[Night Reading] Don'T Discount Your Life.

When I was working in a foreign company, I went shopping with my female boss one day.

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When we were sitting in a big bag and sitting down for coffee, the female boss asked me, "is the new year coming, not buying gifts for my family?"

I laughed and said, "my parents are very frugal. Only when they do not spend too much money do they feel that I will live and have a happy life in the future."

The female boss looked at me and told her own story: "you know what? I used to be a very fond of worrying about the future.

I always worry about my career. I always want to save more money, read more books and get higher grades.

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When I was 36 years old, I conceived a child, but at that time I was admitted to Ph. D. in economics.

Learning is very intense. In order to be better, I read all night, and the child aborted. I never conceived a child again.

Now I have a lot of money, but I can't see my child all my life. "

My boss's words shocked me.

"Many people think that saving can make their lives more secure," she added. "So they live their lives in a careless and cheap way.

In fact, this is a lack of confidence in life.

I will never advocate Hodgson's expense, but you should know that healthy enjoyment is the progress of life.

When you omit the enjoyment of your life for the future, your life will be ten percent off; if you sacrifice your freedom and affection, your life will be thirty percent off; if you give up your wishes and love, your life will be doubled, and the rich life will not be able to afford any discount.

In fact, money is not the only way, and time and energy are the same. When you are fully committed to your work and are not allocated to family relationships and love, you are not far away.

Do not pass

Life, when you find that you have, it means that you are beginning to mature.

First, when you discover that you are no longer blindly following the wind and mingling with a group of people, you begin to respect your wishes and do what you need to do, start planning your own plans, plan your own direction, and your own solitude is also full of meaning.

Two, when you face many choices, you will not hesitate any more. Your brain will soon flash over three or more reasons for choosing an option.

With his own independent thought, he began to study the problem of town thinking.

Three, when you start to feel that time is obviously not enough, it is a waste of time and money to gradually feel sleeps, shopping and so on. The idea and the time concept of action are in agreement. Reasonable arrangement of time and full life will lead to a better world.

Four, when you are reading the Internet or reading, you will shift your focus from entertainment to the news and the trend of economic development.

Entertainment is always used to laugh heartily, while news affairs are to improve personal cognition, care for national development and patriotic performance, open mind, open country, mutual needs and common progress.

Five, when you become more and more aware of the quality and regimen of your diet, you learn to stick to your breakfast and exercise every day.

As the saying goes, staying green mountains is not afraid of firewood.

No one knows the truth.

Six, when you are asked again about the weight of love, friendship and affection, the first thing you should think of is the mother at home. Blood is thicker than water is the eternal truth of the.

Seven, when you encounter bad things again, you no longer use crying to solve problems. Tears can always wash your face and change the status quo.

Eight, pay attention to your friends and lovers.

Because these people do not always exist in your life, they may be inadvertently different.

In front of them, you don't need to be fake. The innocence of yourself is staged for them in this big world. Don't forget sincerity.

Nine, to make yourself happy, to make people around you happy, is worth more than money.

Ten, when facing the problems of gain and loss, going and staying, magnanimity and openness will make complicated things simple and simple things become meaningful.

Eleven, at any time do not care for the elderly and children, the beginning of life is ignorant, the end of life should be happy.

Twelve, learn to respect everyone's life, like sunflowers like to face the sun will smile.

Thirteen, improving the peace of mind is always a bargaining chip for success.

Correctly set up the goal of progress, and let the goal of life not be spent in a heavy atmosphere. Remember, at any time, do not make yourself too tired, and the value of life is completely lost.

Fourteen, live confidently and laugh cheerfully, success and happiness keep abreast.

Not pleased by external gains, not saddened by personal losses.

Fifteen, forget hatred, spring blossoms.

The stage extends as far as the heart goes.