Read The Boss'S 6 Body Language.

1. pointed tower gestures - the boss is very confident.

When the fingertips of the two hands collide lightly, a sharp tower gesture is placed on the mouth or under the jaw. This means that he is very confident about what he is doing.

This is the action that the superior directs the lower level, or the lawyer faces the customer's sign.

Body language researchers found that more than 30% of the bosses took the "pointed tower" as the opening exercise when talking to their employees.

The boss's subtext: "I am the boss. You have to listen to me. You'd better not interrupt."

You can do this: the pointed tower gesture is originally an early prayer gesture, and people who do this act subconsciously want to make themselves look like Almighty God.

In the face of the boss, do not respond to him with a sharp tower gesture. This will only make the other person feel proud and arrogant.

This is the best time to smile and nod, and to repeat what the boss says, in order to show you and your boss stand in the same position.

2. the upper body is tilting - the boss is waiting for you to speak.

When the boss is speaking, he tilts his body to one side, the other hand spreads forward, his palm upwards on the table, the speech slows down, and his eyes look directly at your lips or eyes.

This shows that the boss is waiting. What he says is not important at this time. The important thing is that he is telling you in body language, it's your turn to speak.

The boss's subtext: "I will come to an end. Don't listen to me."

You can do this: since the boss does this, it shows that he is patient enough to listen.

If you have different opinions, make the best.

Before you speak with your boss, you must write the draft carefully, and put the most brilliant remarks on your mind at this time, the boss will pay special attention to it.

Research shows that if a male boss is interested in a conversation with his subordinates or agrees with your opinion, he will gently rub his hands, which is also common among salesmen and customers.

If the salesperson in front of you does this action, he is satisfied with the deal, and he is the biggest beneficiary.

The female boss, especially the young female boss, expressed his approval by nodding frequently, indicating that she was very satisfied with your proposal.

The boss's subtext: "wonderful, go on, don't stop."

You can do this: deliberately slow down and consider your own words.

The boss is doing this to confirm your work, but this is only the first step.

If you lose your mind, you will exaggerate your speech in the next conversation, but leave your boss with a shaky impression.

At this time, the most important thing is to remain modest.

4. touch your ears with your hands. The boss is suspicious of what you say.

When the dirty word carelessly blurted out, the child would immediately cover his mouth with his hands, and quickly cover his ears when he heard his parents scolding. This habit followed the child to adulthood.

When the boss is suspicious of your words, he will not touch the ear or touch the cheekbones and cheeks near his ears. Sometimes his eyes will also look at the table carelessly.

After all, listening to subordinates reporting uncertain information is not a pleasant thing. He is trying to distract instant displeasure.

The boss's subtext: "really? How did I not hear?"

You can do this: first, think about whether the news you reported is completely accurate. If you are not sure, you'd better change the topic quickly or add a sentence at the end of the statement: "I'll think about this again, and report back."

But if you can guarantee the accuracy of the message, you can cross the table with ten fingers at the same time.

This is the act of expressing confidence, but remember to smile, or the boss will feel the pressure on him.

When the boss raises his index finger, next to his cheek and puts his thumb on his chin, do not mistake him for thinking about your words, which means he is tired of what you say.

If you are still pouring on, the listener may rub his eyes with his index finger. This gesture is often misread as the other person is fascinated, but it is actually the natural reaction of the body when it is tired.

This means that if you say it again, the boss may fall asleep.

The boss's subtext: "my time is precious, and our conversation is too long."

You can do this: if you have a file in your hand, you'd better hand it to the boss, skillfully letting the boss change his posture, and his attitude will also change.

More importantly, think quickly about the key points of today's conversation. Speak out quickly and let the boss know that you are working hard to shorten the conversation time.

Surrounded by arms is a protective posture.

When the boss is surrounded by arms, it means that he is subconsciously attacking the person in front of him. And the back of the body means that the boss is deliberately trying to distance himself from you, which means he wants to end the conversation.

The boss's subtext: "I'm tired of it. You must hurry."

You can do this: finish the conversation in the shortest possible time, no matter what you say.

Don't try to clear your mind in the last few seconds. The boss's time is limited, or next time it's better.

At this point, you can also lean back and let the boss see that you do not have a long stay.

Besides, don't mention important points at this time, because even the boss will not mind.