year ushered in the last tense semester.

Liu Bei still had a little trouble finding a job. He couldn't stop asking Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, "why do I not even find a job?"

Zhang Fei said impolitely, "look at you. You look sad all day. Who wants you?"

Guan Yu also said, "Liu Bei, not we say you, you must be more active.

As soon as people become positive, their mental strength comes out.

The recruited examiners wanted energetic young men.

Negativity like you can only backfire. "

Liu Bei sighed again, and said, "I want to be positive, too.

But I don't know why, I just can't do it. "

Zhang Fei put two glasses on the table and put them in the water. Then he dug a handful of dust from the ground and put them in one of the glasses. He asked Liu Bei, "do you see? I am a glass of water, so I am free from worry."

What about you? It's a muddy water, gray face all day.

What way can you make this muddy water clear?

Liu Bei said, "there are two ways, one is precipitation, the other is filtration."

Guan Yu is looking at the left's spring and Autumn Annals. He put down his book and said, "Zhang Fei's meaning, this glass of water represents the positive thinking, and this muddy water represents the negative thoughts.

Precipitation means to hide those melancholy in the heart. Sometimes you think you have forgotten it. You never know that the wind is blowing, and it re permeates the whole soul.

Poets often describe this state with words like "brow but brow," so precipitation is not enough.

Liu Beiwen: so, what about filtration?

Guan Yu said: "filtering can solve problems more thoroughly, but there are two disadvantages.

The silt outside the filter screen is easy to clog the filter hole. When the pressure outside the filter screen is too large, it is easy to break the filter screen.

Therefore, the filtration method can only keep the ice and jade clean for a short time, and "a failure to become eternal hatred" is the normal state in the human world.

Liu Bei asked, "is there any other way you can't do that?"

Zhang Fei said, "of course."

He took two good friends to the bathroom, put the muddy water under the tap, and unscrewed the water.

Under the impact of a clear stream, the muddy water in the cup is constantly diluted and overflowing.

Within a minute, the muddy water was completely turned into clean water.

He said to Liu Bei, "do you see? The water in the faucet represents happiness, vitality and positive thoughts. It can dilute your worries, wash away your confusion, and eliminate all negative things.

Just like you need a glass of water, you should choose those positive and uplifting ideas and let it constantly wash your mind.

Liu Bei said, "you know, though I was born poor, I never gave up my self motivation.

I don't know why, but my attention is easily turned to the other side, which makes me unable to get active.

Zhang Fei said, "yes, in this process, you feel shy, awkward, panic stricken, sad and repelled, all of which are normal.

However, you should not allow certain phenomena in the process to affect your determination.

You must focus your attention on the final result, and let those positive thoughts serve the "final result".

Liu Bei said, "where can I find this steady stream of positive thinking?"

Zhang Fei said: "it is very simple, as long as you do not doubt that happiness, affirmation, philosophical wisdom, good imagination of things, self praise, or even a mere motto, can inspirit your soul forever.

However, as long as you doubt, you will be quiet. As long as you are quiet, those positive thoughts will cease to function - and all kinds of troubles in the world seem like drifting dust, which will take the opportunity to muddy your water.

Liu Bei laughed and said, "your reasoning is quite right. I do often doubt it. I think that's why I can't be positive.

Zhang Fei, I usually look at you carelessly. I didn't expect you to be so foolish.

Guan Yu said, "you see he looks like a rough man. Actually, the beautiful picture is prettier than anyone, and he writes well written and ingenious."

Liu Bei pondered for a moment, and said, "Zhang Fei, have you summed up your great theory into one sentence and written it into a single word as my motto?"

"Hurrah!" Zhang Fei answered, and immediately returned to the bedroom, laying paper and writing ink, writing: "do not doubt success, always passion!"

Summary after class

Liu Bei's graduation thesis is the seven compulsory course in the age of entrepreneurship.

In the third year of high school, his mother gave him the first lesson, which made him jump over the threshold of the college entrance examination and became a student of the famous University of the Yangtze International Business Administration University.

His uncle gave him second lessons, and made him work hard and finally passed the four years of university study.

Mr. Lu gave him third lessons, fourth lessons and fifth lessons, so that he understood the meaning of love, society and growth.

The little boy gave him sixth lessons to show him what to do.

Guan Yu and Zhang Fei gave him seventh lessons with the demonstration effect of two cups of water, so that he really understood the connection between positive and successful.

He is like the young eagle that is broken out by the teacher of Lu Shu. Because of the nurturing of these seven classes, he will go back to the new life outside the eggshell with his young and strong feet and wings.

It is worth mentioning that he and Guan Yu and Zhang Fei have become brothers of different surnames in the peach garden of the school hillside.

According to the date of birth, Liu Bei is the eldest brother, Guan Yu is the second brother, and Zhang Fei is the third brother.

Liu Bei said: "the traditional habit of Chinese scholars is that friendship between husband and wife is as light as water, but our desire is not just to encourage words, but also to gallop our country and enter a space for entrepreneurship.

As the saying goes, three people are concentric, and their profits cut gold.

We must concentrate on the strength of the three of us in pursuit of success.

Thus, the story of Taoyuan's romance was spread around the world, and the romance of the Three Kingdoms began in the pioneering age.

Milu, who once served as the coach of the Chinese football team, said a famous saying: "attitude decides everything."

However, very few people can understand the true meaning of this sentence.

Everyone in the universe is learning how to succeed.

It is worth noting that many people complain about their objective conditions and are unable to pursue success.

It must be admitted that the disappointing predicament is indeed a truth of life - and it must also be recognized that the possibility of some success constitutes another truth in life.

Therefore, how to understand your life and objective conditions depends entirely on your attitude.

All resources and strength can support you to achieve the possibility of success.

The more positive your attitude is, the greater your determination. The more resources and power you can mobilize, the more likely you will be to succeed.

Attitude determines the maximum probability of success and determines all the knowledge of success.

These include "seven compulsory courses in the entrepreneurial age".

Let these knowledge support you to create the starting point of success and help you manage all processes.

Success is waiting for you at the other end of the process.