How To Deal With People Of Different Character? (Two)

Two. Inner square circle People want Polite and courteous

When going straight to the point will hurt other people's self-esteem, when the right corners will embarrass themselves, some people will adopt a smooth and flexible strategy when the party is unable to achieve satisfactory results. Obviously, it is right. We should insist on doing it without hesitation. But because the resistance is too strong, we will pretend to be deaf and dumb. It is clearly wrong, and should be refuted in a righteous way. But for our own selfish interests, we can repress silence. These people prefer to be female and not to be jealous. These people are the ones with inner circle. They are clean and self possessed, worldly wise, cautious and prudent, both principled and flexible. Because smart and strong, but sharp, happy and angry, but not in the shape of color, so stable and smooth, and in complex interpersonal and interest relations, often easy to handle. At the end of the road, the people inside and outside will form a beam column supporting the endangered building. It is a typical example of this kind of characters that the Ming and Ming Dynasties are modest and self disciplined.

It is necessary to be courteous to associate with such figures. Although the inner circle of a person is easy-going, his heart is disgusted with rudeness, hatred of evil, rude and unreasonable people can not be intimate with such people. If you want to shorten the psychological distance with such people, you must show your positive, healthy and upward communication attitude. Those who are ashamed to see people and act in a low way will rarely appear in front of these people, so that they can be recognized. Two, there must be a degree of freedom. A person with a round inside, even if he is quite disgusted with others, will not show his dissatisfaction on his face. He is friendly to you on the surface, but he can't understand how his heart is. Therefore, we should pay attention to propriety and grasp moderation in dealing with them. Don't let him smile on his face.

A wealthy overseas Chinese, Mr. Lei, looked at the factory in the poor and backward hometown. Wang Xiang, who received him, was very enthusiastic. He first invited him to the hotel to get together. Mr. Lei had to face up to his face but had to "do as the Romans do". But Mr. Lei was not good at drinking. After a few cups, he turned red neck and shook his head and refused to drink. However, in order to express his "landlord friendship", Wang Xiang long did not let him drink enough. So he said good words and advised him to "go in" and "enter again" a glass of wine. Mr. Lei, who did not forget his modest and modest manner, reluctantly drank more than a few cups. After drinking, Wang Xiang Chang invited Mr. Lei to "OK" to express his hospitality. Originally Mr. Lei did not like singing, but in order not to hurt Wang Xiang's self-esteem, he spent the evening with him. On the second day, Mr. ray left 1000 yuan to pay for yesterday's hospitality and left the barren home. Mr. Wang was very puzzled. Mr. Lei was always in high spirits. Why did he suddenly leave? Oh! Wang did not understand the characteristics of Mr. Lei: he was not at heart, but could not bear to see the chief executive of Wang. If Mr. Wang is courteous and courteous in receiving Mr. Lei's work, what will happen?