Eye Contact In Interpersonal Communication

In interpersonal communication, eye contact plays an important role in information pmission.

Different eyes reflect different psychology and produce different psychological effects.

There are various manifestations: those who are suddenly taken away by others when they are watching are mostly self abased and have a different sense of shame.

Those who can't focus their attention on the other side and quickly withdraw their sight are mostly introverted and incommunicative.

While listening to other people's speech, they nod their heads but do not focus their attention on the speaker.

When you talk, you should focus your eyes on the eyes and face of the other person, and be sincere listening, respecting and understanding.

Only pay attention to the work in your hands, do not look at the other side's speech, is the neglect, cold, absent-minded reveal.

Looking up at each other is respect and trust; overlooking others is intentional to maintain their dignity.

Watching each other with a smile is a cordial understanding; watching others with frown is anxiety and sympathy.

It is a kind of cynicism to look at the other side, but a sudden smile is a kind of sarcasm. Suddenly a round eye is a warning or a stop. It is a kind of scrutiny to inspect others from head to toe.

The two people who feel good about each other speak more gaze at each other's eyes to show their meaning. When people meet with no intention, they usually try to avoid looking at the other person's eyes to dispel their displeasure.

Some people like to wear sunglasses in communication, even when indoors or under shadow, they do not take off their glasses because they do not want others to discover his secret from his eyes.

However, wearing dark glasses to contact with people, eyes can not be equal contact, will cause some diaphragms and displeasure.

The eye and mind of a man's eyes is a noticeable topic in communication. It is valuable to pay attention to the application in practice.

If you want to leave a deep impression on the other person, you should gaze at him for a long time to show his confidence.

If you want to win in arguing with each other, you must not turn your gaze away to show your firmness.

If you don't know why others are looking at you, you need to pay attention to his facial expressions for a little while.

If you meet others and feel uncomfortable, you have to turn your gaze away and reduce your displeasure.

If you talk with others, he is careless and appears closed eyes posture, you have to know the suspension. If you want to communicate effectively, you must act on your own initiative.

If you want to establish a good understanding with others, you should look at each other at 60%-70% time. The location of your eyes is the triangular area between your eyes and your mouth, so that the connection of information will be understood correctly and effectively.

If you want to be successful in your interactions, especially with strangers, you should look at each other's speeches with anticipation, not only humble, but also smile and eye contact. This is a gentle and effective way.