Office Politics: The Shrewdness Of Workplace Women

There was a young female employee in the company. Many people said that the man was not good. He was too scheming to see people talking about human beings. But the director of human resources department promoted her to be a public relations manager. But before he was promoted, he had a conversation with the woman clerk. The manager said, "actually, there is no problem with what people say. There is nothing wrong with it. The problem is that you make others aware of your insincere." Your original idea is to achieve a good purpose and make yourself a person who likes to be trusted, but obviously your purpose is not achieved, which means that your mind has dragged you back.

Now the female employee has become an excellent public relations manager, and she can handle it appropriately and appropriately. Various relations But it doesn't make people feel sophisticated. In my opinion, she is gradually training from a low rank to become a high ranking city hall.

If someone complains to you that her boyfriend is bad for her, if she scolds her for spending money on her, but she will be rude to her, will you immediately tell them to break up? I had done such foolish things when I was young and ignorant. Afterwards, two people joined in the knot, and I went to congratulate me.

Another time, a friend complained to me about how her boss was bad about her. I believed her sincerity. So she told her that if I met such a boss, I would certainly be what she was going to do. In a few days, I heard the rumors on the rivers and lakes, which meant how she did not have a mansion, and became a self appointed lamb in the unit, and how I deeply felt about it. It seemed that she would rather be a lamb to be slaughtered than to sacrifice herself. That little gesture takes two innocents, three points of innocence, and a certain degree of stubbornness. And I, the whole negative side.

I looked in the mirror for a long time, and I was determined to fall asleep and climb up, so I learned to smile and listen. That friend came to complain to me again, saying that anyone who was ungrateful, breaking the bridge, saying who would kill anyone, who would not be able to hold her, I would smile, that is, listening, she was still saying, why are bad guys always gaining momentum? What can I do if I can't play with my heart? I can't help but tease: it's two different things to play with your heart and not play well.

She was dumbfounded, angry and angry, and said to me, "I didn't need to tell you that when I knew you were so deep."

So I know I City Government It's not deep enough. If it's deep enough, how can you see it?

Women's shrewdness is a double-edged sword: people always have a kind of understanding that women do not have the advantage of city government, and the less women there are, the more men like it. I don't believe you can see in the rankings of the major websites. "Women with city women" must rank in the top three in the "N class men who hate men most". A woman without a sword, is there any alternative to begging the other party not to draw a sword or to have a pair of flying legs? City government is actually a defensive skill for women. You can use it, but you can't do it.

Learn to enjoy the beauty of complexity.

The world has never been as simple as we had imagined, and the complicated world is not so ugly as we think. Why can't we face up to the world if we can't curl up in the safe shell all day? Once we understand that the world is complex and human nature is complex, we have tolerance and wisdom.

Have the ability to assess the situation.

A city woman should know where she is and what she should do in this position. Decent words and deeds 。 When LINDA came to inspect the big boss, he rushed to shake hands to introduce himself and was neglected by the Department Manager for two years. Everyone is enterprising and wants to get ahead. But with the city government, we can do the words and deeds that are consistent with our own identity, when to move forward, when to avoid, when to speak and when to remain silent.

Look at yourself in the eyes of others.

In today's society, it is already a very serious negative evaluation to say that a person is not sensible. The so-called "sensible" is the city government: human relations accidents, rules and etiquette, and put it on the other hand is standing in the position of others to perceive their own words and deeds. If you can only see one of your small interests at the moment, you can only displease others. What is "win-win"?

There can never be too much deception in war

The workplace and the love field have evolved like battlefields, and the city government is the ability to accumulate the royal power. At the same time, when measuring and strategizing and authority, it also attracts the wit and flexibility of the sly way, and achieves the ultimate victory by choosing the opponent, hiding the strength and calculating the surprise troops in the absence of absolute superiority. This has nothing to do with morality.

Flexible and new

A road can't get through. The women of the city government will not be in a corner. She knows when to insist and when to give in. It will not be brooding, nor will it be foolish enough to fight for "one breath". Keep your brain flexible and curious, keep your agility and vision in the long run, and leave yourself with a long way to go.

High end city government is a return to innocence.

In Shandong cuisine, there is a classic "boiled cabbage": high soup experience, slow fire and baking, and then precipitation to make it look clear, but all the essence is concentrated in the soup, the taste is pure and thick, with endless aftertaste. The most powerful woman in the city is to be able to take everything in perspective, to extract the essence, to be complicated, to be calm and calm, and even more importantly, to remain relaxed and pure in this calm and calm mind.

Not every woman can cultivate the most advanced shrewd, just like everyone who can learn martial arts can master a master. She must be smart enough to suffer, and at the same time must have enough kindness, sensitivity and intelligence to be honest and pure and stick to her love and life after mastering all her skills.