Have You Been Jealous Of Your Female Colleagues?

As the saying goes, men are jealous and women are jealous. In modern competitive workplace, jealousy among female colleagues is prominent. In some career women, it is best for others to not do what they can't do, and they can't get what they can't get. In the workplace, women are not only jealous, but more jealous.

If you are a prominent woman at work, you may feel jealousy at all times. Be jealous of your position, work ability and appreciation by your boss; even your looks, clothes and even family finances.

Jealousy is not a bad thing, but we must be careful of what we do if we are jealous.

To be appreciated by a female colleague. Career women First of all, learn to cleverly eliminate jealousy from other female colleagues.

The following suggestions are for your reference.

　　 1, turn jealousy into gratitude.

If you are jealous of your colleagues because of your beautiful appearance, you may as well impart your beauty method to her, and dress her according to her personal conditions and make her graceful. When she gets compliments from others for your guidance, she will thank you very much.

　　 2. Envy For sympathy

If you are a career woman, there may be many female colleagues jealous of you at work, especially those who are older than you and who are more experienced than you. They will think that she will be promoted rather than you.

But please don't be angry. Don't feel sad. Don't think that their emotional bounce is directed at you. They need to understand their frustration. At the same time, you have to make up or squeeze out many of your life's "hidden feelings" that are not as good as them, tell them how upset or unhappy you are, and suppose what husbands are cold, lonely and so on. Let them think you are not easy, and some places are far less than them. And you must avoid publicity and be modest in your tail. By arousing the psychological balance of jealousy, you will have some good feelings or sympathy for you.

　　 3, give out fame and wealth

There are some women and Colleague The relationship is not good, because it is too concerned about their rights and interests, and always strive for all kinds of "benefits". For a long time, it is unavoidable to arouse the resentment of colleagues, and can not get everyone's respect. In fact, these things may not bring you much benefit, but they can make you tired and lose your good interpersonal relationship. If the advantages that are small, not affecting the future, more humility, some honorary titles are often given to other colleagues, and so on, such as sharing a prize or a privilege with others, this open-minded attitude will undoubtedly win people's goodwill and increase your charisma and bring more rewards.