Refusal Skills In Business Etiquette

First, the apology should be civilized and standardized.

Ashamed of others, it is appropriate to say: "deeply apologetic" and "very ashamed".

Eager to forgive, you need to say, "forgive me," forgive me.

If you have trouble with others, you can say, "bother", "trouble."

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Then you can say: "sorry", "I'm sorry", "rude."

Second, apologies should be timely.

If you know you are wrong, you will immediately say "sorry". Otherwise, the longer you drag on, the more likely you will be able to make others angry.

Apologizing is timely and helpful.

"Retreat from the sea and broad the sky," avoid big losses.

Third, apologizing should be generous.

Apologizing is no shame. Therefore, we should be generous and upright.

Do not cover up, "want to say to rest, but a cool day, a good autumn."

Do not degrade yourself too much, say "I am stupid", "I am not really a thing", which may be despised and may be pushed forward by others.

Fourth,

It may be helped by "story".

Some apologies are hard to say to your face, and letters are sent to you.

For Western women, the best way of apologizing is to let them turn their anger into happiness.

This kind of apology "story" has excellent feedback.

Fifth, apologizing is not everything.

Never apologize to others when you shouldn't apologize to others.

Otherwise, the other party will not be able to lead us in any way. If we do not do well, we will not be able to get ahead of us and embarrass us.

Even if it is necessary to apologize to others, we must bear in mind that what is more important is to improve what we have done since then.

To make apologies only in form, only to prove that they are lacking in sincerity.

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Once we get some commendable qualities, such as some special knowledge or skills, the arrogance that arises immediately will damage any positive meaning that may arise.

We are easily suppressed by arrogance and arrogance, completely confused by our beauty, knowledge, knowledge and power.

In the workplace, arrogance often presents in three situations:

1. some people are very capable and talented.

Overflowing, superior, so often despise others.

2. someone is very high. You think you are on equal terms with him. You feel great about yourself.

3. they are worse than others, but they do not admit defeat, but they think others are nothing. I just don't do it.

In the workplace, arrogant people are arrogant and often self inflate.

So no matter how limited and unstable you are, you have no reason to be proud of it.

There is a beautiful proverb in the Tibetan area: "like a mountain peak, you can never gather water, and you can never gather real value on a proud cliff."

The fourth worry is stupidity: it is a heart of hesitation about the wise, the truth, and the possibility that one is attested to truth.

For example, if we hear the truth of the four noble truths, some people doubt whether this is true or not; or, he accepts this principle, but he doubts whether he can prove it through practice.

Doubt is inevitable, and there is a lot of doubt about what is not proved by oneself. But if a person doubts only and does not know it, then this suspicion will never be eliminated.

From this point of view, we are like a beggar holding a precious stone in hand but ignorant of its value and ignorant of it.

Fortunately, this is not too bad. The most serious idiot is right and wrong. People tell you the right reason, you think it is wrong; others deceive your wrong things, but you think it is right; stupidity to this point, almost incurable.