How To Make Yourself A Good Speaker

Many people will praise me that your writing is very good. Actually, my eloquence is better than that of writing. In those days, I took the Hebei provincial debate champion and the best series of debates.

Writing articles is nothing more than writing down what I want to say. Actually, my writing is very general, but fortunately, articles are easy to understand and chat with.

Because nowadays people's ability to concentrate is decreasing, most people are unable to read more than 1500 words at once.

I remember a survey found that the third most feared thing behind death and terminal illness is public speaking.

And the conclusion is that this is caused by the genetic influence of thousands of years, because from the ancient times, standing in the open space without concealment is surrounded by public attention. It is extremely dangerous and easy to die.

So far, I remember when I first came to public speaking, my two legs were shaking, and later I saw a lot of intern teachers.

In fact, for speaking, body and

It accounts for more than 70% of the technical content. As for what it says, it is only 30% of importance.

This problem is still very obvious in the cross talk field. The same paragraph, you say it's not very interesting. Guo Degang says it's funny, and obviously you've heard it, still feel very funny.

Of course, for most people, these 30% can not be done, let alone 70%.

So I have to talk about this 30% first.

There are only a few points in the content of the speech, with great information, strict logic and interesting expression.

The first point is that the amount of information is large. It needs to be read through a lot of reading. When you master 100 messages, you can speak 35 freely. When you only have 20 messages, I'm afraid you will not know what to say when you open your mouth.

If you have 1000 messages, you can take two hours.

Most people have a lot of trouble in accumulating. If your stomach is empty, do not expect to vomit any ivory.

So extensive reading is still very important. In this era, it is good to see more news clients, and know more about things.

Second point

We need to read more logical and rigorous articles, such as I wrote.

Ha.

Logic is not equal to fact, but it seems to make people feel reasonable. This is very important.

Many people are very talented, but the logic of writing is poor, so they are not suitable for high speed reading, because in the current situation, everyone is so busy that they especially like to see something that can be justified at the same time.

I really don't understand. I went to see detective Conan or something. It was logical reasoning.

Logical exercise is still more troublesome, the best way is to write more manuscripts, such as interviews, self introduction that paragraph, how many people wrote after the back, I have done it, do not feel that they know themselves very well, want to say well logically, or to write, even use a thinking guide map.

Repeated practice is also very important, for example, a teacher, the same text, he may talk for a lifetime, finally, the natural integrity.

Therefore, I will sort out a set of courses, and repeat, speaking more often, the more the better.

It is all practiced, not learned by reading.

The third point is to express interest.

Yes, this is too difficult. I remember reading a book about humorous books when I was a child. I think it's pretty good. Now, there are a lot of materials that classify humor types. When you are familiar with the classification, and then master a lot of scripts, you can directly associate them with them, and then flow out of the scene inadvertently in your life.

Of course, your intonation and body language will play a great role here. Many people tell jokes that can only be cold or even fights. Similarly, others say that they are no longer suitable for the occasion and they will make people laugh.

But with so much, many people will ask me, what am I practicing now? To be honest, I think I can speak very well after practicing for one or two years, but it took me three or four years to learn to shut up.

It's much more difficult to shut up than to speak. Of course, it's much easier to shut up without saying anything. You have a lot to say and shut up. That's the skill.

In the world, most people still like you to listen to him, so listening with skill will also make others feel that you have a good way of eloquence.

At least, everyone loves to get along with such people.

So I have always said that my greatest strength is not eloquence, but not only eloquence, but also shut up.

Well, shut up.