Workplace Understanding: There Is No Best Time In Life.

Everyone feels lost and lost.

Life runs in an autocratic and overbearing way. Whenever we think of all the dust settled and life is solid, life always surprises us, smash our short comfort, and let us have to rethink.

"Have I gone the right way?"

"Can I earn more money and climb to a higher position?"

"Is this heaven prepared for me?" who knows? Before I was 31 years old, my job was customer service personnel, and humble working conditions, gradually eating my dreams and souls.

Although I don't know much about what I want, I know that this is not the way to go. My life needs to be changed.

Then I acted.

I proposed leaving my job at the age of 31. This is the most unsettling and difficult decision I have made in my 31 years of life.

Over the past 2 years, I have my own guitar family tutoring class. I am grateful to myself for making such a decisive decision despite the hardships, doubts and fears.

I hope you can give these experiences to you as a result of your separation, a friend who needs courage and advice at the turning point.

There is no such thing as the best.

How many times do you want to do something that will change the direction of your life, but choose to postpone because of "the time is not yet"? Not just you, but too many people, so do I.

I hesitated for many years before I made up my mind to quit, and after I really left, do you know what I think? I think it was totally a waste of time.

No matter how long we plan, there will always be some omissions, and we are still used to constantly preparing to enhance our confidence.

In fact, the best opportunity in life is not about how well you prepare, but whether you have the courage to make changes.

It doesn't matter if others think you are crazy.

We have to say that human beings are naturally creatures that are too susceptible to influence.

At first listen, it's hard to accept, but we are always influenced by social views, family expectations and peer epidemic.

Too much external force affects us to make decisions, as little as buying a dress to the choice of career. We will always be influenced by others' opinions and opinions.

After leaving from a steady job, I received a lot of negative information: "how can you live in such a rich life", "you will regret it", "you are crazy" is a bit uncomfortable, but after a while, you will learn how to ignore these attacks.

After all, you can't please everyone. It's really important to work hard to meet your standards.

All for oneself.

When life changes drastic, as I do not want to leave very carefully, I will have a profound understanding of "responsibility".

Wake up every day, no longer have locomotive lazy colleagues, no longer have an urgent man to head, independent space flexibility is great; relatively, when birds happen, no one can blame.

You can control your life as beautiful as you are at the broad sea.

And when a storm hits you, you will have more power to fight because you are fighting for yourself purely.

Life is like playing electric.

Giving up an easy job and challenging life is not always a smooth journey. It's a challenge, like playing a game.

If the original life is to kick the water and swim ahead, the life after choosing to change is like struggling in the thick syrup. Now your biggest worry is that you can have food on the table and the rent is not overcharged.

In fact, it is faster than you think to encounter difficulties and solve them.

After all, life is like playing games. When you move on, you will encounter more strange things, but you can still knock it down.

There are no duplicate levels, but there are those who accumulate their strength in silence. Finally, you will find that you are already invulnerable!

Life is not linear. The only real thing is the present.

I once believed that if I took a few students, I would have a little income, then I would collect students and make money again, and everything would develop naturally.

But difficulties and setbacks occurred after I thought everything was okay: students suddenly stopped coming to class without explanation, no thanks or apologies, nothing.

It's like a gust of wind blowing, and no trace left.

Then I began to wait.

About 6 months passed before suitable students came in to replace those who left suddenly.

During the half year period, it was really long for me who did not have enough income.

Until now, my guitar classroom still has a busy season and a low season, but now I have realized that these are all "processes", and there is no definite "goal" to achieve.

No one will put pressure on you, except yourself.

After being no longer a full-time employee, on the one hand, I left the environment which could not drive me forward and pursue my dream. On the other hand, I had another difficulty to break through - I became lazy.

Less fire pressure, and now I need more than one alarm clock to get up every day.

In spite of the gradual progress, occasionally I will be suppressed by my laziness, wasting a lot of valuable time.

Maybe everyone's life direction is different, but the common principle that we want to reach our destination is to keep our principles.

Fear brings growth.

I once thought that those so-called successful people are very different from me in nature.

They must be born with the trait of being more than ordinary people, so that they can still live without fear and confidence when facing major setbacks in life.

In fact, this is totally contrary to the fact.

Fear can not be destroyed, and everyone is trapped in it.

Especially those who are successful, they are wandering on the edge of their limits every day, taking on more risks and fears.

So if you feel anxious and scared, congratulate you, because it means you are pushing yourself farther, stepping out of your comfort zone, experiencing new and exciting new challenges.

Embrace your fear! Friends, it is the best partner on the road to success.

Resources are never enough.

We always want more.

Not only money, but time.

Not only time, but also success.

Not only success, but also respect.

Not only respect, but also money.

This is a vicious circle that makes people addicted to it. We can not stop searching for what we do not have in a limited life.

Is it possible to change the idea of "existing" value to the maximum before pursuing "no"?

It's good to pursue more, but if you can't manage your finances well now, what's the point of making more money? If you can't use your time effectively, what's the meaning of expecting 25 hours a day? Time, money and respect always learn how to maximize your existing value.

You only have one thousand pieces of your pocket? So you should stop eating junk food. Do you only have 2 hours to work with your family every day?

Successful people give full play to the greatest value of every resource while constantly seeking ways to improve it.

100% of investment can reach the peak.

Have you ever felt this way that you didn't really go all out to go upstream at the lowest level, so I hope you will not notice that you are a bit careless from work, interest and even interpersonal relationships, and sometimes even feel like a cheater.

And I have been with such myself for several years.

I feel strongly that I have to change and be quick.

The first step is to be completely honest with yourself.

Looking at myself in the mirror, I asked myself, is this the life I want? Though cruel, I forced myself to take all the excuses, stop beautifying and embellish, and face my naked, totally pparent past life.

I find success disguised as habit, and it takes time and effort to see it.

Without any shortcut, it is impossible to invest 100% energy in the A field, but in the B field.

On the contrary, distraction is not enough in many fields, but it will drag on each other and reduce efficiency.

Keeping the same is the most important.

We must persevere in areas we love and never give up easily in the midst of "small achievements". Your good habits will lead you to success.

Since forcing myself to face the real self and set goals, I have made amazing breakthroughs in my productivity now: it is no coincidence that the progress of guitar skills, the opening of classes, the attraction of more students and the smooth development of their careers than ever before.