Walking In The Workplace Is Not As Diligent As Possible.

You shouldn't hear what you hear. You shouldn't say anything you say. In the workplace, you always have the opportunity to hear the secret, pretend not to listen, and do not participate. comment 。 Because whatever you say or do, you can trigger a series of consequences.

What you should do is not to be done by you. It is not always the harder, the better. The new mistake is that they are always rushing to work and even lifting everything up and thinking that they are helping others. When you finish things, it is equal to a person's credit for all the work.

To find out the company's context 。 This is what new people must do. But there are often many people who have not yet been able to figure out the relationship and influence of the company within a year after entering the company. It's dangerous. Because only when we understand the context of the workplace can we make the best judgement when we are in trouble.

To choose Friend 。 This may be cruel, but it is still important. It is one of the principles of being careful in the workplace. You have to remember that friends are also very important indicators when a boss tests loyalty. And many people encounter puzzling little shoes, to the last is not clear, they are friends.

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Of course, if the relationship is a matter of interest, you have to maintain it. Then reduce your expectation of emotional feedback, as if you have to do something, and you will not be hurt emotionally.

The difficulty of interpersonal relationship is that it involves two independent individuals, not what you do, you can expect certain results. So, make an evaluation of the return on investment to see what you can get from your feelings, whether it's a return to the soul or material or nothing. Maybe you should say this is too realistic, but this is a realistic society. Since we are going to discuss it, we must face it rationally.

If you want to reduce the burden of modern people, what burden do you think the most should be unloaded?

It is the burden of perfection. Too many young people are asking for perfection and asking for impossible things. As long as you admit that life is not perfect, it is accompanied by compromise, setbacks and limits, and life will be much easier.

Of course, you should go straight ahead, but you can't ask yourself to never make mistakes. You can't ask yourself to succeed once and make yourself soft.

If you really feel attentively and acutely in your life, you can accept the imperfections more easily and keep the pursuit of perfection. In addition, I have always advocated that we should read more books, look at other people's experience and listen to others' opinions, so that we can correct ourselves.