The Workplace Must Learn To Listen To Colleagues' Voices.

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It is often the truth that we wait for others to finish the latter half.

Case: embarrassment after "awesome"

Mark, I'm glad I have a good idea.

Two weeks later, Mark and Marry of the same group worked on a project. When the boss demonstrated the process, the boss still smiled and nodded.

When Mark's happy expression had not yet fully developed, he heard Marry in a very sincere tone: "please give us more advice. We really need to know what is wrong with this project."

As a result, the boss made several points of death, and Mark was scared out of a cold sweat.

He did not know that the meaning behind "good" and "good" is actually "not good enough" or "bad". The real opinion is that after asking you to ask questions, people will be willing to give you the favor and make you better next time.

Quotations from the second half:

Your design sense is the best in the whole group, and has great artistic talent, but you have no commercial mind to come out and do things not to be an art youth.

You are the old minister of the Department, working hard, everyone can see, but don't rely on experience to point fingers at young people. Who will appreciate you when you are old and compete with new people?

I have always looked at you differently, because you are different, but in fact, you are too much of a character. The company pays attention to equality and impartiality, and doesn't take any special care for the other kinds of things. You should be careful if you go on like this.

I don't mind at all. Don't mind what you said just now. But when you walk through the workplace, you start to stir up a situation, and it will directly affect your annual assessment.

Do not be blinded by emotion, reason is the nearest truth.

Case: behind the "feeling"

After her promotion, she found that her original rival was not so difficult to imagine as she imagined. On the contrary, although thousand draws were not enthusiastic enough, she was willing to cooperate with her.

After the move, I would like to inform the Department of the development plan.

It is not that no one has reminded her, but she believes in her own eyes, and a person's expression does not lie every day. After the defeat of the competition, it is difficult to conceal the frustration and try to be calm.

Sometimes thousands of paintings will be exhausted when they work overtime.

Only to comfort her: OK, wait till the end of the season.

A month later, Qian Hui directly submitted his resignation application to the big boss, and the line was called in to explain. She was confused: I heard her grumble, but that...

The boss interrupted her: Qian said that she had spoken to you about her resignation many times, but you didn't reflect it to me at all. Now she has been dug up by her opponent as a supervisor.

Believing too much in the face of things and speculating from others' emotions for a moment, this is the case.

Emotional language {page_break}

Anger: by the way, the boss is too unreasonable. Why can Xiao Zhang leave early to work? I will accompany him to the customers. Don't think he is really treated unfairly. In fact, he is so pleased with himself that he can be so close to the boss.

Hi, I'm happy for you. Remember we joined the company together and you got a promotion so soon! This is unfair to me. You are lucky at all. I don't know how many reasons for it are ambiguous.

Worry: so many tasks, who can get busy? I can't keep up with my family. So let's give that client to me. Who made my situation worse than you?

Sad: I am really sad to leave this department. I will always remember your help to me. I would like to apologize to those who have offended me, otherwise I will make you die ugly.

Behind a good word is not a turn or a trap.

Case: hypocrisy = civilization?

Xiao AI is very glad that he can enter the multinational company through a written interview.

Colleagues dressed in expensive suits and fluent English. At noon, several people went to eat French food or Japanese food. Isn't this the white-collar life of their dreams? Little love threw herself in.

After half a year's gathering, little love came late, but it was the focus of her eyes. Long curly hair and naked skirt, such an elegant and fashionable girl, was completely different.

She would say, "this little coat is beautiful every day. It's Chanel's B version. You see the edges are different."

Added: "Todd, you have increased your salary. You are too capable. Now you can get 4000 yuan. Although it is a little bit less, you really need to do something.

When little love left, no one was willing to say good-bye to her, but little love only sighed: how can these people not learn the etiquette of big companies?

Although a large part of the etiquette of large companies is how to speak hypocrisy and civilized, but hypocrisy to this point, it is necessary to point out the true spirit to calm down, not your mouth to speak, others will be delighted to accept, people do not have this obligation.

Honey quotations:

Your report is perfect, except for a few minor mistakes in grammar.

True meaning: do you have such a low level mistake in kindergarten?

You are a very nice person. The people you work with are highly praised for your character. Minor problems can not erase this outstanding advantage.

True meaning: you are very unprincipled. It is a bad person. Others say hello doesn't mean your performance is good.

I can really learn a lot from you, especially in interpersonal communication.

True meaning: I don't even care about your little abacus, do not think I will really listen to your "advice".

You are different from Mary. She is more careful and you are quite frank. If I were your friend, I would really appreciate your personality.

True meaning: Unfortunately, I am just your colleague, not your friend. God knows what kind of friend can bear your careless temper.

Your creativity is always so unconventional and unconventional. I think freelance must be more suitable for you.

Truth: I can no longer tolerate your strange ideas, roll up your bedding and walk away.

Have stable psychological quality

You can't stimulate your emotions because of a few twisty words. It's hard to have any concrete evidence to justifying a person's attack on a person.

If you feel that others are saying something wrong, smile or ignore it.

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Exercise your logical thinking

A lot of satirize your remarks are in fact vulnerable. If you really want to fight back, you must seize the key and strike the middle while not wasting time in a long war of words.

But the best way is always to be big and small.

There is a clear concept of right and wrong.

Too naive will make you believe in the old fox, who is too fond of words. Too sophisticated will make you miss your true friend, so try not to judge a person's personality according to a single word, but objective and understated is the correct attitude of the workplace.

Let the people around you know enough about you.

Let them know that silence is not cowardice, tolerance is not a retreat, you are not a good gentleman who can be commented by others, you only have your own politeness and principles. If you really do too much to you, the consequences will be very serious.

This is the effective way to evade the devil's dictionary.