Circle Of Friends Shields Leaders And Leads To Workplace Difficulties And Friendship Breakdown.

< p > when a person decides to block another person in his circle of friends, he will hold two emotions: either the ostrich attitude that he should not be found, or the attitude of "being discovered and what" is not afraid of boiling water.

But will you continue to think, what will they think of those who are shielded by you? What's more, what will these thoughts do to you? < /p >

In P Hitchcock's back window, people always want to know what the men and women are doing in the strange window, and what happens behind this window is always a little more complicated than you think.

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< p > < strong > > a href= "http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_f.asp" > workplace circle < /a > /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > shielding leader please raise your hand < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > leaders conducted visual bombardment in their circle of friends and found that they were shielded from their subordinates and scolded /strong < /p >.

< p > leaders will surely cry if they read the "China Youth Daily" poll: among the 2503 people interviewed, "leaders" are the most shielded people except "strangers", and nearly 30% of them have been shielded from their leaders in the circle of friends.

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< p > Linda has always felt that using "wonderful flowers" is not enough to describe his friend who loves his friends.

Though engaged in accountancy as a rational profession, the leader is irrational in front of his friends circle. He has to make friends in a few places and turn over the photo album of his leadership, which is a visual bombing.

The leader also urged Linda to pay attention to her circle of friends, and Linda promised to quietly shield her.

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< p > until the leader's birthday, department meetings, she encouraged everyone to send letters, and then to each subordinate circle of friends "point praise", suddenly found that she was silently shielded by several people, the leader led them down, and the direct subordinate Linda was even scolded.

The story ended with a dramatic conclusion: the leader also had her own BigBoss, who was fired directly because she forgot to shield her friend in the circle of friends.

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< p > compared with such a best story, fan fan's experience is more comfortable and the ending is more tragic.

In order to watch the world cup all night, he asked the leader to ask for leave to pretend that he had to go to the hospital second days in the morning. After that, the satisfaction after watching the game made him forget himself and sent a circle of friends.

Then, the leader made a point of praise, and by the time of dispatch, Xiao Fan had not received any notice from his leader that he would go to work again.

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< p > < strong > < a > href= > http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_f.asp > Leadership > /a > How do we see ourselves shielded? < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > positive: the ability to look at will not be entangled, and business is public. < /strong > < /p >

< p > strong > negative: WeChat is also a business tool. There is a secret hiding from me. < /strong > /p >

< p > you think the leader doesn't know you block him? Wrong! M Aggie, the boss of the home business, said, "if you are a leader, you will not find yourself shielded." as long as you pay attention to the annual meeting and collective activities, "but it will not affect the working relationship between me and the employees. What we are looking for is the ability of the employees to work."

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"P >" A lfred, who works in a five star hotel in Shenzhen, said frankly that if she had been two or three years ago, she would have been ashamed of herself, and could not get any trust and worry about herself, even considering whether she would be more relaxed in her work. But now she will not worry about it at all. "Look at yourself, but never lower your job requirements, and you will not lower your standards in order to gain" trust ".

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< p > but no psychological fluctuation is impossible. Nearly fifty of Mr. Hao runs a business in Shenzhen. When he discovered that he had been with his marketing director for nearly ten years, he was also stunned by his friends circle.

Although he also comforted himself with no need to share life directly, Mr. Hao also had another consideration. "WeChat is not a pure private social software. The function of work communication and customer liaison also occupy a large proportion. The director of marketing is such an important post that it completely shields me. Is there anything I don't want to know?" < /p >

< p > < strong > expert theory shielding: < /strong > < /p >.

< p > < strong > shielding leadership affects career development < /strong > < /p >

Cao Zixiang, a senior human resource expert and a senior partner of Peking University longitudinal management consulting group, points out that once "shielding" is discovered by the leadership, it will have more or less influence on career development. "Leadership is a manager, but basically a person", especially those who are more sensible, are more likely to be influenced by such things. P

In addition, the location of employees in the enterprise will determine the size of the impact.

