33 Sentences That Parents May Not Know

1. the main factor that affects children's performance is not school but family.

2. if home education If there is a problem, children may be hard at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" in schools.

3. good children, mothers are usually people who plan and act well. The more conscientious, the more organized and courteous the father is, the better his child will be.

4. poverty is an important educational resource, but not poorer is more conducive to children's growth. Parents need to provide basic cultural materials for their children, not to let their children fall into the inferiority abyss of poverty.

5. wealth is another kind of higher education resources. The experience of westerners is: "cultivating an aristocrat needs three generations' efforts." "The class will inherit." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. If there is no more advanced educational skills, the affluent families will bring disaster to their children's growth.

6. don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people are highly educated, but not necessarily literate. If parents do not understand life, do not know how to treat others well, and even do not know how to treat their children well, no matter how high academic level he is, he is also a person without culture.

7. parents can take their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that their parents have to live independently. If the parents are completely surrounded by their children without the theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with the growth of their children in the name of love. Sometimes, children are not separated from their parents, but parents can not do without children.

8. parents need to bear the responsibility of educating their children, but do not cancel their leisure life entirely because they educate their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much responsibility to hurt yourself."

9. if a child waits for his parents to pick up their children quickly, then the child will take advantage of their parents' characteristics to constantly entangle their parents and ask for more requests. Therefore, the child crying, do not rush to pick up the child, parents have better let themselves do something, let the child look at their actions to do things in a nimble manner.

Ten Marriage relationship Affect the character of a child. If a man does not respect his wife, his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman does not respect her husband, her daughter learns to despise her male classmates at school.

11. education is the cultivation of human spirit. The mission of parents and teachers is to let children gradually assume responsibility for their spirit, remove all kinds of pollution that may be contaminated, and cultivate the spiritual seeds of people, so that people can breathe high mountain air and make people feel proud and elated.

12. a well bred parent is a "Voltaire doctrine". "I disagree with you, but I will defend to the death your right to speak." From the day they were born, they began to reason with their children and patiently solicit their opinions. Don't expect children to learn obedience by beating and scolding children. The result of killing chickens to monkeys is that monkeys have learned to kill chickens.

13. let children become passionate and sensible people. "Without passion, no great cause can start well. Without reason, no heroic deeds can end well."

14. let your children become educated people, educated, punctual, queued, not speaking loudly in public places, and not easily angered.

15., we should be honest. If your child is more generous, please don't laugh at his weakness. Those who like to take advantage of petty gain often suffer a great deal because he is disgusted with others. Those who are willing to eat small losses will gain a lot of money in the future because they are liked by others.

16. the vitality of the body can bring spiritual energy. A good man is sunny in character. People who are not in good health are hesitant, dodgy, and hesitant to speak.

17. don't think children are 1 to 6 years old. If parents allow their children to spend 1 to 6 years of age in their grandparents or grandparents, and when their children are 6 years old, their parents will take their children back to primary school, then the child will become silent in primary school or become a lawless troublemaker.

18. often do three things with children: one is to have meals with children, two is to invite children to repair toys, furniture or clothing together, and occasionally invite children to help solve the difficulties in their work. The three is to tell children stories and invite children to tell stories by themselves.

19. if there is no special difficulty, parents should go home and eat with their children everyday. Family common Sense of worth It was built in the process of eating around the table.

20. tell children stories and invite children to tell stories, so that children can start reading and writing habits from listening to stories, so that children can learn to read independently as early as possible, and develop lifelong reading habits as early as possible. "As long as people are still reading, they will not completely degenerate, and those who have fallen completely will not read." Parents who never tell their children stories are irresponsible parents.

21. children's growth has three critical periods: the first is around 3 years old, second is around 9 years old, third are around 13 years old. If you miss the critical period of growth, there will be endless consequences.

22., it is not "30 years" but "three years old". Before and after the age of three, children must have the courage and habit of supporting themselves. Whatever you can do, you must do it by yourself. Whatever you should do, you must do your best.

23. if your child likes the verse of Frost when he is 13 years old, "two roads diverge in the woods, I choose to take the less one". This is normal. Don't worry. He may choose the one that people walk much later.

24. people's lives are full of a lot of secret love. If a child loves a certain sex, please don't laugh at him. "Secret love is the most beautiful love in the world." (Socrates)

25. it is necessary for parents to give reason to their children, but when they are speaking to children before and after the age of 13, they should pay attention to their posture of speech. Posture is more important than truth. Otherwise, children will hate and resist. Children will say, "you are right, but the way you speak is very annoying."

26. the secret of the heart is the sign of human growth and maturity. If the child has something to worry about, he doesn't want to tell you, so don't force the child to tell his secret.

27. before and after the age of 3, his children should have an ineffective indulgent parent. Around the age of 9, his children should have a positive and authoritative parent around him. Around the age of 13, there is a negative democratic parent around him. Effective education is strictly rigid and effective.

28., you must pay attention to your child's academic performance, but you don't have to worry too much about his grades. But we need to be vigilant against those who always get the first place in academic achievement. Some children have good academic performance and good character. Some children have good academic achievements, but their personality is selfish, lacking compassion and no interest in life.

29., your child must learn to associate with others and be happy to accept small partners. "If parents are dissatisfied with their neighbors, they are very picky about their children's partners, or do not let their children make friends with them, and make them feel very different from others.

30. children's growth needs companions, let children have their friends, but do not have too many promiscuous partners. Before children form mature rationality and judgment, be alert to children's bad habits of being infected with their companions.

31. let your children establish healthy aesthetics as early as possible. Promising men will love healthy women. Don't let children's aesthetics fall into low grade and morbid state. Do not think that small, sick is good. Do not think that powerful is bad. Do not think that little sparrows, little sheep, and little dogs are lovable. Do not think lions, tigers, wolves are bad. Do not think that wolves eat human beings, but wolves eat less than him.

32. the catcher in the rye has contributed a word to the world: keeping watch. Education is neither a matter of management nor a matter of fact. There is a word between "Guan Shou" and "no".

33. tell your child: children who listen seriously are good at times, and children who are serious in self-learning always get good grades.