Four Kinds Of Debts That Do Not Owe To A Loved One, So As To Prevent Them From Becoming Enemies.

Everyone is not alone. In this world, they all have their own families and have their own relatives. Some relations between relatives are unbreakable because they are linked by blood and family ties. Therefore, they will arm their arms and resist the unexpected disaster together at a time of great difficulty. But the relationship between some relatives is also vulnerable. A little thing may make them feel uneasy. The sword of affection 。 How can we live in harmony with our loved ones and avoid their enemies?

That is to say, there are four kinds of debt between relatives.

First, there is no economic account:

Although I should be more intimate than my family members, I still use a common saying here: "brothers and sisters reckoning." The accounts between relatives can not be liquidated, but some accounts can not be careless. Calculating accounts will not result in incompatibility. On the contrary, confusion accounts for a long time. So, for money and interests, if we can't do the same as Kong Rong lets pear. Then let us make clear the economic accounts between our loved ones, so that we can not owe each other economic accounts.

　 Second, do not owe debt account:

Life is a big stage. We may play different roles among relatives. Children, fathers, mothers, husbands, wives, brothers, sisters... Each role has its own duties and obligations. For example, as a son of man, we should be filial piety to the elderly. Support for the elderly Responsibility. You can not owe filial piety to the elderly. Therefore, as a parent, a child has to be raised and has responsibilities for child maintenance and education. As a child, filial piety, the duty of supporting and caring for their parents, we should not owe filial piety to the parents, and support and take care of their parents' responsibilities. As husband and wife, the son of a son, with the responsibility of loyalty and forgiveness, we should not owe loyalty and tolerance to each other's responsibilities.

Third. No debts.

When we get along with our friends, we do not owe our debts. We pay attention to "peach pie and reward for Li". "Dripping water, Yongquan report." I think family members should be more like this. Therefore, between relatives, we should strive to achieve no owe account. Of course, the relationship between relatives is not good calculation, because the family is willing to pay, and pay time did not want to receive a return. It is because of the unpaid rewards of our loved ones that we have to have a conscience to redouble our rewards. The purpose of our return is to make families less contradictory and more harmonious. Therefore, we must repay our parents' hardships. Parenting grace We must repay our plight when we are in trouble, and selflessly help our relatives. We have to repay our support for our work in silence. Of course, some kindness, such as the parenting of our parents, can never be rewarded in our whole life. That is to say, we will have debts that can not be repaid. "Who says the grass is heart and the spring is three?" that requires our efforts to repay, how much we can repay and how much we need to repay.

Fourth, do not owe time account:

We are not just humming: find some spare time, take some time, take the song "go home often" and put it into action. We are willing to let our loved ones live a good life, but family members do not want us to return home and honor our ancestors. It is not necessary to follow us to enjoy the life of famous cars entering luxury houses, wearing gold and silver, and surrounded by beads. For a loved one, as long as a family is round and round, healthy, free from disease and no harm, and live in harmony, eating plain food is also more delicious than eating delicacies. We do not wait for "son to filial piety but not kiss" when we go to regret, pain, tear heart crack lung crying. So we do not owe our loved ones time.