Workplace: Don'T Be A Good Person In The Office.

However, some time ago, bad luck came to my home. Unfortunately, my wife suffered from uremia. Regular dialysis and kidney replacement made me feel overwhelmed.

There was nothing I could do but I had to turn to some friends, and I was told that those who had received my help changed their faces in an instant, instead of looking for a pretext or perfunctory or unwilling to lend a helping hand.

Even when I called, I said, "you are not here. No one has cleaned the table."

It really chills me. Is it really a good man who has no good news?

Expert comments:

Understand your mood very well, but don't be so passive.

To send you a sentence: a good man is a wind of no agreement, floating in your lonely and helpless heart; a good man is a charcoal fire with spirit, appearing in the house where your snow is sealed.

In fact, in many cases, we only admire such a vivid and plain act.

It is not moved to tears, but a silent and gentle moistening.

Anyone can do so with a little conscience in his arms.

When we do good deeds, there is no intention of gratitude, nor need the feeling of the Savior.

In a sense, this is also a respect for sincerity.

Sincere love is not a speculation, real enthusiasm can not be reduced to hypocrisy.

Don't be caught up in a moment of cold and warmth. Don't sigh for a moment of cold. Believe that if you really do something good, the sunshine of love will be everywhere.

To be a real good person, even if you save a life, the night is still in a dream. It will not toss and turn, and sleep all night.

Remember, look at life from the perspective of WTO entry. Do not let yourself stay out of the world at any time, try to understand the essence of life, and live a true life for me.

You know, the world should be made of good people.

But there should be standards for doing things and not a bad person.

A cocoon is tied to the "man in the net"

I am not a person who is good at communication and camp. Therefore, although I have been in the past 40 years, I still have a flat day, and there are no waves in my life.

I feel that there is nothing wrong with such a day. Though poor, I fall into a quiet and leisurely atmosphere, which is quite in line with my character.

However, not long ago, a college student came to see me from a business trip and asked me how he was mixed up.

When he saw my living condition, he shook his head and sighed, "I really can't imagine how the original talent could get to this field."

He told me in a gesture of "mixed up": "you can't do this, you have to associate with people, and you need to make friends with yourself and create your own network of relationships, so that you can have your day!" and then he taught me his own experience. He pushed his heart to the ground and said, "man is not related to the net." "I am so good!"

Expert comments:

As a member of all living beings, he does not want to be accessible, so he disdains or does not want to work hard in building the relationship network.

This is very valuable in today's society. It is a very noble quality.

In real life, we often see that some people painstakingly weave their own network of relationships, trying to make some strength figures, making themselves physically and mentally fatigued. Sometimes, with a tendency to become more popular, they may be very proud of themselves.

However, a kind of inexplicable panic is more likely to follow the shadow.

Do you tried?

If you join the nomadic tribe in the interpersonal square, it will be like walking on a windy field and running poorly. It looks so weak and thin.

Persuade the king to converge his desire and strength, and not to fall into the complex and changeable network of relationships, and eventually turn himself into a confused net man.

Get rid of the fetters of "network of relationships", you can breathe freely and freely under the bright and clear sky, and apart from the complexity of interpersonal relationships, you will be able to produce the clear and clear life.

Ambition replaced confidence.

When I was young, my parents and people around me always said that I am ambitious and ambitious. I hope I can be open-minded and able to be practical and practical.

At that time, I did not think so. I thought I was a man with high aspirations. Besides, he was not inferior to others in ability.

After I joined in the work, I was ambitious at the beginning. I really wanted to do something big and vigorous. I felt like I was doing everything and I was always trying to express myself.

Contrary to expectation, it has attracted others' comments: "Li Yi, too pretentious, in fact, there is nothing real!" I was very sad to hear that. Is it really so? So, I always want to find a chance to show it so that everyone can take a look at me.

Not long ago, the opportunity finally came, and I already had considerable qualifications in this unit. I was honored to be entrusted with the heavy responsibility by my superiors.

I'll show you this time.

Moreover, I think this work is difficult, but I can not afford it by my ability. It should be done easily.

But it never occurred to me that I was screwed up after all.

In this way, my image in the public's mind is even worse.

I am suffering all the time. Why do I always look "high and low"? Has my confidence become ambitious?

Expert comments:

The ancients said: there are specialties in the art industry.

This sentence is quite reasonable.

Each person has his own strong points. No one should expect himself to be a versatile talent. This is also unrealistic.

So don't force yourself to be unrealistic.

In fact, the "champion" has always been absent. In fact, the disposition and coordination of "Zhi" and "can" are the key to success or failure of a career. If the allocation is good, it is bound to lead to great success. If coordination is wrong, it will be defeated. It shows that how to configure and coordinate the relationship between "Zhi" and "energy" is of great importance. Knowing what you can and knowing yourself is the key to achieving the best of your ability and achieving the ideal goal. Knowing what you can do is able to accurately position your life and value orientation so as to avoid being blind or even falling into a state of ambition. It is true that people have their own aspirations, but more importantly, people are capable of doing everything.