You Can'T Wear Chanel, And You Can'T Forget Yourself.

I went to see a documentary about < a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_p.asp > Chile" /a "one day in April. I began to suffer more than ten minutes at the beginning of the P. I kept talking about how physicists were looking at the stars in the Atacama Desert and trying to explore the universe.

There were only four people in the entire projection room. I was ashamed to slip away and had to take all the patience to continue to see it. The other half of the film told us that thousands of political prisoners who were executed during the Pinochet era were buried under the same desolate land of Mars.

This history is avoided and covered, but it has not been forgotten.

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< p > a group of women are still struggling to find the wreckage of their loved ones.

They were digging in the bleak deserts with simple little shovels, because they were their fathers, husbands, brothers and sons.

It is not enough to find broken bones. They want all, just want.

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P > I can't forget the women in front of the camera for a long time.

They are ordinary women, not Joan of arc, not Teresa's nun, not Mrs. Baylon.

But when they say "the day I have been digging to death", I can feel the strength and strength of women in the tens of thousands of miles away.

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< p > Ted has a speech from Eve Ensler, the author of the vagina monologue, which is called "Embrace Your Inner Girl", embracing your inner maiden, I read it over and over again.

Eve講述了她認(rèn)識(shí)的14歲荷蘭女孩坐著一艘小船，獨(dú)自環(huán)游了世界;一個(gè)女孩在樹上住了整整一年，為了保護(hù)野生橡樹不被砍伐;她17年前認(rèn)識(shí)的阿富汗女孩在17歲時(shí)把攝像機(jī)藏在布卡之下，記錄了911之后阿富汗針對(duì)婦女的血腥暴力;一個(gè)叫Rachel Corrie的女孩站在以色列的坦克前對(duì)實(shí)槍荷彈的士兵大聲說：停止占領(lǐng)，最后坦克從她的身體上碾過;一個(gè)因強(qiáng)暴而懷孕的女孩對(duì)Eve說“我愛我的孩子，我怎能不愛他，他身上流淌著愛”;一個(gè)叫Agnes Pareyio的肯尼亞婦女在很小時(shí)被迫接受割禮，于是多年間她到處行走，拯救了4500名少女免于這種酷刑，她后來建立了一個(gè)庇護(hù)所讓前來避難的女孩讀書學(xué)習(xí)，再后來她成為了當(dāng)?shù)氐母笔虚L，改變了當(dāng)?shù)胤ㄒ?guī)，也徹底改變了當(dāng)?shù)厝嗣竦挠^念……

This is the incredible power of women. They look at the world with pure eyes, and rise from the ruins again and again, as bright as the sun.

The world treats them like grass, and they bloom like roses.

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There are too many moments in P. I hate my female identity, natural sensitivity, impulse, credulity, compromise, weakness, and even goodness.

I have hidden my thoughts and ideas for many times to please the society.

I dare not say loudly that I want to adopt a girl later. I dare not say that I love freedom. I dare not say that I have a big dream. I dare not say that I hate to see women being hurt by a patriarchal society.

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< p > I look at my diary and feel ashamed for my past sentimentality. I feel embarrassed by love and frustrated by my uninhibited sympathy.

I try to keep myself close to the qualities I like.

But it makes me miserable.

I saw the wonderful women around me being sighed for not being married. I saw that a clean, water like girl became a household tool and accessories for her boyfriend. I saw a girl with a mental figure and put all her energy into the business of a wealthy family. I saw Yang Lan's advice to the girl, saying, find a husband who can help you realize your dream.

All of this disappointed me. Why did no one tell us to find your inner strength? Why did no one encourage us and love God's gift for us? < /p >

< p > later I learned how to hide my emotions, no longer write sentences full of melancholy, used to build a supporter, build up walls to protect myself.

But I miss my crying when I was a teenager, sitting on the bus and dreaming of the sky, I dream of killing a dragon.

That is the soft girl in my heart.

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< p > later I grew up and stumbled and lost a lot, but eventually I grew up.

There is no need to live in fear every day. At last, there is a sense of security, self awareness, pride and happiness, I 'm a girl.

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< p > too many girls I know are brightly dazzling.

They live hard, passionately invest in each love and work diligently.

Leisure time to volunteer, volunteer teachers, do outdoor walking leaders, film documentaries, hold exhibitions of their own, go back to Africa in their own backpack, hike seven times on foot, ride across the mainland of the United States, speak four or five languages, and know how to distinguish animals.

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< p > not all girls' lives are only a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp" > Cartire < /a > and Hermes, not girls. The standard of marriage is how big a house is. There are several zero bank deposits. Besides having different cups of ABCD, there are different minds and feet that have stepped across different lands.

Please cast aside the sex to look at women, because before they become a woman, they are first independent.

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< p > the world is selling women, the girls in Africa are sold as slaves, and girls in the Middle East are sold for cattle and sheep.

In this society where we live, women's souls are sold away.

The danger is that all people are so open to accepting that the mainstream values of society are better than good marriages.

Female doctors were laughed at, left girls were pitied, single women were regarded as public nuisance, girls in love fell down the bottom line again and again to conform to their boyfriends, and a good girl found a boy who was much worse than her. In order not to be abandoned, women spent all their time on mask, weight loss, shopping and even cosmetic surgery.

Self abased and even ashamed, the thirty year old woman kept on giving advice to girls in their early twenty years. "To be a woman is to turn a blind eye." "after this age, a man can't see you."

Women's inner strength is not only stolen by men, but also inhibited by women.

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< p > one hundred years ago Coco Chanel designed pants for women, told all the girls: "you can not wear Chanel, you can also have little a target=" _blank "href=" http://www.91se91.com/ "> clothes" /a "for choice, but never forget one of the most important clothes, this dress is called self.

Kappa made me understand that I can live in my own way, run my business according to my wishes, and choose my lover according to my desires, which is the best gift that kappa gave me.

However, after one hundred years of modern society, countless well-educated, intelligent, able and humorous girls can not afford to take off heavy, heavy and complicated bodice and breathe freely.

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< p > if you are a girl, cherish your vulnerability, your intuition, your sharpness, your compassion, your purity.

Cherish yourself.

Make your own life.

The meaning of the existence of no woman is simply to breed the next generation.

God gives women birth because our body contains the most precious force - love, if love makes us weak, it will surely make us stronger.

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