Most of the backbone will not be affected, but for the employees at the edge, it is not a bad thing to try hard to get the trust of the leaders, and opening up the circle of friends is helpful.

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< p > < strong > shielding colleagues and customers. Please raise your hand < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > the intern shields the teacher, then he has never had a teacher < /strong > /p.

"P", "The Legend of Zhen Huan" was hot. At that time, some people thought that if there was a circle of friends in this palace, it would be enough to shield the 50 elements.

Real life is no worse than TV play. Small owners can change into an intern.

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When the male interns came to the company after P, 90, they were humbly and courteous, and joined friends with their predecessors. When we were all looking forward to seeing this little friend's circle, we found that almost everyone was shielded from him. There was only one exception. The first beauty of the company was not shielded, but the interns also praised the teachers in the circle of beautiful women. The screened teachers said they were tired and did not love, and they never took the intern again.

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< p > < strong > > a href= "http://sjfzxm.com/news/index_f.asp" > colleague < /a > and how do customers see themselves shielded? < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > colleague: after being shielded, the heart knot is < /strong > < /p >.

< p > < strong > Customer: feel that the other side is not honest. < /strong > < /p >

Xiao Qiao, who works in an advertising agency, recently discovered that he had been shielded by a colleague who was not a regular colleague. Although Richie Ren taught everyone: "it's not yours, don't force it."

But little Joe found that when he was faced with his colleague again, it was difficult to maintain a normal mind. "How can he see why he is not pleasing to the eye, and explore it carefully?" maybe he shielded me from that. It meant that I didn't see eye to eye, so I made an eye for an eye.

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< p > red wine supplier Zhu Chengxu admitted that in the process of cooperation with customers, if you see some private content in your friend's circle, you will feel "bonus" in your impression, and feel that this person is willing to show his trust, but if he is shielded, he thinks the opposite is true.

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< p > < strong > expert theory shielding: < /strong > < /p >.

< p > < strong > colleague shielding is not surprising because interest is not compatible. < /strong > < /p >

< p > Liu Jun, vice president of School of management, Shenzhen University, thinks that the main reason for shielding is that everyone has different orientation to friends circle, and friends circle is carried on the entity circle. Otherwise, these virtual friends circle will gradually become a dead account.

Even if a colleague wants to be active in the same circle for a long time, he also needs some like-minded people who have common characteristics to gather in a circle and create circles through the demand of information. Therefore, if interest is different, shielding will happen naturally, and there is no need to be surprised.

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< p > < strong > private life circle < /strong > < /p >

< p > come out and mix it up.

When you block others, you should be prepared to be shielded by others, and vice versa.

WeChat's circle of friends is an extension of social relations, and this extension in private life will be more sensitive and subtle.

"Do not see TA's circle of friends" express the visual fatigue or inner antipathy towards the other side, while the motivation to "let TA see my circle of friends" is more intense, expressing a stronger sense of self-protection for the shielded people.

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< p > < strong > shielding relatives. Please raise your hand < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > cousin's excessive concern causes the cousin to be too stressed to block the other party < /strong > /p >

< p > at a recent family gathering, the cousin on the path played with his cell phone. After a while, the other brothers and sisters laughed and said that the comic strips sent by their cousin friends circle were funny.

The path also picked up the cell phone to see, but found that the circle of friends has not been updated.

When the words came to my lips, I suddenly woke up and swallowed it hard. Was I screened by my cousin? < /p >

< p > the path is very depressed. After working for two years, he was in Shenzhen with his cousin who just went to university. He took care of his cousin very much. He also invited her to eat or go out to play, and felt that the two cousins were intimacy. How could she shield himself? He tried to forget about it in the next few days, but every time she looked at her friends circle, she contacted her cousin.

At last, when he invited his cousin to dinner, he couldn't help poking it up. His cousin was embarrassed to tell the reason.

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< p > originally, because the path is very concerned about the cousin, no matter what friends circle she sends, the path will always comment more or less. For example, the cousin occasionally has a minor illness, "do it" in the circle of friends, ask for a little partner's care, and the road will be very nervous about asking.

