But My Boss Is "Roaring Emperor".

"The company is not a garbage collection station, and then you roll my bag!"

"What bullshit do you do? You can die with a little brain. Do you want to do it?"

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Does it look familiar? Does it sound like a fear? If you spend most time with yourself every day,

Case it's really killing your subordinates.

My boss is a typical Almighty roaring emperor.

When he was in a good mood, he was kind to both inside and outside. He felt like a spring breeze. We could still understand the situation and felt cold.

When he is in a bad mood, he can't see anything at all. He will blow up for a lot of silly things.

For example, the front desk is busy sending out the mail and later delivering the tea to the water. He will stand up to the front desk and shout it out to the whole company to hear it, like an automatic doorbell, to convey two messages: "I have come" and "I am very unhappy". He feels that the Department's office hygiene is not good enough. He has launched the "growling mode", which has just been spread to the evil spirits and the evil spirits. Only when the chairs in the office area have not been put to the right place, or the bulb has broken one or two, can he talk to the dragon king like wind and rain?

There is still time to purposefully or habitually roar.

Maybe your work is not up to his requirements. He acquiesced in the fact that we all have the same level and talent as him. Maybe you are diligent, but suddenly one day he is too anxious about you to add to the sin, so "you don't care about this, and no matter what you want to eat," "how to do it, can you speak people", "you should have thrown the window out".

If you change your pattern, listen to it. You can't wait for eight people until you can't stand your resignation.

But after this kind of baptism, I believe that our professional quality has also been improved, and it is good for Eason Chan to sing a good skill. He is good at singing. "Thick skinned, not painful with a knife". If it can endure, it is estimated that it can be trained to be thicker than the wall.

It's too much of a test. It's up to you to have to kneel to earn money - to lay the foundation for standing money, or to endure the destruction of self - esteem roar to find another way out.

In other words, although sometimes there is some truth in making angry and bluster, it can also solve some problems. But every day, we are all in a state of panic. We can only pretend to be calm, work efficiency is not high, and we are not good at the boss's health.

The wind is howling and the horse is calling the boss to roar.

Careful observation reveals that the roaring emperor exists in all levels of every industry.

They are just like a time bomb. They can't turn off their emotions when they switch on. They are talented, violent, demanding high demands on their subordinates, irascible and swearing.

The end result is that all the staff are trembling with fear, for fear of roaring the emperor's power, and anxious to hold the head and run away.

The roaring emperor of iron, the little employee of water.

In fact, all roaring emperor's "onset" characteristics seem to be saying that they have only one type, that is, "emotional type".

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However, their details, purposes and reasons for their attack are also different.

1, change the explosive roaring emperor.

Symptoms: just a little bit, storm, roar finish, turn softly.

Pathology:

They have superhigh standards and extremely low patience. Any response that does not correspond to their inner needs is stupid and unforgivable.

At the same time, they think highly of their anger is not right or wrong, even the deep responsibility of love. So three minutes ago, you can tear up your report and throw it on your face. After three minutes, you can't believe that when you pass through your grid, he will ask you where your child's picture was taken.

Do not think that they have the wrong nerve line, their anger is a quick release type, and it is the same as not taking the wrong medicine.

Therefore, treating them with anger is a waste of their emotions and energy.

2. Cyclical roaring emperor.

Symptoms: when it's good, everything is fine. When it comes to a critical point, it turns out that nothing is going to happen.

Pathology:

They all say the faces of children and children in June, and this boss's face is definitely more difficult to predict than the weather in June.

They are just like their elusive parents. When they are good, let their children toss about, and when they are bad, they should be beaten.

Their willful temper reveals a child's narcissism, and the earth needs to move around them. Their emotions are the best guides for others.

The key is that they seldom realize their caprice, because they never feel that their needs are unreasonable. They should be the God of the people around them. Who makes them feel so special and important?

3, the natural habit of roaring emperor.

Symptoms: one day does not roar, the whole body is itchy, roars everyday, five minutes per day, hey! Really can afford to be our boss's identity!

