Things That Do Not Mind Before Age Thirty

1. give up

The opposite of control is to give up, and to choose an opportunity is to give up all other possibilities. When new opportunities lie ahead, it is not a failure to give up everything that has already been gained. This is not to halve, it is to seek greater room for development, or nothing, just because it likes to do so because. Young That's the biggest. Opportunity 。 People only have this courage before they are thirty years old. This capital has this qualification.

2, lovelorn

It doesn't matter, it doesn't care. Before the age of thirty, what we most fear is not what we already have, but our dreams. If love is just a process, it is this age that should be experienced. If you want to bear the consequences, you will be more capable and qualified after the age of thirty. In fact, before we were thirty years old, we had to do a lot of things. We had to indulge in the river bed that had dried up for a long time.

3, wandering

Wandering is not a misfortune, but a qualification. When there is no family to drag down and take good health, at this time do not float when to float? Of course, drifting is not necessarily the body, perhaps just fantasy and dream. The fashionable leader of the new century is the floating generation. The only person who wants to drift is the one who does not float.

4. Unemployment

The taste of unemployment before the age of thirty is, of course, an unfortunate thing, but it is not necessarily a bad thing. It is perhaps the greatest misfortune to have a career before thirty years old. Unemployment may remind you of a long buried dream that may awaken the potential you never knew before. Maybe you didn't have any dreams, and this time you dream.

5, evaluation

The last sacrifice we should make is to change ourselves because of the evaluation of others, because those who do not know what rules they follow. Don't just follow the rules and do things. Rules are still being created. You should do everything according to your own judgement, though it will be a little trouble.

6, shallow

If you look at the Titanic every time you shed tears, every time you look at the big talk, you can't smile. Someone will laugh at you. In fact, it can only indicate that your nerves are still very keen, and even respond to very weak stimuli quickly and adaptable. When you feel slow, people will say you are deep.

7, crazy

This is the best psychological adjustment for young people. It can only explain your energy and physical and mental health. To say that you are "Crazy" is a malicious appraisal of some middle-aged and old people who are depressed and exhausted. They are like a machine that is out of repair for years. They need debugging most, but they can only fine tune them. Once a major repair is made, they will be completely scrapped.

8, frustrated

Including emotional, career, perhaps just spent money today did not buy the heart of things, friends home full of friends, but I can not catch a word. To care too much about frustrated feelings is not to play tricks on themselves by fate, but to punish others with their own mistakes.

9, cost

It's not about cost. It's about knowing that everything must be paid. For our age, this is no nonsense. Otherwise, at the age of thirty, you will know how much you have paid, but you do not understand why you have paid it, but you do not know how much you get and what you get.

10, stability

Before the age of thirty, there were only two possibilities, or lottery, or premature aging.

11, house

Unless you buy a house for appreciation, or you get married. I have a classmate, my family is in the field, after graduating from University, there is no dormitory in my flat, so I bought a house for him at home. He once had the opportunity to work in Beijing, but he felt that he had left the city when he had just bought a house, and he gave up. Up to now, he has worked steadily but has done nothing. The only achievement is getting married and having children, because he feels that the house should be left empty forever, so the house becomes a home. The house is a fable of urban life, and this fable should not be related to us too early.

12, rumors

This is an infectious disease. Silence is the best vaccine. Unless you can find out the source of infection, interpretation will be the most ideal condition for virus transmission.

13, salary

As long as people work, the salary is not high enough. So before the age of thirty, opportunity is far more important than money. Business is far more important than money. Future is far more important than money. For most people, the primary goal of doing business before the age of thirty is not to earn money, but to earn the future important.

14. Deposits

This is not necessarily because we are short of money. Nowadays, young people know that money is life. With so many opportunities, the conditions are so good that you can take the money to mortgage, do today's work, spend tomorrow's money, invest money, and take the money to "charge". Money is only money in the course of its circulation, otherwise it is just a stack of the best quality waste paper in the world.

15, naive

Don't be afraid of people being childish. This shows that you are young and energetic. "Maturity" is a frightening word and a word of harm. Maturity and naivety are the greatest, the most irresponsible, the most useless generalizations for a person. Those mediocre people will never say that they are naive. Don't believe, when you are depressed by your life, people will say that when you are mature, you will know what "maturity" is.

16, defects

Maybe you are short, maybe you are not good-looking, maybe your voice is like Donald Duck... Then your advantage is that you will not be delayed by your superficial superficiality, spend less time, walk a little bit, find your inner strengths directly, and tap your deep potentials directly.

17, pressure

How much pressure a middle-aged person can withstand is tested by his resilience, and how much pressure young people can bear, which is his potential.

18, loneliness

This is the price for freedom.