Are You Far From The Psychologist?

1, you

A. find ways to send pain

B. pondering the pain alone

2. A good friend tells about anger.

A. stay calm.

B. means anger.

3, if there is

A. director

B. stars

4, if you are asked to speak, your best subject is:

A. how do I help others?

B. how did I help myself?

5, you and your friends take a bus, suddenly a brakes on your friend startled. At this time, your friend Waguchi O: "what car to drive, crazy!" which of the following statements is more willing to adopt:

A. forget it. Don't be angry.

B. It's a bad car.

Scoring rules:

You are far from the Psychological Counselor: 1a+2b+3b+4a+5a>3

You are closer to psychological counselors: 1b+2a+3a+4b+5b>3

If your score results indicate that you are far away from the psychological counselor, you need to keep working hard to be a qualified psychological counselor. You may feel that you are very good at helping others, but the most important thing is to help yourself. If your score results indicate that you are closer to psychological counselors, you will be more potential as a counselor.

So, what should qualified psychologists be?

A high level psychological counselor should have the following three important characteristics:

1, accept yourself.

First of all, we should be able to help ourselves, then we can help others better. Otherwise, even if we are a consultant, we can not really convey healthy ideas. We must know that the "induction" of customers is very accurate.

2, very strong self digestion ability.

Counselors often bear a lot of garbage. A high level psychological counselor does not need to dispose of garbage, but has a strong digestion ability. It is like a person's stomach, stomach, digestive ability, others can not digest things you will digest, stomach is not good, can not digest, always distraction is not a permanent solution, so some people have done psychological counselors, but soon let himself collapse.

3, empathy.

A high level psychological counselor will quickly stand up to each other's point of view to think about the problem and understand the other's emotions and thoughts. If you can't quickly empathy, even if you say something more reasonable, it will be hard for others to accept it.

[related cases]: Xiaofeng (a pseudonym).

At the age of 25, she was a young female university teacher. After graduating from normal university, she majored in pedagogy.

But with the passing of time, Xiaofeng found that the enthusiasm for students who had just joined in the work had disappeared without a trace. Instead, he was deeply bored by the information environment of the relatively closed school and the long title road.

So she decided to quit her job as a counselor.

Xiaofeng said: 2 years of teachers' work, the only thing that makes me happy is to help students with psychological problems.

I like to tutor others. I am also very good at tutoring others. When I was reading, I was most interested in educational psychology, and I read a lot of books about psychology.

After work, I found that my interest is still in this respect. I like to enlighten others and help them to get rid of their inner pimples.

I believe I have this talent and can become an excellent psychological counselor.

(expert's words: Xiaofeng has a clearer understanding of her interests, and this long-term interest may become the main line of her continuous development. In this respect, her choice has some truth: however, Xiaofeng has neglected another factor, that is, the profession of psychological counselors has professional and quality requirements for practitioners.

Xiaofeng said: I heard that there are certified examinations for psychological counselors. Now the workplace is qualified, especially as a highly professional profession like psychological counselors. If they are qualified, they may become "professionals".

I am going to take part in this examination first, and then take this qualification to enter the field of psychological consultation.

(expert's words: Qualifying only means having the basic condition of becoming a psychological consultant. To become a qualified psychological counselor, we need to rest the professional and external skills that the profession needs.

Xiaofeng said, "what is the internal and external skills of a counselor? How far is it from my psychological counselor?"

Psychological counselors need internal skills: as in a small test, to become a good psychological counselor requires 3 internal qualities: self acceptance, strong self digestion and empathy.

Psychological counselors need external skills: for psychological counselors, external work means professional knowledge of the system; a thorough understanding of the society, family, workplace, and the ability to accurately grasp various kinds of emotional changes.

These can be accumulated through training, learning and work.

Understand counselors believe information, please enter "career information database".

How far is Xiaofeng from a psychological consultant?

Xiaofeng's test results show that she is very sensitive to people, and very much hope that her work can be helpful and valuable to others.

For herself, Xiaofeng is more accepting. She has a better attitude, whether she sees herself or sees things outside.

Naturally, she is able to empathize with others in a more delicate way. She can understand other people's emotional changes and be able to stand on others' standpoints, which indicates that she still has the potential to become a psychological counselor.

But there are still deficiencies in some aspects.

Therefore, I suggest her:

You can take the qualification examination of psychological counselors. This helps Xiao Feng to learn some professional knowledge and consulting skills in psychological counseling, which can lay a theoretical foundation for her to become a psychological consultant in the future.

Enter the social and workplace to accumulate.

Xiaofeng is a big problem at present, because her age is relatively small, and her understanding of life, society, family, emotion and workplace is relatively shallow. This determines that she can not consult people now, because every individual has psychological problems, which must be inseparable from these factors.

What are the ways of accumulating? Those occupations that are widely connected with people are ideal ways to accumulate, such as human resources, sales, customer service and so on. All these can help Xiaofeng to accumulate in this aspect. The key is to devote all efforts to work, and regularly summarize their own harvest, and form their own thinking.

Postscript: after 2 months of consultation, Xiaofeng entered a large enterprise in the field of human resources, and enrolled in the certification examination of psychologist.

She told me on the phone that now she is getting more and more familiar with the pressure people face everyday. With the deepening of her studies, she has been able to analyze people's emotions gradually from the psychological point of view. "I feel that I am closer to the dream of psychological counselors."

Expert maxim: interest is sometimes the driving force of career choice, but starting from interest alone is dangerous.