Language Arts In Communicative Activities

In communicative activities, the function of language expression is embodied in the whole process of language activities.

In a sense, the communication process is actually the process of people's psychological activities.

Speaking and writing, listening and seeing are not only the behaviors of language communication situations, but also the reflection of psychological activities among people. They are important components of people's psychological composition. This is because people's emotional and emotional experience is achieved through intercourse and communication with facial expressions, gestures, language and intonation.

Communicative activities always demonstrate the language psychology of communicators.

Therefore, in the process of communication, we should attach importance to the art of verbal communication.

Since psychological activities in communication are reflected through the process of speech activity, speech is very important for displaying the psychological process of communication.

"Three words of warm winter, bad words hurt June cold."

The integration of the two parties or the separation of the gods, success or displeasure, to a large extent, is determined by the art of speech.

1. speech appropriateness

Speech is both a psychological phenomenon of communication and a psychological process of communication.

Any exaggeration, or not looking at objects and words, will affect the presentation of communication psychology and impede mutual communication.

For example, how to address other people is very important.

When the two meet, the first word is the form of address, which is both a courtesy and a pass to enter the door of communication.

If the appellation is appropriate, the other party will feel cordial and cheerful. If the name is inappropriate, the other party will be unhappy and sulky.

In communication, we should also pay attention to propriety. In other words, we should not say a word without saying anything.

Complimenting each other, saying that he is outstanding, intelligent and competent, these are precisely his shortcomings.

For example, when someone published a piece of work hard, you congratulated him, saying that he had "suffered hardships", "perseverance" and "a stubborn spirit". This can be done, but if he praised him as a writer, he felt that you were mocking and satirize him.

Two people argue the problem, the other side considers from the overall situation, makes certain concessions, causes the question to be solved at that time, when you sincerely praise him, "your style is really high, is really rare!"

Such praise often backfires.

Why is it true to praise others?

2. sincere words

In fact, the appropriateness of speech is also out of sincerity, which is just right, without false elements. Can it be true?

However, there is another side to sincerity. It is to avoid being too polite and overly whitewashing and losing the pure nature of the mind.

Excessive roundabout, excessive etiquette, instead of giving people the feeling of "out of the picture", it seems that it is not honest enough.

It is absolutely necessary to be modest and courteous to communicate with others. However, it is false to be "please" and "excuse me" regardless of the object or the situation.

For example, if the old people get together, they are too polite to make others feel embarrassed. It is hard to say that they are sincere.

What is missing here?

Lack of candor and honesty!

In many cases, we need to express the art of speech directly, how to say, and how things are in real terms.

Speaking out is a very important language skill for dealing with people.

3. verbal Euphemism

There are many ways of language expression. Because of the different objects, purposes and situations, there is no fixed pattern of language expression.

Sometimes speaking frankly, sometimes euphemism, depending on the object.

It is not straight, but tactful and tactful.

Of course, euphemism is not easy to achieve. It requires a high degree of language accomplishment.

Such as what tone to use, which sentence pattern to use, what words to use, and "cover up", metaphor, etc., both have a high degree of ideological accomplishment and rich knowledge of Chinese.

But good use, critical opinion can make the other person comfortable, the same content can make the other side willing to accept, and to a great extent, it can arouse the interest and enthusiasm of the other side, and its role is often more than that of general speaking.