Pathology:

They never thought there was any taboo in expressing anger in the office. Instead, they could not show their true nature on their own territory, so as to show that this is their own responsibility field. They are not very good at distinguishing and expressing their negative emotions, whether despondent or fragile, whether disappointed or jealous, in short, all the dissatisfaction finally turned into full class hatred and national hatred.

So his anger is probably the outlet of all discontent, and the daily roar is psychological gymnastics.

In their view, such an export is the safest, because few people can see weakness or even helplessness from a raging boss.

4. The performance emperor roaring emperor.

Symptoms: overwhelming, to feel that everyone is bluffing, but in fact the roar is not roaring.

Pathology:

They do not believe that the reason is not loud, they believe that the crying children will have milk to eat. This milk means the attention of others. Of course, their crying is very special, so that no one will feel pity for them, but they are afraid to avoid it. Even angry people have strangled them for countless times in their minds.

Because their inner authority is not secure enough, they need the help of acting, so shouting is the best way to get the best price performance. If necessary, they should be accompanied by classic beating.

But the acting is really false. After all this time, the subordinates who see through their tricks will only feel that he is a paper tiger with only two colors.

Appeasing the angry Beast

If you can not resign, you will have to seek common ground while reserving differences and peaceful coexistence with the roaring emperor. Then, the following ways of dealing with the roaring emperor will be able to help you.

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1. The general rules are not painful

Few people really enjoy losing their temper, but for the growl, temper is the simplest and direct vent, so let him let him listen to you no matter how grieving you have, or let him listen to you.

From a certain point of view, you are also sharing his pressure.

Though you can't run away from a grumpy boss, you can allow yourself to turn a deaf ear to the moment and imagine the scene as a comedy movie in the silent era.

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* & amp; you first isolate yourself mentally.

Only in this way can you calm down and recover your mind.

If necessary, you can also help yourself through deep breathing.

2, dialectical treatment

4 types of roaring emperor have been mentioned before. There are different psychological needs of each type. The narcissistic person needs to be praised. Those who lack sense of security need to respect and obey. Do not directly challenge his authority unless you have decided to do so. The boss needs you equally. There is also a tolerance for things and people. This is the way he expresses his concern. For those who are angry except for how to express their emotions, what you need is empathy and understanding of his difficulties. The vulnerability and pressure he is not seen is the magic weapon that you are approaching and softening.

3, suit the remedy to the case.

Behind every negative emotion there is a profound need. Perhaps the way of growling is hard to accept, but the need behind these strong emotions is often the crux of the problem.

In addition to satisfying the different psychological needs of the roaring emperor, we need to know that solving problems in the workplace is much more important than simply dealing with emotions. Let's see what is behind them. Even consider that when he snarled, he pretended to concentrate on taking notes.

4, apprenticeship

In the same office, some experienced and highly skilled colleagues may be better at dealing with the eccentric habits of the roaring emperor, so as to learn from each other or even observe secretly.

Since countless martyrs have stepped on landmines, do not throw themselves in.

And don't forget to work hard in peacetime. Don't wait for the growling of the emperor to think about what to do. The accumulation of normal relationships is the key.

TIPS talents

In view of the above psychological experts to give a "trick and admire" skill, we also collected some attitude and experience of professionals in the workplace for your reference.

The position of such a boss and employee is not equal, it is difficult for employees to change this situation, and this emotional situation is a kind of pressure on employees.

I offer two solutions:

Peace plan: smile, respond with a lighter voice: "I know."

Pretend not to hear his volume.

The plan of resistance: roaring back with the same decibel as the other party: "I know!" but this scheme may be dismissed, which can be used without dismissal or dismissal.

In the face of my cool eyes, all roaring is floating clouds. Life is so beautiful, but you always roar, so bad, bad.

Roaring emperor is not terrible.

After being snarled, he gracefully raised a cup of black tea and handed it to the dry, growling roaring Emperor: you have worked hard, please have a cup of tea.