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Five Effective Strategies To Improve Self Attractiveness

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1. During the speaking process, we must keep two < a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp" > the basic principle < /a > /strong > /p >
 1, the point of view is right and wrong has been .
 the most easily made mistake when we speak is that we judge each other's opinions in our hearts. In fact, everyone's viewpoint is only a different view of things. It is difficult to judge who is right or wrong. The reason why we should judge is that in our own mind, we have a set of values or methodologies that deal with things and discriminate right and wrong. It can not represent others, nor can it represent truth. If you judge by listening, you will freeze the speaker in your heart, and you will inevitably have emotional and verbal bad performance in the conversation. 
 > as the saying goes, all roads lead to Beijing. Only by listening attentively to their statements can we know the origin of events and opinions and make the correct analysis and judgement. Perhaps the other party can bring you a whole new set of ideas or ideas. 
 to listen to the mentality of discovering the new continent, he / she will be in high spirits. 
 2, full respect for .
 Kong Shengren said, "three people go, there must be my teacher." As there are no two identical leaves in the world, people have different ways of thinking about things. They have a learning attitude to communicate with people. This is the basis of respect. 
 respect can maintain your good posture in communication; 
 respect can let the other side feel your sincerity and respect; 
 respect can show you the deepest heart. 
 let others respect themselves, first of all, they must respect others. 
 two, try not to use < a href= > http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp > negativity < /a > words /p >
 psychologists have found that using negative words in communication is better than using negative words. Because the use of negative words can give people a sense of command or criticism, though it clearly illustrates your point of view, but it is even more difficult to accept. 
"P >" like, "I don't agree with you going to Beijing today". Let's change it. "I want you to rethink your idea of going to Beijing today." 
In P communication, many problems can be expressed by affirmative words. 
 three, changing from one angle to another is more acceptable than /p >
 Chinese is one of the most complex languages in the world. This complexity also shows its richness and variety. The same view will have many ways of expression. 
, what we are saying is that a lady is very fat. 
 a way of saying: "you are really fat and need to lose weight"; 
 another way of saying: "you used to be a very slim person." 
There are many ways to express P. If you are the woman, which one will you like, there are second ways. So when we want to express our views, we might as well think about it for three seconds, and perhaps produce more wonderful and pleasant language. 
 four, use your < a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp > body language < /a > /strong > /p >
 body language includes all kinds of actions that various parts of the body cooperate to express their views. Words, intonation and body movements constitute an expression system for human communication. Only when each part is perfectly matched can the best effect be achieved. Studies have shown that the roles of words, intonation, body movements and so on in communication are different, with 7% of written language, 38% of intonation and 55% of body movements (Language). 
 if we only look at the word "this is one million yuan", you may be very difficult to make the correct judgement, do not know what it means, but if you add words and expressions, it will be easy to understand what it means to express. 
 such as: when we say "this is one million yuan", with a surprised expression and intonation, it will make people feel very suddenly. If you add angry expressions and intonation, you will have a feeling of great disaster, and there will be many meanings to express. 
 strong > five. Hope is more effective than command. /p >
"P" command language can give people a sense of discrimination and disrespect. This feeling will weaken people's enthusiasm and sometimes make people feel sick. This feeling will naturally have adverse effects on the results. 
 such as: "you must finish the work within five days." It turns out that "according to your ability, I believe you will achieve our goal in five days." 
 this way of expression and communication is most effective in work. To develop such a task or work habit, you will not only reduce your authority but increase your charm.