Eight Fatal Habits Of Unsuccessful People

Many of us lack the talent for success, but we have not succeeded in reality.

Of course, luck is an important reason, but what is more common is people's daily words and deeds dragging themselves into traps, which inevitably brings bad luck to them.

I call this trap the eight worst habits of unsuccessful people.

1, self deceiving fantasies, unsuccessful people always like to deceive themselves in life.

If we are only dishonest with others, this person will at least achieve his goal in money.

But if this person can not even be honest with himself, he will never expect to make progress in his life.

There are many situations in which you dare not truthfully admit your current situation, such as what kind of situation you are in your life and the prospect of achieving your desired goal.

What are their shortcomings?

2, lack of creativity, I have told people again and again that those who do not have the basic skills of life depend on what they want to make them willing to pay you, that is, they are able to get something through labor.

They do not understand another obvious reason, that is, the more valuable people are, the more valuable they get.

As you can see, people who engage in medicine, law, music or economic accounting can make people healthy, happy, happy or productive.

If economic success is what you are aiming for, you have to create or create something that other people really need in real life, not in dreams.

3, snubbed friends, most unsuccessful people have a habit of pleasing and currying favor with those who have not done much help to themselves.

I once had a very close friend who had been developing opportunities in Hollywood again and again, thanks to his ability to be talented in a movie company.

But my friend has been looking down on these partners for nearly 20 years, seeing their friendship as dispensable, but following the usual hot and unfriendly actors who are treating him unfriendly.

So my friend didn't accomplish anything until he was 47 years old, and it was not surprising that he was in debt.

The fact is, if you don't have friends to help and support the world with bare hands, you can't expect to succeed.

In every failure case I have seen, one of the reasons is that it is impossible to make friends and keep friends.

4, words and deeds are disrespectful, and rudeness is also common among losers who are rude to others.

They can't keep the appointment on time, they will not be very gracefully grateful to others for their gifts, nor will they apologize for their arrogance and mistakes.

I like to estimate the success of a person by counting the length of time they are late. A person who is highly professional, busy with business and responsible is always able to keep the appointment on time, while idle people who are idle all day will be late or even do not show up.

5, dressed badly, I know a young and beautiful lady. She has been working hard to find jobs everywhere.

I introduced her to an interview.

The company has always been proud of its good family image.

It's unbelievable that the lady appeared in the restaurant of the general manager in shorts, T-shirts and high heels.

From the moment she appeared, she herself had destroyed the interview.

The clothes of the unsuccessful are always not so decent.

Instead of wearing neckties or sneakers, they went to the interview and wore jeans to the party. Everyone else was dressed up formally.

6 losers often complain about their future. They do not like their work and their surroundings. They always think that the people around them are hypocritical and stupid. They feel depressed about anything and pass their disappointment and boredom to the people around them.

They have unwittingly shown that they have lost confidence in life - they are ingrained in their belief that they can not do better and better, and that they are almost speaking to anyone willing to listen to him, but they do not realize that it is advertising to others: I am a failure.

7, pointless arguments, losers like to argue for finding reasons.

Perhaps he would think that friends and colleagues would be impressed by his ability and intelligence.

This is a big mistake.

Sam, ray Lai, Bourne is a famous spokesman in the US Senate. He once said: if you want to get along well with others, you'd better agree with others.

He does not mean to attach himself to others without principle. Instead, he says, "don't annoy others, but also want others to help you."

Business people do not like to waste time on those pointless arguments.

8, doing things before putting the cart before the horse can't fix the priorities of things.

When I was at school, I met such a person. He was smart and handsome. His father was a rich man and he was very successful in business. He himself had been a small leader in an apartment building, and he had not been there for many years.

But when I advised him to take civil servants, he always said that he was too busy to say that hobbies had taken up a lot of time and so on.

And these words have been telling me since 1966.

The fact is that nothing in the world can be done enough time, even if it is really important, but the losers in career life never understand that it is an irrefutable truth to distinguish priorities from priorities.

They never seem to know that it is not a loss to give up something relatively unimportant and devote energy to important matters. On the contrary, it is a very worthwhile business.