Over time, the cousins began to feel uncomfortable. Under the concern of the path, they could not let go of the Tucao. They said that they were afraid of the worry of the path, and simply shielded the path.

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< p > after listening to the explanation of my cousin, the path is relieved: "the closer the closer, the more space we need for each other.

Sometimes things are too intense for their loved ones, and the other party will feel constrained.

After all, the circle of friends is full of emotions and hypocrisy. There's really something like a phone call.

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< p > < strong > shielding students, please raise your hand < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > Bai Fu Mei WeChat is tall and tall, and the poor students are shielded from being stimulated. < /strong > /p >

< p > shielding by an unfamiliar friend is a normal thing. It is acceptable for students who are not close to each other. The problem is, why do you block me when you look down at the same roof every day? Why do you block me? Wang Xue found herself shielded by her roommate C and her lungs were all blown up: "she shielded me from the entire dormitory. I didn't hate her, and I didn't usually have chicken soup at all. What shielding me?" < /p >

< p > it is doubtful that the relationship in Wang Xuegen's dormitory has been quite harmonious, and there is no friction. C's attitude towards her is usually as friendly and friendly as usual. It makes her wonder whether she is mistaken.

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< p > until one C student is not in the dormitory, Wang Xue can not help consulting other roommates, her roommate D just broke the words: "do you know that C's family condition is very poor, the heart is somewhat inferiority, your white Fu Mei does not screen, but every time the photos are always very tall, not traveling abroad is buying bags, and how to get C."

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Wang Xue understands that P is not only a friend but also a friend. Because of the growing environment, many others are not accustomed to what they are accustomed to.

The awkward and dodging awkwardness of daily life, but the circle of friends must be achieved through shielding.

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< p > < strong > shielding friends. Please raise your hand < /strong > /p >

< p > < strong > shielded by friends, registered with strange numbers and added to see whether she speaks ill of herself < /strong > /p >

< p > "annoyance and annoyance, even if I am shielded, I am not a good friend.

Chen Li recently discovered that many of her friends A's circle of friends had not been updated, and entered the "personal album".

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< p > she does not want to be self interested and ask Miss A, but she thinks about it. Maybe miss A recently introduced another sister B to know her. Chen Li played better with B. She often commented and commented in her circle of friends. Miss A probably had a sour heart.

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< p > "this is too cautious. I decided to ignore her."

Having said this, Chen Li later registered another micro signal, pretending to be a stranger and adding miss A, paying attention to her updates from time to time.

"See if she speaks ill of me."

The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death, but when I am a good friend, you close your circle of friends.

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< p > < strong > expert theory shielding: < /strong > < /p >.

< p > < strong > WeChat is still the projection of traditional way of communication, shielding is not recognized by the other party < /strong > /p >

< p > "WeChat circle of friends is only a form of traditional way of communication projected to new technology, and the principle of human interaction has not changed."

Feng Yuan, a professor at Zhongshan University, said that "shielding" has become a signal. In fact, it is directly related to "others' recognition". "Recognition by others" is the most important rule that affects a person's development. Open circle of friends is interpreted as "recognition". Shielding is the opposite. New technology only gives expression to this emotion.

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< p > Feng Yuan thinks that the function of "shielding" may be disturbing now. With the development of media technology, new functions and software will solve this problem and stimulate to others as little as possible.

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< p > < strong > circle of friends: < /strong > < /p >

< p > 1. when you choose the photos you want to share, when you share the previous step, when you input the idea of "this moment", one of the last second lines is called "visible range". You can see different groups if you click in.

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< p > 2. if you have never been divided into groups, there is an item called "edit my group" in the lower left corner. After entering it, the next line is "new" operation. After clicking the button, you can choose different contacts to join this new group, and you can name the group after confirmation.

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After P > 3., you can choose your friends circle to choose this group. Only people in this group can see your circle of friends.

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