Teach You How To Change "Bad Luck" In The Workplace

In modern life, quite a few people unknowingly let others master and control, playing the role of "psychological slaves". They engage in their own abhorrence.

A slave to "doomed"

This type of "psychological slave" lacks self-awareness and thinks that he is very small and can not really see himself.

They often complain that "I don't have a good chance", "I will fail", "everyone around me is against me" and "leaders do not value me".

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Countermeasures:

(1) constantly using good, positive and constructive vocabulary to hint at oneself will enhance self-confidence.

At ordinary times, we should try to think about why we can do it, instead of focusing on why we can't do it.

Second, I often think "I will succeed" and "I am a winner" in my mind. This will enhance my belief in winning and try to find ways to help success.

Slaves of "security"

Many people would rather eat "big pot" than reform, which is a typical "sense of security" slave.

Lack of imagination is a common psychological feature of slaves of "security".

Actually, risk exists objectively. Human survival and development is a process of continuous struggle and continuous elimination of insecurity.

Countermeasures:

Make life colorful and vivid.

Second, because there are risks, there will be climbing. If there are difficulties, there will be breakthroughs. There will be pressure to rise.

Therefore, we should learn to face all kinds of difficulties and rare and unknown things.

Slaves of past mistakes

The mind is controlled by past failures and fears that any new attempt is the main characteristic. Once bitten by a snake, I Nawa for ten years.

They were frustrated by their failure and did not know how to sum up their experiences and lessons from failure.

Slaves in past mistakes can damage people's ability to explore and stop people from going forward.

Countermeasures:

Failing to regard failure as an investment is not a loss.

Edison was said to have failed 9999 times in order to create the first practical lamp bulb, but he himself thought he had found 9999 ways that could not be applied.

2. If we can detect mistakes in time, it will not be a mistake at all.

"Too late" slaves

This "psychological slave" usually believes that something should be done at a certain age.

For example, some think that they have missed a good opportunity. Now they are in a dilemma, riding a tiger, and have to wait for their fate.

Some think that 26 years old are too old to go to university for further education. Some think that they are 40 years old and can not remarry.

Countermeasures:

First, pay no attention to age restrictions and look for fresh examples from life.

(2) do not steal away from others.

We should work hard towards our ideals in a planned and step-by-step manner.

The slave of "how others think"

This kind of "psychological slave" is the most common, most destructive to creativity and personality, especially to immature people.

"If I speak more, others will think I love the limelight", "I do that, others will laugh at me."

This "others" thought makes it a slave to others' thinking.

Most of these "psychological slaves" will also listen to the advice of unqualified people, which will seriously affect their creativity.

Countermeasures:

If you can feel happiness after imitating others, you may as well try to imitate.

Otherwise, you should live your life in your own way.

Second, face others' criticism and criticize rationally, because the higher the position is, the more chance people will be taken as gossiping and the more chances to be criticized.

3. Be friends with people who dare to act, be helpful and like-minded.