The Little Details That Make You Popular In The Workplace (1)

Someone wears a little chest dress on a suit. If you find it in a timely manner, it will probably make him feel good about you because of such a trivial matter. A person who has always been indifferent to you suddenly smiles on you. This may be a good start for improving your relationship; if you change the appointment time to 8:35 at 8:30, it may make others look up to you.

Do not underestimate these details of communication! It is often a precursor of great changes in communication. It is often a good opportunity to succeed in communication without any effort. It is often a "42" to stir up relationships.

1. Praise others for their pride.

Everyone, including those with low status and a deep sense of inferiority, are proud of them. These intoxicating "flash points" may be very small, only he himself knows clearly, and even he himself has not found it.

These "proudly small works" may be, such as being good at making a delicious sweet and sour fish, being good at folding all kinds of paper airplanes, and studying folk tales, folk customs and proverbs.

If you praise these little strengths, you will surely make them happy.

You know, from the point of view of popularity, it is more effective to praise small strengths than to praise everyone.

Chen Xin sat for the first time in a saloon car.

It was rush hour and traffic was heavy, but Liu's driving was steady and slow.

At this time, Chen Xin opened his mouth and said, "Master Liu, you can still drive so fast in such a situation. It's really not simple. There is a way!" can't believe that this hearty compliment made Liu master very happy.

Because he really has a superb driving skill, especially his own way of driving on busy roads. No one has ever praised Chen Xin before his ride.

Over the past 10 years, Liu has always been obsessed with the situation at that time and often praised Chen Xinyou for his vision.

Small places make great articles.

Dig and praise others with heart.

2, remember other people's "random words".

Everyone's words are not the golden rule of a sentence. They are not words, but some words have been said. Soon, the speaker will forget or ignore it.

Such casual words are well written.

If you mention what he said before, say, "you once said...

I still remember it vividly.

The other party will be very happy because of your attention, and think you are a careful person, a person who can do great things, a person who cares for others very much.

If you remember not only the casual words of others, but also your random words, it will be more effective.

One day, Xiao Zhang was delighted to send a big bag of delicious Toona sinensis to Lao Yin.

Xiao Zhang said, "I have just returned from my hometown to bring you some special local products that I promised you before."

After Xiao Zhang said this, Lao Yin suddenly remembered that when he was drinking together two months ago, Xiao Zhang once said, "our hometown specialties of pickled Toona sinensis are very delicious," and Lao Yin then joked, "in that case, when you return home to visit your relatives, you can bring me a bag." in fact, this is just a joke of his, and he will forget it.

By now, Xiao Zhang has sent the pickled Toona in a very solemn way. Lao Yin is so moved that the psychological distance between the two men is greatly reduced.

"Waste gold mines" can also produce bright gold. Notice and remember other people's random words, it is actually "a pile of gold ore", if mining properly, "popularity gold" will make you extremely rich.

Other people's random words are fine, but there are plenty of things to do.

2, remember others' "

Everyone's words are not the golden rule of a sentence. They are not words, but some words have been said. Soon, the speaker will forget or ignore it.

Such casual words are well written.

If you mention what he said before, say, "you once said...

I still remember it vividly.

The other person will be very happy because of your attention, think you are a careful person, a person who can have great action, a person who is very concerned about others.

If you remember not only the casual words of others, but also your random words, it will be more effective.

One day, Xiao Zhang was delighted to send a big bag of delicious Toona sinensis to Lao Yin.

Xiao Zhang said, "I have just returned from my hometown to bring you some special local products that I promised you before."

After Xiao Zhang said this, Lao Yin suddenly remembered that when he was drinking together two months ago, Xiao Zhang once said, "our hometown specialties of pickled Toona sinensis are very delicious," and Lao Yin then joked, "in that case, when you return home to visit your relatives, you can bring me a bag." in fact, this is just a joke of his, and he will forget it.

By now, Xiao Zhang has sent the pickled Toona in a very solemn way. Lao Yin is so moved that the psychological distance between the two men is greatly reduced.

"Waste gold mines" can also produce bright gold. Notice and remember other people's random words, it is actually "a pile of gold ore", if mining properly, "popularity gold" will make you extremely rich.

Other people's random words are fine, but there are plenty of things to do.

3, do something else.

The advertisement of a German bank is famous all over the world. It writes like this: you spend your day, we care for you for details.

What is the details? It is often a small matter in people's accidents.

It is said that the credibility of the bank has been greatly improved after the advertisement was released.

It is not an organization. For people, those who pay special attention to details can make people do something unexpected in time to make people feel at ease. Can they not be trusted? Doing something unexpected and small is an important trick for their own image.

When he was elected mayor of a city in, he delivered a brilliant inaugural speech at the NPC.

A deputy to congratulate him.

Song Yang said, "yes, we have all drums 18 times."

The representative immediately ran to check the minutes of the meeting. Indeed, yes, the mayor of Song Yang said the figures were very accurate.

Obviously, during the speech, Song Yang carefully noted the number of applause at the venue.

Because of this, the delegates also had the public's admiration for the new mayor.

It is thought that such a wise mayor, if he has noticed this little detail, what else will be beneficial to the city will fall behind the mayor's vision? I believe that such a mayor will surely put his glaring eyes on the joys and pains of every citizen. I believe that song yang can lead the broad masses of the people to glory.

A philosopher said: any minor details are of special importance.

In this case, do something unexpected for others. This is an important move for self image.

People will be amazed and appreciated by you.