"Weaning" As Soon As Possible

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There is such a phenomenon: some graduates who have graduated for one or two years have not really graduated from psychology. They miss the good life in the University and are restless with their career prospects.

In the face of changing roles from students to "social people", "fresh people" should actively adjust their mindset to get through the psychological weaning period after graduation as soon as possible.

Xiao Wang, who worked in a certain institution, graduated from a famous university last year. She has to return to her alma mater almost every month for a year.

At the beginning of my graduation, I was working with civil servants.

Xiao Wang is very energetic.

But she gradually found that many jobs could not be done according to herself.

The relationship with leaders and colleagues is also much more complicated than that in schools.

When depressed, she even missed her college life and sighed that the good days were gone forever.

Last year, I graduated from a famous university in Beijing and worked in a bank data center, dealing with lots of data every day.

The boring life is far from the ideal of the University.

He was unwilling to be mediocre, but he could not change the status quo and became restless.

Many young people reflect that after a year of graduation, their classmates are reunited. Everyone has a feeling of "confusion": they are not satisfied with their work and have no ambition.

Employers also complain a lot about young employees who have not yet graduated from psychology.

Many units said that under the same conditions, they were more willing to hand over important projects to employees who had at least 3 years of work experience. Graduates who graduated just now tended to have high goals, but their performance was not satisfactory.

After graduation, we still regard the University as "mother's home", which is a manifestation of mental immaturity.

Nowadays college students are mostly single children, and their life trajectories from small to large are designed by their parents.

Although he has joined the work, he still subconsciously takes himself as a student, and his role has not yet been completed. The increasingly fierce competition has also led to the impetuous attitude of young people and eager to make comparisons.

"Being able to endure loneliness" is a must for every independent adult.

At the beginning of their career, everyone has ideal ambitions, but in the end, they really succeed in their careers.

Expecting to stand out from the beginning is not only unrealistic, but will increase the difficulty of adjustment.

Graduates are the "social people" who leave campus. One of their basic responsibilities is to improve their lives and their lives through hard work.

On this basis, retaining a little innocence, a personality, not in the mediocre, drift with the tide, is the real mature performance.