Psychological Adjustment For Workplace Promotion

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The top 500 multinational companies with high technology content do not need to carry out the "humble room", but no sexual harassment. And the boss must be very busy and have no interest in letting me serve him for two hours. Even if the boss boasts, it must be very charming.

2. there is a clear difference between love and sexual harassment. Love is the two one. Sexual harassment is a willingness to be unwilling.

3., unrequited love is also one willing to be unwilling and unrequited to develop sexual harassment. The premise is that the unrequited party takes action to cause distress or harm to the other party.

4. the following level of managers is called "petty bourgeoisie", which means "poor people". Generally speaking, commuting to work by public pport will affect mortgage repayment.

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The "middle class" class is characterized by the fact that the first house they bought did not require loans. The typical line manager's private car was "Bora".

6. director level is "high-class", "high-yield" have more than one housing, the house is in good lots of high quality real estate or "villa", can enjoy the company's business car, or the same.

All the expenses related to the car are completely borne by the company.

7.VP and president are "rich". There are housekeepers and porters in the family. The company is equipped with special drivers to travel first class on business.

8. love is not for testing, but for treasuring. For girls, youth is short, and keeping a large variable love is the greatest danger.

9. when there is a time limit for pain, the client will have the hope of starting his life. Every day, you will know that you are suffering from pain.

10. more participation in collective activities can increase the benign process.

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Generally speaking, in the face of compulsive behavior, we feel very troublesome, hoping to relieve the irrational ideas and behaviors in mind. On the other hand, we also believe that these concepts and behaviors are reasonable and necessary.

So I often say: compulsion is actually doing what we think is meaningless, but not doing inner discomfort, and doing something more entangled in the heart.

Take forced washing.

Compulsion makes us seem to split into two people, one can analyze according to the actual situation, according to the logic of adults, judge the perversion of their metamorphosis, think that washing hands repeatedly, washing clothes, wasting time and effort, and hoping to get rid of it.

The other is that it is necessary to wash several times more seriously if there is a serious infectious disease. This attitude is not commensurate with our actual age and education.

The former represents rational adults, the latter is not rational, blindly afraid, and has immature psychological characteristics of children.

These two people hold their own views, and no one can rule anyone, which constitutes a disease of "knowing what they committed and torturing themselves".

At this time, we must carefully observe our compulsive behavior and recognize the psychological contradictions behind the surface symptoms.

The compulsive phenomenon we see is actually the first thought in our mind (we call it mental compulsion) and then we have the combination of behavior (we call it accompanying ceremony).

Ritual is something that must be done after mental compulsion, temporarily relieving anxiety or guilt or mental behavior caused by mental compulsion.

Suppose we think: "what I touch is polluted" (mental compulsion), then we will do the "washing hands" act.

However, this relationship is not always obvious; for example, if a person with coercive compulsion meets a child whose age is the same age as his child, he will feel that he must continue three times and uninterruptedly turn the 1-10 10 figures back to three times (ritual) because he thinks, "if I don't do this, he will have bad luck".

When we see clearly our compulsive behavior, we can use adult attitude to command our whole behavior and abandon children's behavior patterns.

We can tell ourselves, "this is not me, it is forced to cause trouble", so that I can face up to my compulsive behavior, appreciate it and understand it.

Obsessive compulsive disorder is like a crying child. The more we beat and scold and rebuke, the more psychological it becomes. If we treat him gently, we will understand and listen to him, and things will be different.

So, don't worry about getting rid of your compulsive symptoms, learn to live in peace with the disease.