Good Words Should Be Used Properly.

A new female member of the company, Xiao Lin, spoke with a gentle voice and seemed very popular at first glance. but Contact For a long time, people found out. problem Xiao Lin is full of good words about others, and of course, including listeners. There is a saying that the speaker is unintentional, the listener has the intention, and the person who listens to her good words is more concerned about other people's good words, especially those who are disgusted with others.

As time went on, everyone began to alienate Xiao Lin. At the end of the year, Xiaolin got the first countdown, so he had to switch to another job. For this reason, she is very confused: I have always been with people. do good Who has never offended anybody? Why do people look at me like this?

In fact, Kobayashi made a simple mistake: although everyone likes to listen to good words, people who speak good words should pay attention to occasions, that is, good words must be spoken in the face of those who are praised, and it is best to say it alone. Because of the big world, people's minds are incomprehensible, some people are in conflict. Your mind is not very clear. If one person says another person's good words and the two people are in conflict, it is easy for people to misunderstand the opposite, or indirectly into the shield. Under such circumstances, it is possible to be good at doing bad things. It can be seen that in life, it is far from enough to have a kind and sincere heart. Or return to the old saying: "guard against the heart of a person can not be without", good words must be spoken in person.

Then again, is it true that people who speak good words to face are bosom friends? People who hold this view will go into the same misunderstanding as Xiao Lin. There are many "two faces" in your life, and you are not the Ascaris in other people's stomach. You can not understand the true feelings of others. In such a case, we should take the retreat as a defence and say good things to the face, and we must be honest and realistic. On the other hand, good words to speak face to face are not false or vile, nor are there any rewards for the obedient people. The most important thing is to learn to effectively protect themselves in complex interpersonal relationships.