Women'S Survival Wisdom In The Workplace

If a career woman wants to work well in the workplace, it is not enough to rely solely on her personal image and her work achievements. She should pay attention to both internal and external needs, and also pay attention to the management of interpersonal relationships so as to gain a good reputation.

Most of the colleagues in Li Hong's unit were male. During the short break time during lunch, colleagues often gathered together to talk about the world. Unfortunately, Li Hongzong felt unable to plug in.

Male colleagues prefer to talk about sports and stocks.

If you want to get a good relationship with the male colleagues, you must first force yourself to accept some of their interests and hobbies.

So Li Hong began to pay attention to sports news and news every day, met the right opportunity and even went to the ball with his male colleagues.

"Now that there is a common topic, it is much easier to get along with their male colleagues. Every time they chat with them, they will exchange their feelings in their work with them, so the friendship between us has improved a lot."

Li Hongru said.

A colleague's personal secret, of course, carries something hidden or unaware of others. If a colleague can tell you his privacy, it can only show that your colleagues have enough trust in you. Your friendship must exceed others, or she will not give you all your secrets.

If you hear your own secrets in other people's mouth, needless to say, she must think you betrayed her.

The betrayed coworkers will regret the friendship and trust they had paid.

Therefore, it is a basic requirement to consolidate professional friendship if you do not disclose personal privacy at random. If this is not done well, I am afraid no colleague will dare to confide in you.

Song Jia and Wang Hui are a good sisters without saying anything. The two have been living in the same dorm since they work. They work together and work together almost every day. By chance, Song Jia and Wang Hui have come into contact with a man with superior condition and handsome appearance. They almost have a crush on this man at the same time. In order to be closer to the handsome guy, Song Jia and Wang Hui are no longer inseparable but acting alone. Later, the two people turned their back on the matter for a long time.

Obviously, love has blocked the friendship between the two people.

Starting with the handsome guy they liked at the same time, they announced that their friendship had begun to break.

Therefore, as

You'd better deal with your own emotional life alone. Even before your love is mature, don't even drag your friends to a date.

Otherwise, love will become a stumbling block to friendship.

Office space is also a public place. Don't show a show of arrogant behavior. You must make a decision with your colleagues.

To put it another way, even if you are reasonable, your colleagues will be far away from you if you have to take care of others, and feel that you are a person who does not give room to colleagues and does not give others face. They will always be on guard against you in the future, so that you may lose a large number of colleagues' support.

In addition, your colleagues will hate you and your career will have more enemies.

When the work is done and praised by the boss or promoted, many people will often flaunt themselves in the office four times without the boss's announcement.

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Once the news is spread, these people often cause unnecessary trouble.

Don't be complacent when you are complacent. When you are frustrated, don't tell other people about your boss's faults in public, especially don't involve other colleagues.

In this way, not only will your boss be bored with you, your colleagues will be more annoyed at you, but you will have a hard time in the future.

Therefore, no matter when you are complacent or frustrated, don't overdo it. Otherwise, you can only bring obstacles to your work and friendship.

In the impression of colleagues, Wu Jing is a careless person, whether it is a good colleague.

She can borrow money from casual colleagues.

Sometimes colleagues do not have money with them. Wu Jing will complain to his colleagues that they are not friendly enough. What they say is "colleagues are all so difficult to borrow money."

The colleagues who borrowed money thought there was impurity in friendship.

In particular, Wu Jing once did not give money back to her colleagues as scheduled, and her colleagues immediately disliked her. Wu Jing thought that she could not repay the money on time. It was not her intention. There was some difficulty between her colleagues. Shouldn't she lend her help? It was because of the trouble of not borrowing money in time to repay money so that Wu Jing soon lost her popularity among her colleagues.

Therefore, we must never lend money to others when we have to do so. Even if we borrow money, we must remember to return it in time.

Many people, regardless of their working environment, are always angry and complaining. They always pour bitter water on everyone. Maybe you think of complaining and bitter water as a way of communicating sincerely with their colleagues, but chattering Like Xiang Lin's sister-in-law will make the things around him miserable.

And complaining and complaining will make colleagues feel that if you are so dissatisfied with your current job, why don't you job hopping and find another job?

Do not do some shameful "little tricks" in private, such as provocation in front of your boss, etc., will make your colleagues doubt your loyalty to the friendship, and even doubt that you have personality problems. When your colleagues get along with you again, you will be subconsciously beware of you.

Once you are discovered and betrayed your colleagues, the friendship between you is declared dead, and others who want to make friends with you do not dare to approach you.

Therefore, it is also a way to ensure a long friendship between colleagues.

"Why is XX always against me? This guy is really annoying!" "XX always sticks with me, and I don't know where I offended him!"

Such gossip is often heard in the office; to know that these rumours are "soft ones" in the workplace, and are weapons that are destructive and destructive. These injuries can directly affect people's minds, and they will bore the injured.

If you are very keen on spreading rumors of discord, at least you can't expect other colleagues to listen enthusiastically.

Frequent gossip will make other colleagues feel a sense of avoidance for you.

If this is the case, I believe you will not be able to enjoy your life in this unit, because no colleague has taken you seriously.