A Top Student'S Speech Woke Up How Many Parents!

From primary school, mom and dad asked me this way.

I do not blame me, so I do not have any pressure on scores, so I seldom get anywhere when I lose my grades.

My experience is to do homework as carefully as exams, and to do exams as easily as homework.

In junior high school, my mother told me again that exams can only test your true level.

For example, in a test, your true level is 90 points, and you score 90 points, which is very good.

If, for some reason, you have only scored 70 points, your parents will be sorry for you, because your efforts have not been reciprocal.

In our family, the reaction caused by scores is basically uneventful. 100 points or 80 points do not have much reaction.

Life is everywhere in the examination room. It is good to take the test of your true level.

In our family, matter is not linked to grades or achievements.

Material things can bring convenience to life, while mom and dad's economy can bear it, they will buy it for me.

Mom and dad think that kind of hook is easy to cultivate children's utilitarian thought, and deviates from the essence of learning and life.

I do not lack any money, I have a bank card in my purse, and my father and mother often put hundreds of dollars in reserve in their small boxes.

Yes, in today's era of temptation, children are not short of money and lack of love, and the probability of going to outer corners is much smaller.

2. enjoy life

The ultimate goal of education is to enable children to create a happy life and enjoy life.

We think, enjoy life, do not say that when you grow up, but starting today, from now on.

Once, a grandmother said to me, your parents are so good to you, you must study hard and grow up to repay your parents.

Mom corrected this statement and said to me, "the reward for parents is not a high score, but from now on, live well, every day."

So learning is only an important part of my life, but not all.

Making friends, watching movies, dressing up beautifully, playing with dogs and dogs, playing online games appropriately, relaxing in the countryside, loving my grandma, grandma, Grandpa, and talking about nice boys, etc., make my life very rich, and make my life full of love, and the fire of life is burning with passion.

My mother said that she felt my understanding of love from every composition.

3. reading classics

Is the key to learn Chinese well.

It is also an important way to understand life.

The reason why classics become classics must have its excellence.

Since last year, I began to read foreign classics.

I strongly felt that my composition and examination had gone up to a higher level.

While reading, it does not always feel the obvious effect, but when writing a composition, the literary style of writing is not like its own, trickling out.

This is the edification of culture and unconsciously integrates the reader's life.

It is recommended that children should not read such fast-food books, such as magazines, fairy tales, how to succeed quickly, and so on.

It may be impossible to find a feeling when you start reading, but when you read two or three books, you will find the rhythm.

Once, my mother asked me, "did you feel happy when you read famous books?" I said, "I feel it!" at that moment, my mother was very pleased.

Because pleasure is the highest level of enjoyment.

From a phased role, reading classics can improve language performance by about 10%, which is very important for the middle school entrance examination.

4. moisten things silently.

Today's children are extremely rebellious, and I am no exception.

For example, reading and listening to music, my mother does things very casually and does not show traces. According to my emotions, when I want to rest or do other things, she will respect my opinion and not forcibly apportion.

5. training independence

From childhood, mom and dad consciously cultivated my independence.

Because children can't live under the wings of their parents all their lives.

Respecting children's choice is the most important thing.

Because many things in life are not just a choice, there can be many choices, every choice has a certain reason.

Don't use parents' mind to evaluate children.

For example, when I was five years old, it was very hot. I came out of kindergarten and I was very thirsty and wanted to drink.

Mother gave me the money and let me buy it myself.

I am shy, because I have never tried, I am afraid, I will not go myself.

Mom told me that now you have two choices, one is to buy it yourself and then to drink.

First, do not buy, then endure, go home and drink water.

I hesitated for a while and chose not to buy and endure.

Mother felt that this was also a choice, respecting me and not judging me.

In primary school, after school rain, my mother would not take the initiative to send umbrellas.

She knows, I always think of ways, for example, share with classmates, for example, do homework in the classroom, for example, go to the supermarket to shelter from the rain, and take a stroll around the supermarket.

Because I told my mother that your daughter is not as stupid as you think.

Another example: now I buy clothes, my mother is only responsible for the money.

Last time, I went to buy the goods with my classmates. I bought a shirt for 25 yuan and came to school. My mother said it was beautiful, but suggested that I cut those thread ends, so that people could not see the goods at a glance.

The second time, I went to buy one, and I felt small when I got it back.

My mother didn't comment on me. She suggested I give it to a friend who is shorter than me.

This is my choice. My parents respect me.

No negative evaluation.

In this way, I think all the way, mom and dad respect all the time, I grow up gradually, do not escape from things, learn to think, have their own ideas.

6. about carelessness

I often hear parents say their children like this, many of my children's wrong questions are known to be careless.

Here, I would like to talk about the views of our family.

From grade five, my mother told me that carelessness means poor performance and poor performance.

At any time, do not say it is because carelessness did not test well.

Parents are also asked not to find excuses for shirking their responsibilities.

Careful, steady and down-to-earth is a necessary ability. If you have these abilities, you can lose one or two points occasionally. You can understand that more than two points, that is, lack of ability and not solid learning.

This point of view, my mother began to communicate with me in grade five, I also gradually recognized.

Therefore, under normal circumstances, I can score high marks and keep my grades stable. This view should play a great role.

7. cultivate children's abilities

Parents should let go and try to let go when possible.

For example, do one thing, the child to do, may only play 30 points, you are not satisfied, scolding him, even instead of him, then the effect can be 90 points.

But please pay attention to the parents, the 90 points, you will always be 90 points, the child is still 0 points.

If you ask him to do it, use his way of repugnance, pointing out that this time may be only 30 points, the next time it may be 60 points, and the next time, it may be 95 points, even better than you.

Therefore, parents should learn to show their weakness wisely, give opportunities to their children, and encourage children in time.

Mom and dad will eventually grow old and learn to give the stage to children in a timely manner.

Children only grow and become independent and pcend their parents in practice and thinking.

The waves of the Yangtze River clap the waves before, and my parents often happily kill me on the beach.

8. appreciate children, support self-confidence and care for self-esteem.

The Chinese nation is a modest nation.

In the education of children, it is easy to walk into a misunderstanding.

Do not pay attention to appreciate the advantages of children, but over emphasize children's mistakes.

When I do the right thing, mom and dad will recognize me in time and praise me.

When a mother talks with her friends, when she talks about children, she will fully recognize the advantages of her children.

We hear from time to time that the surface will not care. In fact, we are very concerned about these advantages, and we will continue to insist on it, getting better and better.

They will adjust their words and actions according to the excellent appearance described by their parents.

When children are wrong, they will analyze the matter in a matter of fact.

No trembling, no old debts.

It is good to face things correctly and correct them.

Things go on, go on with a good life, and don't overemphasize and extend negative emotions.