Rule Of The Office: Please Leave Me 0.5 Meters.

Do you know the rules of the office? Let's take a look at Xiaobian.

1, the right distance can make you look the most beautiful with him.

Good relationship is a good thing.

We come from all corners of the country and come together for a common goal. It is good for us to unite and help each other, but we must remember that colleagues refuse to be intimate.

Colleagues are colleagues, not friends, and friends. In addition to like-minded, loyal character is the most important. Once you choose me, I choose you, mutual trust and loyalty to friendship is the responsibility of both sides.

A colleague is different. Generally speaking, if you don't want to break your own job if you don't create your own business, then you can't choose a colleague unless you work in the personnel department.

Therefore, you can not have too high expectations for your colleagues, otherwise you will easily get into trouble and be easily misunderstood.

The right distance can make you look the most beautiful with him.

2, opposite sex: refuse intimacy.

In the twenty-first Century, there was a very frequent exchange of work between the sexes, and it could no longer be measured by the old concept of male and female acceptance.

Even if married, it does not mean keeping distance from the opposite sex. The two sexes always have to communicate. Moreover, sex work should help improve work efficiency. Therefore, no isolation strategy can be adopted between the sexes.

Refusing intimacy and maintaining a certain psychological distance can prevent you from falling into the trap.

In the ambiguous situation.

3, between the same sex: help each other

Everyone should be friendly in the office, especially in the same sex.

Because everyone comes to work in order to survive. Everyone is under the same roof and feels the same pressure for a common goal. No one can afford to work at all. Therefore, if a partner can be treated with compassion, the relationship will be easy to handle.

4, friendship is better, public and private should be clear.

The distinction between public and private is also one of the killer of friendship.

Perhaps one side thinks that we are so good, why should I be so strict? Even if something happens, it should cover me.

But the other side thinks: knowing that we are so good, we should not embarrass me, do things well, let me explain to them, and should not be old enough to kill me! So no consensus can be reached, which will cause much inconvenience and harm. Especially in public affairs, mistakes and blame will lead to injury, especially when one side is punished by the company.

It is suggested that friends in the office first draw a line at a time to distinguish between the public and private sectors, rather than simply whispering in mind: "how do you do this?

5, never reveal the secrets shared by your colleagues.

The secret is, of course, with some hidden or unwanted secret, based on the trust of a friend, or in order to show his trust in his friends, so that he will reveal all his secrets.

If you hear your private exposure in other population, you don't have to ask, there is only one traitor.

The betrayed man must be annoyed with the friendship and trust he has paid.

If the secret involves third parties, it will make things more difficult.

Therefore, whether it is good intentions or malicious disclosure of secrets is a taboo in office friendship.

6, do not help him or her (her).

Male colleagues suffer from their male colleagues, and their female colleagues are distressed by their female colleagues. They may be too busy to work because of a lot of work. They may stagnate because of too much resistance to their career development and may be frustrated by family disputes.

Most of your colleagues will be evasive when they encounter this situation. In fact, as long as you say something like "I help you", your colleagues may be grateful.

When he or she is in trouble, or if everyone dare not approach, if you can help him or her without any interest, the gratitude in his (her) heart is imaginable.

For a colleague of the same sex, maybe you are as good as a sister, but if you are complaining,

Despite the fact that occasionally some "complaining" can create an illusion of "office friendships", endless complaints can make people miserable around them.

Perhaps you regard complaints as a way of being honest, but the end of complaints can be sublimated into anger.

People will wonder if you are so dissatisfied with the status quo, why don't you just change your environment and go away.

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