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Let Others Quickly Become Your Friends

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Successful Communication Friends

Only those who know the skills of communication can get to know more quickly.

Friend

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First, take the lead and strive for the initiative.

Want to let a person as soon as possible and oneself from strange to familiar and then become

Friend

First of all, discard your "cold shoulder" attitude and take the lead in sending out your friendly signals to others, because those who are in active position are always more likely to get friends than those who are in a passive position.

At the same time, you must overcome your "stage fright" mentality - the fear of stage fright will also make you "passive".

At this point, you must think that you are unfamiliar to others, and others are also unfamiliar to you. Their psychology is the same as yours.

In this case, if you take the initiative to extend the hand of friendship first, you will succeed in making the other half your friend.

Two, natural smile, communication feelings

The first act of a sociable person in interpersonal communication is the smile in his expression. Smile has an affinity in interpersonal communication.

Berg, a famous American comedian, has a famous saying: "laughter is the shortest distance between people."

Sally Wu, the famous host of Phoenix Satellite TV in Hongkong, is a smiling envoy that everyone praises. She often says that her philosophy of life is a smiling face forever.

From this we can see that when talking to each other, from a relaxed and natural smile, the other side will be infected by your warm smile, and will naturally repay you with enthusiasm.

Three, relax your emotions and build confidence.

Some people often feel nervous because they are afraid of communication failure, which is extremely harmful to successful communication.

The right thing to do is to relax, build up confidence and communicate with others in a big way, such as trying to ask each other what hobbies they have, compliment each other's proper dress and so on. First, draw the topic, so that conversation can enter a lively, pleasant and relaxed atmosphere.

As long as we do this, the other party will naturally approach you and think you are an easy-going person.

If others have a sense of identity with you, your mood will naturally be more relaxed, and you will naturally have more confidence in social success.

Four, be sincere and win the heart.

Making friends is sincere. It is an excellent quality that is indispensable to true friendship.

Because only by being sincere can people know you, and then you will know if you are worthy to be friends. Only by giving sincerity can others show you sincerity and show you your heart.

As a social friend said, "when I interact with others, I will never give hypocrisy to the other person because it is a feeling when others see it. It feels like you are not sincere. Who will dare to make friends with you? You can only trust and trust others if you respect others, so that you can have a heart to heart with you."

Five, leave your address and make time.

After having a pleasant conversation with others, if possible, it is best to leave your contact address and telephone number for further in-depth study.

Get ready

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Because when someone talks, others may be pressed for time and have no more time to know you.

In this way, even if others have a good first impression and want to associate with you, you may also feel that your heart is not enough and your time is not enough. It is not a pity. After leaving your contact, you will make a "turnover period" for friendship, so if others are interested, you will naturally find a reason to greet you.

If the other person has left you a contact, you'd better take the initiative to greet each other. Greetings like "good holidays" and "good work" will make the other person feel that "this person cares for me" and that you are a worthwhile person.