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Is It Hard To Tell The Truth In The Workplace?

2010/11/27 10:32:00 62

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When I saw the TV drama "Daming Palace", I was impressed by a line. That's what Wu Zetian said to a certain official: "the safest choice is to tell the truth in front of smart people." the reason for this is that I find that there are so many people who know how to say political correctness nowadays, so that the already exhausted leaders are unwilling to spend more time thinking about their true motives, but tend to find employees who are clear at the bottom, even if their skills are harsh.

In the video recording of who came to lunch, a building.

Designer

It is better to choose a 23 year old young player who has little experience in work as an assistant, but to have another prejudice against another 30 year old self created enterprise, a large part of the reason is that the latter is too worldly and motivated to be pure.

The designer examiner gave a very interesting question: if you design a landmark project, you will win the admission.

Time is urgent. Once you get home, you may miss this project. What will you do? The two players answered without hesitation: go home and see their relatives.

The examiner concluded that "there is no right answer to this question.

But what I want to see is your entanglement, but you are too sophisticated.

In addition to answering the question "wrong", the 23 year old athlete is still "pure".

Competitor

And won the appreciation of the examiners.

It's not just the examiner who likes the inexperienced newcomers. I have heard several similar words from the business owners: "this person is a piece of white paper, a good band", or "this person is simple."

Most of them are afraid of people who do not know what they are thinking.

To tell the truth, it means exposing your selfishness and dark side.

According to my observation, if this "selfish" is just a little more salary, a little promotion, a little laziness, or more extra money, within a certain range, though exposed and exposed, it may also give the boss a sigh of relief.

In fact, modern people are becoming more humane and more tolerant.

As long as you are willing to expose part of the "human weakness", everyone is willing to be a Bodhisattva, compassion and forgiveness.

But to tell the truth, it is really necessary.

Skill

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It's an art to tell your true intentions and thoughts pleasantly.

Sometimes, even though you are telling the truth, others will think you are saying the right thing.

For example, the test above, if I am, will quickly choose to "go home to see relatives".

If I am questioned "politically correct", I will return to him. "That's what I think, believe it or not."

The charm of this truth lies in the fact that the burden is completely kicked out to the other party, and then it is safe to eat and sleep, thus forming a kind of aura, so that those who suspect you will gradually become entangled in yourself, thus defeats.