When You Want To Blame

When Lincoln was young, he was keen to criticize people. Writing Mock others. On one occasion, he wrote a criticism of a politician who was unwilling to be insulted and demanded a duel with Lincoln. Lincoln was unable to ride a tiger, but reluctantly agreed to honour it. Fortunately, both friends dissuaded from it. A struggle for life and death was resolved at the eleventh hour.

With that lesson, Lincoln finally realized his way of life and never again mocked others, and lived as a GUI Quan all his life.

Those who make mistakes often blame others instead of others. Be willing In fact, everyone has this problem. So one day when you suddenly want to criticize others, you might as well think about these living cases.

We must admit the fact that the people we want to criticize or curse, whether or not they are wrong, will insist on making arguments, seeking excuses for their actions and even attacking them.

It is useless to criticize severely. It will only force the critics to take defensive actions, and he will deliberately seek reasonable explanations for his actions. Such criticism is dangerous because it will. direct Injure a person's self-esteem and arouse his rebellious consciousness.

If you have a heart to hate someone for a lifetime, just let go of your scruples and criticize it without reservation. Even if your criticism is completely correct, the other person will hate you for your bones.

Do you want to get good people? In fact, it is also very simple. Try to understand others better than to criticize others. Only in this way can you get rid of its disadvantages and gain benefits.