People Who Job Hopping Prefer To Be Naked.

There are many job hopping people who prefer to speak naked. Before that, I hope the following articles will help you.

1. what should we do mentally and materially before "naked words"?

Recently, a formula has been popular on the Internet: "courage + financial power + talent" = happy "naked words".

In fact, this formula itself tells us that we need to reserve before "naked words". Let's take a look at it one by one.

First of all, courage. In a popular way, we need to think clearly.

The biggest obstacle to making any decisions is inner entanglement.

If you do not think clearly about a problem, causing yourself to repeatedly tangled, it will be a great loss of inner energy.

One of the simplest examples is "want to eat and be afraid of fat". Maybe women feel more deeply about this: when they eat, they always think that they will be fat, so eating itself is from one kind.

Become a kind of torture, after eating, people will fall into regret or self blame, the direct result is either to degrade their self-control or simply give up weight loss plan.

To sum up, it is not to feel the enjoyment of food, but also to bear the bad results.

Therefore, "naked words" is also the same, with entangled "naked words", the result is bound to regret in entanglement.

Next is financial power, which is the most basic material foundation.

You can leave the company smartly, but when you get home, you have to face the situation of being unable to make ends meet: eating, drinking, sleeping and sleeping, every expense will not be less, or even increase.

So before you go naked, you should have at least some basic financial support.

My personal view is that your expected spending and actual financial reserves should at least reach 1:2 ratio. That is to say, if you predict that you will have a blank period of 1 months after you have spoken naked, you should at least reserve two months' expenses for yourself.

In this way, when facing emergencies, such as finding a job is not smooth or suddenly ill, you can deal with it freely.

This is especially important in China, which is relatively unsound in social security.

The last point is talent.

This is actually the core of "naked words". After all, at this moment you are smart again, and you still have to face the pressure of finding jobs at the next moment.

Before "naked words", we should know what abilities we have and the value of these abilities in the market.

If you know yourself and know your enemy, you will never be able to fight a war. You will not be able to disrupt your position and rhythm when you are looking for a job without knowing what you are going to do.

Another thing to add is the support of family members.

After all, naked words may be your own choice, but it may take the whole family behind.

Therefore, it is very important to get support from family members.

It is better to reach a consensus with your family: how long do you plan to give your blank period or adjustment period? If the job is not successful, how long is the family's longest patience? If you have enough communication with your family ahead of time, you will avoid "backyard fire".

2. what are the situations that deserve our "naked words" without hesitation?

Nowadays, we can find out that many people have the urge to "bare words" through the forum and micro-blog.

But after "naked words", they will give themselves.

Open up a new world, or will you let yourself fall into the bottleneck and lose your identity? Facing the uncertainty of the future, should we be "hardworking" or should we "express our gratitude and revenge"? What are the circumstances that are worth our "naked words" without hesitation?

Let me make a comparison on this issue. In fact, "naked words" are very similar to divorce. They are not at home.

Of course, it is also clear that there is a "master of love" who has prepared for a rainy day.

However, most people are afraid to recall the two employment after divorce.

Let's think about this: what circumstances will a person choose to divorce without hesitation? I think everyone's answer will be different, but to sum up, the core is: to stay on again, constantly losing energy and self worth, and even feel that I am not confident enough to face the future.

Is this similar to the mentality of the "naked" family in the workplace? We insist on doing a job. The continuation of time is just external representation. But once your intrinsic sense of worth and self-confidence are constantly being damaged in your career, your professional persistence will become a persecution. The longer you continue, the greater the damage will be to you, and eventually your inner energy will dry up.

And it can cause damage to you, or it is a exhausting job with great pressure, or is it a "dead time" job that takes time to work.

So, when we go back to the question itself, when should we not hesitate to say "naked words"? My answer is: when you think you can't do it again, you can't change the status quo, it's time for you to make up your mind to jump out of the cage.

Finally, I want to clarify one thing: in fact, the word "naked" is a neutral word in itself. Objectively, it does not equate with negative words such as "failure". Most enterprises do not particularly obsessed with whether or not "naked" before an applicant.

As an individual, the most important thing is to have a good career plan and a clear development plan instead of parting with others, worrying about the gains and losses, and finally losing the initiative to grasp the career development.

3. how to explain to HR the long or short "blank period" when looking for a job interview?

As I mentioned before, the word "naked word" is a neutral word in itself. Moreover, "naked words" are not new.

However, when there is a "blank period", we still need some skills to face HR queries.

First, honesty is always the most basic principle. Never look for reasons that do not exist at all and deceive HR.

What you need to understand is that the HR responsible for hiring is interviewing and reading countless people every day, so once you tell some very common excuses, such as caring for your family and helping your friend's company, HR will confirm your statement again and again in the next interview. Once you are seen, the interview will be over.

So, instead of being secretive, it is better to say frankly the reasons for your "naked voice" and what adjustments you made in this blank period.

Second, although the interview should be honest, do not be too sincere.

There is a difference between honesty and honesty.

When I was doing HR, I interviewed many "nude" candidates.

In fact, HR is most concerned about the reason for "naked words". After all, once you have "naked words", you are even a "criminal record" person. HR is also afraid that you will have another "Yesterday OnceMore".

Therefore, in the face of HR's inquiries about "naked words", we must not push our responsibilities completely.

A reasonable response is to objectively explain the situation at that time. "Naked words" may have corporate problems or may have their own problems, but the most important thing is whether you have realized your problems and what reflection or action you have taken to do so.

It is the basic principle to show honestly, but not to complain honestly.

After "naked words", each person's mental journey is different, but generally they can not escape from the following three periods: (1) the initial resentment period of "naked words"; (2) after a period of "naked words", there is no rush period for work (3) and then the confused period.

So, what should we do in the three periods?

(1) the initial resentment period of "naked words".

In this period, the most important thing to do is to adjust our mindset as soon as possible so that we can get out of the bad mood of the previous job as soon as possible.

Because the longer you immerse yourself in this emotion, the more serious your emotions will be fermented, and the more damage your heart will cause.

In fact, this thing is a bit like "psychological stop loss". Since it has been lost, there is no need to tangled up. "Don't cry over spilled milk," that's the reason.

At this stage, you can go away and start some hobbies that are good choices.

(2) after a period of "naked words", the crazy period of work can not be found.

If we encounter this period unfortunately, there is no need to panic.

On the one hand, you should try to maintain a regular life, so that you can keep yourself in a better position to deal with the interview opportunities at any time.

Don't turn black and white, day and night, people are tired or very decadent state, it is very difficult to show normal in the interview.

On the other hand, we should constantly sum up the experience of writing resume and participating in the interview.

Frankly speaking, the interview is also a skilled job. You have to figure out what a company doesn't want for you.

Is there a mistake in your resume or fail to show your work experience in the interview? If you can sum up every time you reflect, you will soon learn something.

(3) the confused period.

If you have been "naked" for a few months or have not found a job, you will probably enter this period.

If you are already in this period, it is very likely that the problem itself is not solved by your own efforts.

My advice is to talk to a professional person, such as a career planner, to see where the problem lies.

Most of the time, it's a "spectator and a spectator." a professional career planner can help you clarify your thinking.

At this stage, do not seek the right way to evaluate your current state objectively, help experts find the crux of the problem, and act quickly.

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