Gesture Language Should Be Natural And Appropriate.

Gesture language is an important part of body language. The magical function of gestures plays a unique role in expressing implicit thoughts in speech. In particular, leaders, gesture language is often used in the process of speech in an action language, the use of gestures is appropriate, will directly or indirectly affect the speech effect to varying degrees.

Here are some gesture languages commonly used in communication.

Hand in hand, that is, palm upward, thumb open, the rest a few fingers. The raising of the hands indicates joy and admiration and application for prayers. The hand is flat, which means sincere solicitation of the listeners' opinions and support.

　　 Overhand type That is to say, the palm is downward and the finger state is the same. This is a cautious reminder gesture. It is necessary for the speaker to restrain the audience's emotions, so as to achieve the purpose of controlling the scene, and also can express denial or opposition.

Cut the hands, that is, the palm is straight and all open, fingers close together, like an axe to chop down, indicating resolute, resolute, quick cut the Gordian knot and so on.

Pecking hands, fingers together, dustpan shaped, fingertips toward the audience. This gesture is strongly targeted and indicative, but it is also easily provocative and threatening. It is usually used when there is some connection between acquaintances or speakers.

　　 Scissors hand type A variant of the hand cut type. Palm down, and then separate to the left and right. This gesture means a strong refusal. There is no doubt that the speaker can use this gesture to exclude the details involved in his topic.

Stretch fingers, that is, fingers upward. A single extended index finger means someone, something, a meaning, or a listener's attention; a single thumb is a sign of pride or praises; a number of fingers and stretches indicate quantity, contrast, etc.

　　 Envelope type That is, touching the five fingertips, pointing upward, like a purse that tightens the opening. This gesture generally emphasizes themes and important points, and uses them when confronted with exploratory problems.

Push hands, that is, fingertips up, close together, palm outwards. This gesture often denotes the exclusion of public opinions, and the trend of moving forward shows the inner firmness and strength.

Stroking, that is, touching a part of your body with your hands. Express your thoughts, humility, and sincerity with your hands, and ask yourself with your hands.

Hold the fist, that is, five fingers close together, clenching fist, this gesture sometimes shows demonstrations and reprisals, sometimes expresses excitement, resolute attitude, and the desire to realize.

It needs to be pointed out that gestures in the speech process are natural manifestations of inner feelings, rather than rigid affectation. Otherwise, they will not only fail to express the effect of expression, but will add to the gild of the snake. Of course, there are other definitions in gesture language. When used, they should not be rigid and natural.

In addition, handshake is also the most common and widely used gesture language in people's daily life. With all hands and one touch, all thoughts and emotions permeate. Such as friendship, sincerity, good wishes, understanding, cooperation, expectation, encouragement, welcome, farewell, enthusiasm, confidence, agreement and misunderstanding.

There are several points to pay attention to. On the one hand, handshake should pay attention to the minimum etiquette. Shake hands must use the right hand to shake hands, to grasp the other hand, usually 1~3 seconds time is appropriate. Of course, it is impolite to shake hands too tightly or use casual fingers to touch the other's hands. When young people and low posts are introduced to senior citizens and senior officials, the elderly and senior officials should give a nod instead of shaking hands. Young people and low positions should also nod their heads to greet them. Shake hands with young women or exotic women. When shaking hands, young people should be slightly less responsible for the senior and the lower. Sometimes, in order to show special respect, you can hold hands with both hands.

On the other hand, shake hands to distinguish objects. When a man shook hands with a lady, he should gently hold his finger position. When you shake hands, you should look at each other, smile, greet or say hello. You should shake hands with many people at the same time, and avoid crossing hands. To show respect for each other, do not wear gloves to shake hands with others. There is another point to note. It is rude to refuse to ask for permission to shake hands in any case unless it is really hard to shake hands.