Too Strong Personality For Workplace? Don't Pull It Off!

Almost everyone thinks he is very personality, and this sex is more or less not for society or workplace. A cynic with strong personality usually has two ways to go: either to be afraid of poverty, to carry out the character in the end, or to defer to the masses and live in the middle class or the rich. Of course, there are third ways, which lead to a relatively prosperous life, but also retain some personality. This kind of person will be recognized as "living in an ignoble way" by a strong personality.

A very personal "best Secretary in history" - Miss Rebecca, who bravely fought against E-mail in the Greater China area, was reportedly forced to leave her original company and went to IBM. This fully shows that the modern workplace does not exclude people with individuality. People who have stronger personality are more likely to be welcomed by a company with stronger personality or a company that claims to be a stronger personality. You can use the worst malice to speculate on the motives of the company: for Zhang Xian's own breadth of mind, in order to have a relationship with hot events and popular figures, take advantage of this opportunity to develop a brand marketing campaign to emphasize and publicize the corporate culture that encourages individuality. No matter what the reason is, the fact is that even if the personality is strong enough to be able to find decent work for all the colleagues and the noisy employees of the president,

In fact, I have reservations about the conflict between personality and workplace. There is no conflict between them.

A friend who works in writing has recently been dug up by a company to be a public relations director. The proud and proud friends of both the salary and the position are unhappy all the time, and his personality has suffered a lot of grievances. First of all, he is not good at it and he does not want to communicate with others. He prefers to read books, write articles and trance at night. Secondly, although he likes to be valued, he does not like to socialize and is not good at speaking. So it is exhausting to have endless parties and endless parties. In addition, he advocated freedom and thought that everyone was equal, so he was negligent in managing two people and suffering from insomnia by the attendance system.

Yes, it is hard to imagine that someone would pay a high salary and ask such a person to be the director of public relations. The reality is that anything can happen. In fact, the main problem faced by friends who are in a strong conflict between personality and position is: when the yearning for salary and position is not compatible with the yearning for sexual life, which one do you want? Or is it not a conflict between personality and job or workplace, but a conflict between one desire and another desire.

At that time, the golden mean words will jump out in time - "balance". The only way to get rid of that prominent position and salary is to get rid of the autism of others, that is, to choose a job with less salary, but less demanding for communication and management.

But who is willing to give up the baby who has seen the baby in his hands? So the other option is to live a life which is not very pleasant in spirit when both are not thrown away.

For those in the workplace who think that the world is drunk and I wake up alone and try to be independent, the following three points need extra attention:

First, analyze your personality in detail. Do you like to be alone? Do not like to speak? Do not like to flatter? Do not want to punch cards? But at the same time, we hope that the economy will be prosperous and the job will be noble. List these likes and dislikes, and make the two evils meet lightly. At this point, you will find that in order to get more than 1000 yuan a month, sometimes you will find it difficult to communicate with others.

Two, do not regard the dark side of the workplace as a stubborn disease in the workplace. In fact, the reasonable state you think is not necessarily effective. There are unsatisfactory places in the workplace, but this is because there are unsatisfactory places in human nature. Where there are people, there are disappointments. Why not optimistic?

Three, people with individuality are always welcome! selfish Pronoun. If you are sincere, optimistic, and even a little kind, no matter what personality or even quirk can be accepted. Of course, the prerequisite is that your business capability is strong enough.

Modern industrial assembly trains people to be as rigid as robots, and many people really forget. personality Living a group life. Of course, industrial society will not mourn for the disappearance of individuality. They are concerned about the extinction of creativity as a by-product of the extinction of individuality, because creativity can bring about. wealth 。 So when you compromise your personality for a better job, try to preserve your individuality as much as possible, in order to make you happier and to bring more wealth to you.