Is Your Fault In Workplace Beauty?
Case 1 beautiful And spoiled
Miss Roy is born with beautiful quality and good temperament. In the university age, she was known as "beauty". I didn't expect to enter. Workplace After the beauty and intelligence, she was badly bruised.
Roy dictated: after graduation, I entered a family. Foreign enterprise Every day, it looks very nice to get dressed in and out of high-grade office buildings every day. Unexpectedly, in less than half a year, I told bye-bye about this job. Why? All the female employees in the company are jealous of me and can't get along with me.
First of all, my daughter. Boss She seemed very disgusted with me, and made things difficult for me. She also worked with other colleagues to isolate me. I was spoiled at school. How can I take this gas?
So, I tit for tat, and I was very cold to her. Besides working, I never said a word to her, let alone a smiling face. Not long after that, she asked her to show up and pferred me to another department. I know that she hates me being young and beautiful, and robbed her of her limelight.
At the beginning of the new Department, it was calm, but soon encountered similar problems. A female colleague always finds fault in my work, refuses to cooperate with me, and often gossips behind my back.
One day, I finally couldn't help and had a big fight with her. With this tone, I knew I could not stay, and delivered my resignation letter on the second day.
[case 2] stepping on beauty. Death line "
Some people say that a female secretary is in love with her boss. Workplace " Death line "But Amy stepped on it. She thought she was blessed by beauty, but eventually she had to resent it.
Amy dictating: do you believe that 3 years after entering the workplace, I changed 8 jobs. Each one didn't work for 3 months. The shadow of that event left me too deep.
At that time, I worked in an American capital enterprise. One day, an executive at the headquarters of the United States came to inspect it as a company secretary. A few days later, when he approached the plane, he suddenly expressed his admiration to me and praised my appearance. And I confuse his courtship.
In the days to come, I am not careful at all with the relationship with senior managers, sometimes I am angry, I will give my boss a look. Perhaps the general manager could not bear me. He went to headquarters and told me that the executives had increased the number of visits to China because of my reasons and spent private funds on public funds. The headquarters attached great importance to the matter and ordered the investigation. The result of the investigation was that the executive was fine, but I was swept out.
I was really hurt and I didn't want to be a secretary anymore. But then she changed a lot of jobs, but she was a secretary. Because I have only experience in this field. Now, I am working as an secretary in an American company. I don't know how long I can work.
[comment] "beauty" is not wrong.
stay Workplace competition In fact, having a beautiful appearance is really an advantage. Beautiful colleagues, who seem to be pleasing to the eye, can improve work efficiency. Recruitment is also the same. Under the same conditions, people with higher scores in appearance are usually given priority. But in peacetime work, enterprises pay more attention to their professional ability, work attitude and team spirit.
If an employee is self righteous and self righteous and enjoys a good conscience, he will not respect each other and disdain good relations and solidarity with his colleagues. Miss Roy is beautiful, frank, confident, sensitive, and competent for her job, but it is not enough to adapt to the company's organizational atmosphere, interpersonal relationship and team spirit.
With beauty, you should be loving, not only accustomed to being loved and loved by you, but also accustomed to loving others and actively cooperating with you, even those who are not accustomed to yourself. In a group that you still do not know yourself, you can only give your love to others and win the favor of others with your own good attitude. Then you can get someone else's love and respect for you.
It is suggested that she adjust her mindset in time, and work honestly with colleagues in an equal and peaceful manner, and create a harmonious working atmosphere. One of the taboos in the workplace is public and private confusion.
Beautiful Amy is very naive in love. In the first company, it has not grasped its own yardstick, has an ambiguous relationship with its immediate superior, and relies on this relationship to despise others and act arbitrarily. Therefore, it is inevitable to leave for others. Amy not only failed to learn lessons from this matter, but instead blamed it on the occupation of the Secretary itself, falling into the strange circle of changing jobs again and again.
It is suggested that Amy try to be professionalized in the communication with people in dressing and peacetime work, and appropriately grasp the distance from the male boss, especially in the European and American enterprises, so that the boss can recognize your work performance more than just the beauty.
In fact, the number of beautiful and capable professional women is numerous. Are not prime minister Thatcher and Mrs. Carly Fiorina of HP all typical examples?
Beauty is an advantage, but it is by no means the most important success factor. It is hoped that beautiful white-collar women will lose their attention to beauty and face their work with a better professional spirit.
Editor: vivi
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