12 Kinds Of Art Of Speech That Men Must See.

1. urgent business, speak slowly. encounter Urgent business If you can sink your heart and think clearly, then do not rush to speak clearly, and you will leave a steady and impulsive impression on the listener, thereby increasing the trust of others.

2. trivial matters. Humor To speak. In particular, some well intentioned reminders, speaking with jokes, will not make listeners feel stiff. They will not only accept your reminder, but also enhance their intimacy.

3. be unsure about things. If you don't talk about things that you are not sure of yourself, others will think of you. FALSE If you can speak out rigorously, you will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

4. don't talk nonsense. People hate people who make trouble. If you never assume anything or nothing, it will make you feel mature and cultivated. It is a conscientious and responsible person.

5. don't talk nonsense. As the saying goes, "no diamond, do not live in porcelain." Not easily committed to what you can not do, will let the listener feel that you are a "word must believe, the must be the fruit" of the person, willing to believe you.

6., we must not hurt people. It is not easy to hurt others with words, especially among people who are close to each other, without hurting people. This will make them feel that you are a good person and help to maintain and enhance their feelings.

7, sad things, do not see people say. When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk, but if they see someone, they will easily make the listener's psychological pressure too big, and they will be suspicious and alienated. At the same time, you will give people the impression that you are not thinking about others, and want to pass the pain on to others.

8. other people's affairs, be careful. People need to have a safe distance between people. It is not easy to comment and disseminate other people's affairs, it will give people a sense of security.

9., listen to what others say. You should listen more to the outsider's opinions, one can give people the impression of modesty, and two will make you feel that you are a sensible person.

10. listen more and speak less. Older people often do not like young people to comment too much on their own affairs. If young people talk too much, they feel that you are not a respectable elder, modest and eager to learn.

11. the matter of husband and wife. Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other when they encounter things, and mutual consultation will produce the effect of "Empathy" and enhance the feelings of husband and wife.

12. children's affairs, enlightened. Especially adolescent children, very rebellious, adopt a moderate and firm attitude to enlighten, can not only let the children have a good opinion of you, willing to become friends with you, but also can play a convincing role.