How Do Female Subordinates Get Along With Male Bosses In Office?

In today's society, men are probably the absolute majority of their superiors.

Maybe you are smart, dedicated, and even capable of not inferior to your male boss, but that doesn't mean you can ignore him.

As a female subordinate, how to get along with a male boss is indeed a very subtle art, which is directly related to your promotion, income and stability of your job.

Can you feel something from the following examples?

The first move: learn to refuse.

Ye Fan is selling in a large pharmaceutical company.

This is a very challenging job, no matter in communication with people, the grasp of professional knowledge, the grasp of the market, or the domination of physical strength, they must undergo an unusual test.

Ye Fan often telephones with customers a few hours ago, and then flies to other cities in a few hours. In the company, everyone's sales performance is public. When you can't finish the company quota, you will feel an invisible pressure.

When you can not stand the pressure, that is, when you leave the company - so Ye Fan worked very hard, and his performance has been climbing steadily, so he was greatly favored by his boss and sales manager, Rorschach.

When Ye Fangang entered the company, he met a very important foreign client who was very important to the company.

At the beginning of the negotiation, the other side brought some international practices to talk with her.

Because of their differences in cultural backgrounds, ways of thinking and methods of operation, negotiations quickly entered a deadlock.

But ye fan never gave up.

She studied each other's information again and again, excavated each other's weaknesses, and used their seriousness and dedication to influence each other. After a week's negotiations, the negotiations finally came to a successful conclusion.

Ye Fan also gladly accepted the invitation of Rorschach to go out to dinner: "I was so happy that I could really describe it with flying colors.

In front of my boss, I could not take pride. After eating, he invited me to dance, and I agreed without hesitation.

Later, Rorschach often invited Ye Fan to eat, pub, bowling, table tennis and squash.

It is mostly an excuse to celebrate Ye Fan's outstanding performance and performance.

Sometimes Ye Fan did not want to go, but when he saw his sincere eyes, he thought he was his own superior.

And Rorschach also brings back some fancy gifts for her every business trip, which of course can't escape the eyes of outsiders.

It is hard for anyone to talk about Ye Fan and her boss behind her, and there are many jealousy about her outstanding performance.

Rorschach listened with a faint smile, but ye fan was distressed: her boyfriend who had been in love for two years was convinced after hearing the rumors.

He must have used his superior to make such a proud achievement.

Why did ye fan explain?

And the ambiguity of Rorschach's eyes is also a worry to Ye Fan.

Weapon: when your boss frequently invites you to go out, even if he really doesn't have any ambitions, you should be careful, because this is often a prelude to future unusual relationships.

Whenever you want to have your own principles, you should learn to obey your boss's arrangement in your work, but in other ways, you should learn to treat others with sincerity.

Refusing your boss is not necessarily a bad thing. Many times you can let your boss discover your maturity and personal dignity, so that he can respect you and help you to elevate your position in his heart.

If you really do not have the courage to refuse his invitation, there is another move: pull up friends, colleagues, and even your boss and wife.

The second trick: dress appropriately.

CEN Ching is a lively and cheerful girl, and her studies are excellent.

When she graduated, she defeated many of her competitors and was hired by publishing companies that had always been "patriarchal".

Six months ago, she liked to try new things and she switched to a medium-sized network company. Of course, the enviable high salary was also a reason for her coming here.

Unexpectedly, everything is not as good as expected.

Because she soon discovered that she had an irascible and old-fashioned male boss.

Tsun Ching, who often likes to flip fashion magazines, is naturally dressed in style and avant-garde: the gauze dress, the small wrinkled pleated skirt, the improved Chinese Qipao, chiffon print, military trousers and bags, and fur without shoes.

Her style has always been romantic and changeable.

In this regard, the former female boss of a publishing house is her bosom friend, but now the serious male boss has shown a sense of disgust from the beginning, and has repeatedly reminded her to pay attention to her image.

CEN Ching didn't put her heart at all. She thought it was not a bank, an institution, a court, and what to do in a normal manner. Since she didn't appreciate each other, she showed a cool and distant attitude towards her boss in many respects: she could not contact him directly when asked by phone.

