In The Workplace, Try Not To Talk Negatively.

Living in today's highly competitive society, people who are good at speaking and communicating in the workplace are bound to gain more cooperation and help.

While some people communicate with colleagues, they always influence their interpersonal relationships because of inappropriate content or way of speaking, thus affecting their life and work.

For example, some people suffer from setbacks, and their mental endurance is not strong enough. They are easily knocked down by setbacks, resulting in a pessimistic mood. They become frustrated and sighing. They are not only listless, but always come up with inexplicable "nonsense" to sweep away other people's interests and cast a shadow over their interpersonal relationship.

After Hang Lijuan was laid off, he applied for an insurance company to promote the market.

She cherished the job very much and worked very hard.

Once, the department director told her: a company intends to buy an insurance for its employees, and now it is studying the insurance category. The head of the Department decided to give the business to her.

After receiving the task, Hang Lijuan came to the company happily and prepared to sign the bill. Hang Lijuan accidentally said, "insurance is the guarantee of life. If there are natural disasters and man-made disasters, it can help you tide over the difficulties."

The person in charge of the company was disgusted with hearing, so he said that buying insurance is related to the vital interests of every employee. He should "think about it again".

In this way, Hang Lijuan was careless and the cooked duck flew.

Hang Lijuan regretted that when he returned to the company, he cried to the head of the Department and reported to himself, "I am useless. I can't even speak well. I am born to be poor."

"Why am I so useless in the world? Why not die?"

Despite repeated reassuring by her supervisor, she still murmured to herself, "it's better to die."

The manager thought, as a salesperson, how can he do such a poor psychological quality? Not long after, the department manager found a reason to dismiss her.

As the saying goes, victory or defeat are soldiers' common customs.

In work, anyone may encounter setbacks. The key is to be mindset and respond positively and optimistically.

Hang Lijuan suffered heavy setbacks when faced with setbacks, but he showed a cowardly appearance blindly. He said "nonsense" and so on. It is easy to cause psychological pressure to leaders and colleagues.

From the point of view of responsibility, which unit does not like to hire Hang Lijuan, who is so mentally disabled and who meets with setbacks, will be killed. Hang Lijuan is dismissed and taken for granted.

Wang Aili and Liu Ting entered the Municipal Bureau of township enterprises through the recruitment of civil servants.

The two are from the economic background, but because Liu Ting is very dedicated, he is better at grasping the policy and business, and is often confirmed by the secretary.

This made Wang Aili feel very uncomfortable.

Four months later, Liu Ting was promoted to director of the planning department, which made Wang Aili's psychology more unbalanced and jealous. She often told her colleagues behind her back: "someone has beautiful face, and which male leader does not like it?" "yesterday I saw Liu Ting and a man walking out in a cafe. The man was a bit like..."

These words soon spread to the director's ears, and Wang Aili's image was plummeted in the director's mind.

Because she often talked about Liu Ting's gossip, her colleagues thought she was a narrow-minded person and gradually estranged from her.

In the end, Wang ETUDE was alone, and soon resigned.

Jealousy is a kind of resentment that can be stronger than others and is better than others. It is a kind of distorted hatred. It is a manifestation of psychological imbalance.

When a person's heart is ignited by jealousy, his state of mind can easily be revealed through some words and deeds, which are often harmful to others and harm to himself.

Wang Aili's performance is not as good as Liu Tinghao's.

Instead, they are jealous and gossiping, which only makes their relationship worse and worse.

In interpersonal communication, we must participate in competition with a good attitude. Even if the competition fails, we can not gossip everywhere. Otherwise, we can only lift ourselves up to hit our own feet.

Yu Jingjing is a primary school teacher, responsible for his work, and patient and caring.

Recently, I have worked harder because I want to commend my title.

Evaluating titles requires some hardware, such as winning certificates, publishing papers, etc.

Just as it happens, the school has an "excellent District teacher" quota. This honor is very helpful to the title evaluation.

But after studying the school leaders, they decided to leave this place to Miss Han, who will retire in a few years.

Yu Jingjing was very disappointed and felt that he had been neglected by the leadership and had nothing to do in school.

So she complained, and complained about each other: "I am very young, shallow, and have no background."

"I worked so hard that my grades were so good that I fell to that point."

"I have no money and no power."

Over time, the impression of her leaders was greatly reduced, and her colleagues thought that she was too utilitarian and far from her.

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No one can be shrouded in a halo all day, and everything is going to come true. For a variety of reasons, it is common for people to ignore or get unfair treatment.

When a person thinks he has been neglected or neglected, he will feel wronged or angry and start complaining about others. These complaints will not only make his mind worse, but also affect other people's feelings.

The excellent teachers' position that Jingjing had not dreamed of was unsuccessful, which was sad. But when people complained and complained, it would not only help but make their image and interpersonal relationship worse.

Communication with colleagues is inseparable from language, but as the saying goes, "one sentence makes people jump, one saying makes people laugh". The same goal, different expression, and the consequences are quite different.

What should I pay attention to in the office?

1. don't be the same. Learn to make your own voice.

Generally speaking,

Those who have independent thinking and insight are appreciated, but parrot and parrot people are usually not valued or reused.

No matter how long or how long you are in the company, you should make your voice and speak your mind.

2. do not talk about the debate.

In the office, everyone's opinion can not be unified, but for those problems which are not very strong in principle, there is no need to win the battle. If you argue with others, you will not be able to work smoothly.

3. don't always flaunt yourself in public.

If your business is very strong, if your popularity is very good, or your boss appreciates you, you should remain modest and not overly publicize and show off everywhere. You must know that there is a strong hand in the strong. If you come to a colleague who is better than you, then you will become the talk of others.

The true meaning of beauty should be harmony.

This harmony is embodied in the human body, and it creates the beauty of human beings; on the thing, it creates the beauty of things; in the environment, it creates the beauty of the environment.