Office Clothes Should Not Be Exposed Too Much.

A few days ago, I wore a low round collar with tight back and sleeveless sleeves. Dress To go to work, a female colleague who was on the same level with me (by the way, much worse than me) pulled me aside and told me that if I wanted to be respected, then I'd better not be so exposed. But almost all the other female colleagues in our office are not wearing the same clothes. So I am puzzled: is there any dress code yet? Do others care? In order to see the success of others in the eyes, do I really have to cover myself up to death?

When I first started working in an American bank when I was in my twenties, a woman colleague pulled me aside and told me that my clothes were wrong. With my first month's salary, I bought a blue suit from fashion designer's hand in the Covent Garden. The Navy wind has huge brass buckles, and the lower body is less than the knees. Culotte 。 As a result, my colleague looked at me with an incredible expression on his clothes. She said, you look so weird and want to be noticed, and your skirt is too short. Like you, I hate people being so nosy. Unlike you, I rushed out and bought a dark blue long dress suit that was conservative, with no visible figure, plus several shirts with collar buttons.

My new dress looks dull and old-fashioned, but the effect is ideal. But that era is different now. There was a dress code at that time. Only stupid people and super rookies get it wrong. Women must dress up like men. In order to be taken seriously, they must conceal their gender characteristics. Today there is still a dress code, but it is hard to tell the specific rules and regulations, and there is no longer any fixed punishment mode for those who violate the rules. Smart women do not care whether they are "valued" or not. In the past, it was called "ostentatious" behavior.

London politics Economics Catherine hacking of the college puts forward the concept of "sexy capital". People with sexy capital can often think of success. People with strong sexy capital seem to be better off than those who have no sexy capital. People who don't have many sexy capital naturally can increase their sexy capital by pushing on a pair of beautiful high-heeled shoes, putting on lipstick and wearing a proper skirt. I guess your colleague may be very clear about this. Her "advice" is actually a protest roar: you have more sexy capital than she does. But that does not mean that you wear that skirt very well. It doesn't fit. It depends on the country you live in and the industry you are in. There is no uniform standard. We can tolerate the exposure of our hairdresser, but we can not tolerate the exposure to our tax returns. It's stupid, but that's the way it is. However, no matter what job you are engaged in, sex is almost always good according to experience, and vulgarity is almost always bad unless you deliberately satirize someone. It is better to wear clothes in the office than to mock others in the office.

Too much exposure is boring. Men do not want to dress too exposed to women at work. We don't know where to look - to be precise, we know where to look, but we know we shouldn't look at it, and force our eyes to move away from each other's neck.

Suggestions for some professionals

1. male Manager: how to wear, don't listen to your colleagues.

How do you dress up the beautiful women executives in your company? If you work in a law firm, you may have to follow a more conservative dress code in the summer. However, if you work in the fashion industry, just like my wife, you may not be dressed enough. According to reliable news, "underwear is worn as a garment this season."

2. male Headhunters: do not expose cleavage if you are over 30 years old.

Yes, dear, there is a dress code. Although in the office you can actually wear anything you want, but if you really want to be respected, promoted, and expect others to ask for your advice, then you have to abide by the dress code: you should not let people see your back or cleavage. Judging from your evaluation of the figure of the co-worker, it is obvious that you are wearing a tight skirt to attract attention. This is another dress code that is completely different from one another.

3. female lawyer: This is not in the bar.

In the office, women should not expose the part of a man without exposure. Apart from revealing a little thighs properly, this is the proper workplace dress. This is the office, not the bar. In most trading venues, showing women's beauty is neither timely nor detrimental.

4. female manager: don't wear the same clothes.

Please consider wearing socks, shoes, trousers, vest (to prevent sweat exudation) and shirts. Then think about it. If you go to work dressed like you don't wear it, will your male colleagues feel even more disgusted.