Calmly Deal With Interpersonal Skills In Workplace

The so-called "talented person" means that when you first give a stranger a first impression, we all know that the first impression is very important. We should leave a good impression on the other person, especially to let the other person remember you in the shortest time.

Then our own appearance and behavior are very important; we should pay attention to our own connotation, cultivation and so on, and these are not formed overnight, which requires us to form good habits in our daily life.

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The so-called "two sets of clothing", that is, on what occasions to wear what kind of clothes, your clothes should be suitable for the environment at that time.

"Two sets of clothing" also tells us to be easy-going, do things according to circumstances, can not die hard.

The so-called "three cups of alcohol", that is, if a person does not drink,

It's not easy to handle.

A person will drink, but he can not drink too much; the right amount can close the relationship between people, but excessive will be "drunk chaos"; moderate drinking, whether it is good for the body or interpersonal relationships.

The so-called "four circles mahjong", that is, a person to have a wide range of hobbies, what kind of words and what kind of things to do with others, what you play, you will play, he likes things you must understand, but you can not master.

For example, people talk to you about recent sports news, but you just don't like sports, and you don't understand. When people talk about it, you can only be "two masters".

This is also called "long line fishing for big fish".

The so-called "five party"

"That is to say," the five party in southeast, northwest and China, you can't exclude friends. You never know what kind of friends you need and what kind of people you interact with. You have a measure of your own mind, but you can't exclude friends from him.

We all know that "six out of Qi Mountain" means that Zhu Geliang had six rivers and mountains, and knew that he could not do it.

The so-called "six out of Qi Mountain" means that we have committed ourselves to others and have promised others. Although you can't do it, you must do your best. We only ask if we should and ask if it is possible to know that there is no impossible thing in the world.

"Operation" is a different way of Magic: "fight horse": flattering.

"Seven horses fight" means that people should praise your boss's decision before they have to, but they should say something undesirable to him alone, that is to say, 70% flattery and 30% sincere advice.

The so-called "eight brag", that is, a person does not "boast", then people do not know what you have done; a person too boast, all people will not trust you; therefore, slightly exaggerate their contribution is OK, but too much expansion of their ability is not good.

When a person talks about others, he exaggerates himself and exaggerates himself. Two people go out to do things and report back to superiors. When I speak, I brag about him. When he talks, he boasts me, so we two are magnified, so people want to brag.

The relationship between somebody and their predecessors is to push people forward.

The so-called "nine points effort" requires us to bear hardships and stand hard work, work hard, work hard, study hard and improve our ability.

The so-called "very patient" is to require a person to have tolerance and endurance.

If a person is not able to endure, the first nine will do no matter how well they do.