Speaking "Out Of Bounds" Does Not Work.

2010/12/14 11:30:00 56

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A man went to hear a priest's speech. At the beginning, he was deeply moved, and he put out a lot of money to make donations.

An hour later, the man thought that the minister's speech was supposed to be over, but the priest was still on. He was a little impatient and decided to only donate some small change.

Two hours later, the priest was still pouring out. The man began to feel sick and decided not to give a cent.

Three hours later, the priest was still talking about the same reason. The man was fed up with it.

It was not easy to get to the end of the pastor's speech. At the beginning, the man who was going to donate money did not only donate a penny, but also took some money away from the donation bowl when he did not pay attention.

In life, do you often see a similar phenomenon: a mother repeatedly says to her child, "you have to put your house."

Tidy

"Clean", but the child's mother's words as ears, the house is still cluttered; wife tirelessly reminded her husband, "you should quit smoking," but the husband still smoked.

The reason for these phenomena is that too much stimulus, too much strength, too much time, exceeding the reasonable limit, has caused people's psychological impatience or resistance, and made things develop in opposite directions.

This behavior is called "overrun effect" in psychology.

Thus, if we

hope

What I say can be done.

Others

When you work, you can't take simple repetition. Instead, you can change the point of view and reduce the boredom and reverse psychology of the other side to the minimum. By that time, you may really experience the power of "a thousand words".