The boss told her about her work, and when she finished, she turned away, without expression or superfluous words.

After that, the boss seemed to have a very bad impression of her. She made a lot of fury when she made a slight mistake.

It was obvious that he had told him that the fax number was wrong. He thought it was wrong for Cen Qing to be in the wrong place. At the end of the week, cen Ching had already made an appointment with his friends to have a good time, but when the working hours just arrived, the boss hurried over, without any bargaining.

Cen Qinggang handed him the report that he had written for several days and excitedly arranged the documents on the desk, ready to go to dinner, but saw his boss rush out of the office, throwing the report back to the table, pointing out the mistakes in public and asking her to correct it immediately.

She was shocked and angry at the scolding of her boss, and even wanted to quarrel with him.

Weapon: you know, male superiors tend to go to extremes to their female subordinates. They either appreciate or dislike them or even hate them.

When you are away from work, you can dress yourself up as pure, gorgeous or sexy, but it's different in the office. Try to suit your boss's taste while you wear your personality.

It is difficult, but you will get unexpected praise and goodwill, and you can make sure that you enter the office immediately, calm down your work, and omit unnecessary trouble.

I didn't like someone to be estranged from him, but if he alienated his superiors, he would distrust both of them.

The third move: not to be friends.

4 years ago, Pei Jia worked in a small advertising company. His boss was Qu Ziyu.

Pei Jia's academic background is not high. She is only a graduate of decoration design, but she is very smart. She has designed many excellent works with intuition and inspiration.

At that time, the company was not well staffed. She and Qu Yu were responsible for the planning and design, and also had some part of the market liaison work.

They work 6 days a week and often work overtime, so that they can fall asleep on the bus with their handrails standing.

Several times in the evening to do household survey, until more than 10 o'clock, still hungry, two people in the street shop to make up a meal, then return to the office to sort out the results are often happened.

In the process of sharing weal and woe, Pei Jia and Qu Ziyu had a very different friendship. She never called him "Qu manager", but called him "Zi Yu". She met with grievances and troubles, and even at home, she was happy to tell the music of jade.

In her eyes, her 8 year old jade like her elder brother, like a very good friend, never had any real fear of the boss.

Her writing level is not good enough, so usually those demanding "written" work, such as persuasive planning books, amazing and catchy copywriting, and a clear and clear summary of two people's work performance report, and so on, all came from the jade melody.

Pei Jia was at ease. She thought, friend, that's not the right thing to do. Besides, she has never stolen laziness in other aspects.

Qu Ziyu sometimes reminds her that she should pay more attention to "charging" at ordinary times, especially to exercise her ability to write. Pei Jia often laughs and doesn't put it in her heart.

Her subconscious is: what does Zi Yu, a friend's supervisor, fear?

The scale of the company has gradually expanded, and the Department of Pei Jia has also entered many new people, but in fairness, they have more rational thinking components (maybe influenced by formal education).

Later, Qu Zi, who was director of department manager, did not recommend Pei Jia to fill her vacancy, but promoted another young man who was only 24 years old and had just entered the company for a year.

Pei Jia is hard to accept: she thinks she should be the most suitable person, and others don't understand. Is it too long for Qu Ziyu to understand her ability? She wants to quit her job.

Weapon: many people want to get along with their bosses like friends.

This is often a misunderstanding.

Because the boss is the boss, even if your relationship is very ordinary, does not mean that he can not be awe and flattery.

It is also necessary to maintain an appropriate distance, especially female subordinates and male bosses.

A good person is also an ordinary person. A brilliant person will have a plain side. Distance can make you look perfect in your boss's eyes.

In fact, if we think about it objectively, Qu Ziyu is doing it in reason.

1. he and Pei Jia because of too familiar, but instead of objective judgment, feel that the other side understand and do nothing great; 2. often to him, Pei Jia, low education, lack of rational thinking, emotional work and so on, and his weaknesses are clearly seen by him, he is bound to think that she is too frank and naive; moreover, a man and a woman close cooperation for so long, just to avoid suspicion, he will not easily carry her.